In today's era of social proliferation, we often encounter a "solipsistic" type of social interaction - the kind of person who is eager to sell himself and always wants to have the upper hand in the discourse. They may be motivated by the desire for success, or because of their inner inferiority complex and insecurity, and choose such a seemingly strong but weak way of communication. But in fact, this kind of behavior that emphasizes the self too much and rushes to perform does not necessarily win the real initiative most of the time.
The essence of social networking is communication, the collision and integration of ideas, rather than unilateral display and indoctrination. Solipsists tend to ignore this, overconfident that their ideas and opinions are the only right ones, and are eager to impose those views on others. However, such practices are often resented by others, as no one wants to be seen as passive recipients, especially in an open, equal social environment.
People who are eager to sell themselves often lack real self-confidence. They try to gain the approval of others by constantly emphasizing their abilities and achievements, but true self-confidence comes from inner peace and self-knowledge. A truly confident person will not rush to prove himself, because they know that their worth is not defined by the approval of others.
In addition, overly eager pitches often lead to an imbalance in communication. In a normal conversation, both parties should take turns speaking and listening to each other. But if one party is always babbling about themselves, the other party will naturally feel ignored and suppressed, and such a conversation will naturally be difficult to sustain.
Therefore, solipsistic socialization is not a wise communication strategy. A true social master who knows how to maintain a balance in communication, both to present himself and to respect others. They understand that true initiative is not earned by suppressing others, but by sincere, equal communication.