Sometimes missing out may be to meet someone better. When mentioning He Zhengjun's name, many people may be unfamiliar with it, but once they see the TV series he starred in, they suddenly realize that the other party is an old acquaintance. From the "Tian Han" in "National Anthem" to the "political commissar" who fought against "Li Yunlong" in "Bright Sword", He Zhengjun moved forward in the film and television industry unhurriedly according to his own pace. 
Compared with his ordinary film and television career, his love life is more curious, with a face of "peach blossoms", which has attracted the attention of countless female classmates, including Gong Li, a superstar who became famous at home and abroad. But in the end, he still chose his girlfriend Fan Yu, who has been by his side all the time, has been married for many years but has never had any scandals, and guarded his wife for the rest of his life. What is He Zhengjun's love journey like? 01 Sometimes being too handsome is also a kind of distress. 
With thick eyebrows and big eyes, an angular face, and standard facial features, such a face is completely born for the screen, and He Zhengjun is indeed very interested in acting and entered the ** Drama Academy to study. As soon as he entered the school, a storm was set off in an instant, and a very handsome freshman arrived at the school, and the news instantly spread throughout the campus. Many girls are scrambling to see the true face of the handsome guy, and then leave satisfied, and on the way they are chatting with their girlfriends about embarrassing topics. Obviously, he can rely on his appearance, but he also depends on his talent, He Zhengjun also plays the guitar well, which makes his charm soar, and he has become the dream lover of countless female classmates. 
He Zhengjun is too popular, which makes his roommates Zhang Guangbei and Ni Dahong bitter, the two are like "flower messengers", for fear that He Zhengjun will be "eaten alive", and at the same time, the two also did the work of "messengers" to help convey affection. Every day, many female classmates run to He Zhengjun's dormitory, today it is Gong Li, tomorrow it is Wu Yujuan, the day after tomorrow it is Jin Lili, and after two days, it will become Shi Ke again, every day is not the same, but these two roommates are "greedy". But who made the two of them not as handsome as He Zhengjun, the female classmates were willing to play with He Zhengjun, and the women were too good and a little distressed. Don't look at He Zhengjun with a "scumbag face", but that's just an illusion, in fact, this is an honest child, and he hasn't even held the little girl's hand. 
is also very passive emotionally, even Gong Li has confessed to him, but He Zhengjun has been hesitating, thinking that the school is forbidden to fall in love, so he has been dragging it out. When Gong Li was about to leave the campus to film, He Zhengjun began to hesitate and entanglement again, and finally mustered up the courage to run to the train station, but unfortunately the beauty had already left. If He Zhengjun can be decisive, if Gong Li can wait for him any longer, maybe the ending of the two will be rewritten. But the reality is that Gong Li became an instant hit with "Red Sorghum" and became a hot star, while He Zhengjun is just a newcomer in the film and television industry, and the gap between the two is too big. Everything is fate, and you can't force it. 
02 fate can't stop it, 28-year-old He Zhengjun met Fan Yu, who was 6 years younger than him, in the crew. The other party is still a fledgling newcomer, and He Zhengjun also has a little experience in acting, and often tells Fan Yu about acting. Whenever this time, Fan Yu will obediently hold a small bench to listen to the teachings of "**", one person teaches, one person listens, the atmosphere between the two is getting better and better, and the relationship between each other is getting closer and closer. He Zhengjun will say good things for Fan Yu in front of the director, and Fan Yu will also block the wine for him at the crew's dinner, as if there is a thick marriage line that tightly binds the two. 
Looking at the smiling woman in front of him, He Zhengjun's heart suddenly pounded, and he realized that he had fallen in love! Eat a trench and grow wise, he missed Gong Li because of indecision before, and this time he wants to fight for his happiness. If you don't work hard, you won't know that happiness is just around the corner. He Zhengjun plucked up the courage to confess to Fan Yu, and Fan Yu also had a good impression of the tall, handsome and gentle man in front of him, and the two came together without accident. There is no happiest thing in the world than that I like you, and you happen to like me. This scene was filmed from summer to autumn, and it also created a precious three months of time for the two to get along. After that, the two went their separate ways and started a long long-distance relationship. 
If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight, the two exchanged each other's recent information through letters, and He Zhengjun took the train to find his girlfriend whenever he had time. The cabinet can no longer hold the letters accumulated over the years, and just buying a train ticket will cost He Zhengjun's hard-earned 40,000 yuan, but in order to marry a wife, it is all worth it. The distance did not weaken the relationship between the two, but made each other confirm that the other party was the right person. Fan Yu ended up marrying this man who had nothing, which was a big gamble, and fortunately He Zhengjun didn't let her lose. 
03 At this time, He Zhengjun was only an eighteenth-tier actor in the film and television industry, and he was not famous, and he and his wife could only nest in a 9-square-meter house. Even though his wife never complained, He Zhengjun still vowed to give his wife a better life. But the career cannot be achieved overnight, on this road, He Zhengjun has failed too many times, just when he is discouraged, his wife is always the first to find the emotion, patiently comfort and accompany him. Without a wife, maybe there would be no political army now. 
Although He Zhengjun has never been popular, he has also practiced good acting skills through small roles, just waiting for an opportunity to come. And this opportunity will soon come, a "Bright Sword" not only brought fire to Li Youbin, but He Zhengjun also won the recognition and love of the audience with his superb acting skills. He was finally able to fulfill his original vow and give his wife a better living environment. Whenever he felt tired, when he came home and saw his wife's busy figure in the kitchen, and saw the hot meals on the table, his fatigue was swept away and he was full of strength. 
Meeting the right people will only make people better and better. He Zhengjun was lucky to meet his wife who was willing to accompany him to endure hardships, and at the same time he did not live up to his wife's dedication, even if he had been in the entertainment industry for many years, he did not make any scandals, and he only had his wife in his heart. Even though the two have been married for many years, it seems that they have been in a period of love, and the relationship has not faded in time, but has become stronger and stronger. "What my wife is right is right, and what is wrong is also right, and everything is right." He Zhengjun is simply a "benchmark of male morality", with this consciousness, it is no wonder that he can live a prosperous life! There is nothing more beautiful about love than this!