In "Please Answer 1988", the most distressing thing is Deshan, the second daughter of the family.
Her sister Paula is the eldest daughter, a student at Seoul National University, the highest university, and her parents are very obedient to her. His younger brother Sunset is a young boy and a boy, and his parents baby him.
Only virtue and goodness are sandwiched in the middle, and the grades are ordinary, so they can't get the attention of their parents. Parental partiality is almost unabashed.
When cooking, my mother only cooks two poached eggs, and Deshan always says when she sees it, I don't eat poached eggs. Mom praised her and said that we Deshan like to eat pickled beans the most, and Deshan smiled bitterly.
Younger brother Sunset enthusiastically picks up his dad from work every day. Once, Deshan went out with his younger brother, only to learn that his father bought ice cream for his younger brother to eat every day.
Mom and Dad are calculating the overstretched household, and Paula says that she wants to change her glasses, but in fact she has only been wearing them for a year. Paula said that she couldn't read the blackboard clearly and couldn't study, so her parents stopped objecting.
As soon as Deshan said an objection, her sister grabbed her hair and hit her, and Deshan screamed in pain. Both parents and younger brother turned a blind eye.
Deshan thought that his sister would come home late on Saturday, so he went out in his sister's denim jacket.
Who knew that her sister suddenly came home, and her mother quickly asked Sunset to go to school to find Deshan. Sunset's shout when she sees her second sister makes people think it's the end of the world.
Deshan ran back quickly, and her mother was already waiting for her at the entrance of the alley. Then he flew home and threw his denim jacket in the washing machine.
My sister came in, and my mother said that she had just remembered that it was she who had washed her clothes in the morning. Paula was suspicious, but had nothing to say.
From the level of nervousness of the family over a piece of clothing, you can know how domineering Paula usually is.
Deshan and her sister's birthdays are three days apart, and their parents celebrate their birthdays together, of course, on their sister's birthday. The same cake, the same candle, my sister has finished blowing it, and Deshan will blow it again, so it should be Deshan's birthday.
Deshan often said that he didn't celebrate his birthday with his sister, and his parents always said that he would give her a separate birthday next year, but the next year was the sisters' birthday together.
Deshan is actually very aggrieved. The elder sister is the elder sister and the younger brother is the younger brother because he is the younger brother, and they can enjoy some small privileges and care.
Deshan thought that her selflessness and sacrifice were known to her parents, but they ignored her feelings.
Deshan couldn't help but cry to his father, who finally realized that his partiality had hurt Deshan.
He waited for Deshan on the way from school, bought her a cake alone, and celebrated Deshan's birthday alone.
Dad said, Dad, I wasn't born to be a dad, and Dad was also a dad for the first time. So my daughter is a little more considerate.
The father and daughter finally untied the knot. Yes, between family members, what does it matter if you understand it or not, it is not the smart head that finally eliminates the barrier, but the heart, but the heart that holds hands and resolutely does not let go.
One girl said that as long as her brother was not at home, her parents would stop stir-frying meat at noon. When eating shrimp, her mother peeled a lot of shrimp for her brother, and the younger brother said that he couldn't eat it, so her mother gave her the peeled shrimp to eat.
Another blogger was heartbroken by her eccentric mother, and she said that the saying that only my mother is good in the world is a joke to me.
A dad did a very good job, he had three children, and he was as fair as possible to his children.
He said, Mom and Dad give each of you not one-third, but one hundred percent.
Many parents often say that the palms and backs of the hands are full of meat. However, good things are held in the palm of the hand, and the back of the hand will always resist everything.
Few people doubt the love of their parents, but the damage caused to a child by the partiality of a parent can even affect a child's life.
No one is born to be a parent, and the role of a parent needs to be learned. Just be as fair as possible and consider how each child feels.
May every family be filled with love!