The wisdom of old age: the wise act of not being disliked by children, the years are like flowing water, silently taking away our youth, leaving traces of old age. As we enter old age, how to live a dignified and valuable life in this twilight stage of life has become a major issue in front of us. In this process, how not to be disliked by children, the following aspects are smart moves for the elderly.
1. We need to understand that old age does not mean the end of life, but a new beginning. In this new beginning, we need to re-examine our lives and find a new way of life and value proposition. Hygiene and proper dress are essential. A clean and tidy old man is not only respectful of himself, but also of others and society.
2Let us protect our bodies so that we do not cause trouble to our children. The body is the capital of the revolution, and only a healthy body can allow us to better enjoy our old age. We should pay attention to exercise, maintain a reasonable diet, regular physical examination, and timely detection and disease. Only in this way can we remain independent and autonomous in our old age and not let our children worry about us.
3. Getting along with your wife is also an important part of your old life. We should cherish the time we spend with our spouses, take care of each other and support each other. In the company of each other, we can not only feel the warmth of home, but also face the challenges of life together.
4. In terms of money, we should guard our money and not easily reach out to our children. This is not to say that we should be stingy or distant from our children, but that we should maintain a sense of independence and self-respect. We need to have our own livelihood** and savings, so that we can be self-sufficient in times of need and not burden our children.
5. We must also guard our mouths and be cautious in our words and deeds. In old age, our words and actions often have a profound impact on our children. Therefore, we should pay attention to our words and attitudes to avoid destroying the harmonious atmosphere of the family because of some unnecessary disputes and misunderstandings.
6. Living alone with your wife is also a good choice. The right distance can produce beauty, allowing us to enjoy the warmth and love of family while maintaining our independence. This will not only reduce the burden on our children, but also allow us to maintain a state of freedom and ease in our later years.
7. In the face of aging and disease, we must face up to reality, do not compare, do not complain, and do not be pessimistic. Everyone gets old, it's a natural law. We need to face aging and illness with a positive attitude and maintain a contented heart. Only in this way can we maintain an optimistic and uplifting state of mind in old age.
8. We must also understand the pressure and difficulties of our children's lives. They have their own careers and families and may not be able to be there for us all the time. Therefore, we should minimize our dependence and troubles on them, so that they can work and live with peace of mind.
9. In old age, we also need to have a clear mind and wise choices. When faced with a serious illness, we should fully communicate and negotiate with our children and make oral medical advice. When necessary, we must be brave enough to give up** and not to bring too much pain and burden to ourselves and our children.
Finally, let's understand that no matter how prominent we may have been, death is the fairest thing in the world. We are all equal at the end of life. Therefore, we must cherish the beauty and preciousness of every moment of life, and use wisdom and courage to face the challenges and opportunities of old age.
In short, old age life is an art, and how to maintain one's dignity and value while not being disliked by their children is a problem that every elderly person needs to face and think about. I hope that every elderly person can find their own happiness and satisfaction in their later life, and use wisdom and courage to write their own wonderful chapter. At the same time, it is also hoped that all sectors of society can pay more attention to and respect the elderly, and create a more friendly and inclusive living environment for them.