Because the raider had a cloud and rain relationship with Baoyu, and Mrs. Wang also set her as Baoyu's aunt, the raider also understood her position in her heart.
Because of this, after seeing Sister Feng's treatment of Second Sister You and Qiu Tong, and also seeing Xia Jingui's treatment of Xiangling, he couldn't help but think of himself. She felt that she would also be a concubine for Baoyu in the future, and if Baoyu married a woman like Sister Feng or Xia Jingui, then her own fate would be the same as that of Second Sister You and Xiangling, and she couldn't help but worry about her future.
Although the attacker hopes that the future grandmother of Bao Er is Bao Chai, this cannot be decided by her. She relied on her usual appearance, as well as the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu since childhood, she thought that Baoyu would marry Daiyu more likely. But in the eyes of the attacker, Daiyu is the most careful, and I don't know what kind of attitude she has towards the concubine, so the attacker went to Daiyu to find out the wind with his heart.
With Daiyu's cleverness, she immediately found that the attacker was different from usual, although she couldn't imagine that the attacker regarded herself as the main room of Baoyu in the future, but she was also a little cautious.
When the attacker told the story of Second Sister You, Daiyu was a little confused. Because in Daiyu's eyes, the attacker is virtuous, not the person who said these words behind her back, so she moved in her heart. The original text reads:
Daiyu has never seen an attacker talk about people behind her back, and now there must be a reason for hearing her words, so she said: It's hard to say this, as long as it's a family thing, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind. ”Daiyu did not express her own point of view in this statement, but ambiguously said that things in the family are like this, either you are strong and I am weak, or I am strong and you are weak, there is nothing to discuss. What's more, Daiyu didn't want to talk about right and wrong behind people, and what she was talking about was the affairs of Sister Feng and Aunt Xue's family, with Daiyu's cultivation, she wouldn't say much, so she didn't express any opinions.
But the attacker originally wanted to talk to her, but she didn't understand it when she heard this, and thought that Daiyu had hinted that she shouldn't fight. Later, Aunt Xue's mother-in-law came over to disturb her for a while, and it was not easy to bring up the conversation again, so she had to leave sullenly.
In fact, attacking people is really a villain's heart. She thought that Daiyu would not be able to tolerate her, and she would end up like Second Sister You and Xiangling in the future. But is Daiyu such a person?
The love pursued in Daiyu's heart: "The lonely standard is proud of the world, and the same flower blooms late." What she pursues is the fit of the spiritual realm, she minds Baochai everywhere, and guards against Xiangyun, just for fear that they will take away the love between the two hearts.
But jealousy strikes, is she worthy of being Daiyu's opponent? This is too high to look at the attacker, and it is inevitable to look down on Daiyu.
It is true that Daiyu loves Baoyu deeply, but she never cares about Baoyu's concubine at all. Daiyu's own parents had a happy marriage, although the book also said that Lin Ruhai had several concubines, but this did not affect the relationship between Lin Ruhai and Jia Min at all. As a real lady, how can she mind if a girl becomes a concubine?
Daiyu said, "Either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind", because she couldn't get the idea of attacking people. This is also to leave some way back for herself, but Daiyu is definitely not intolerant of attackers. She will not object to Baoyu taking people as concubines, in fact, whether to accept concubines or not, who to accept as concubines, Daiyu does not care.
It's a pity that she doesn't understand Daiyu, she can't understand Daiyu's words, and she can't understand Daiyu's personality. She thought that Baochai was the second grandmother who could tolerate her generously, so she stood on the wrong side, and she was kicked out by Baochai in the future, but she didn't know people clearly, and she suffered by herself.