1. We can't make the traffic lights turn green in an instant, and we can't make the cold winter instantly transition to the warm spring. But we can change our mindset and face those unsatisfactory moments in life with a relaxed mood.
2. Believe that everyone who appears in our lives has a reason. Those who encourage us, let us believe in ourselves and have the motivation to move forward. Those who make things difficult for us learn to block out the distractions of others and concentrate on doing our own thing. We don't have to hate anyone, because resentment hurts our own hearts. Thank you for all the encounters, they are the ones who came to cross us.
3. There are countless areas worth exploring in life, and we need to be a little more curious and less persistent in the results in order to have a rich and interesting life experience.
4. Only when we find happiness ourselves can we bring happiness to more people. If we only want happiness from others, we tend to get only disappointment.
5. The true sense of security is not given by others, nor by external objects, but by our own wisdom. When we are always worried about the future, when we are always staring at the seemingly happy life of others, we cannot gain a sense of security.
6. The ideal life will not fall from the sky, and the road of life depends on our own step by step. When we know exactly what we want to live, we know where to go.
7. Don't worry beforehand, don't be afraid of things, and forget afterwards. You don't have to worry too much about the future, you need to deal with things calmly when you encounter them, and you don't have to think about them repeatedly. If we can do these three things, our troubles in life will be greatly reduced.
8. When we encounter bad things, our first reaction is often to complain or be angry. But if we think about how to turn it into a good thing, we have the potential to find a whole new way out. When we have the ability to turn all kinds of bad things into good things, there will naturally be fewer and fewer bad things in life.
9. When we find something worth doing for a lifetime, then it is likely to become the most powerful pillar in our life. If we do this well, our lives will be no different.
10. To do a good job, the most important thing is often not to make a perfect plan, but to take the first step. When our feet are actually on the road, we really start to move towards our destination.
11. In the final analysis, life is not about who has more wealth, but who has a better mentality. If you have a bad mentality, no matter how much wealth you have, it will be difficult to be happy. The mentality is good, and the food and drink are also happy.
12. People who regard life as a game only win or lose in their hearts, and only be happy for a while when they win, it is difficult to truly enjoy life. People who see life as a journey are relaxed and happy in their hearts, know how to appreciate the scenery on the road, and happiness can appear at any time.
13. A selfish person will see everyone as if they were like him. His life will be full of calculations, and it will be difficult to achieve happiness.
14. Neither the self we see nor the us we see in the eyes of others are really ourselves. Only what we see as others is who we really are. Good people will see the goodness of others, and selfish people will see the selfishness of others. The others we see are actually shadows of our innermost selves.
15. What kind of life we want to live is the direction of life. What kind of person we want to be is the direction of life.