When I watched the snail house, I always didn't like Haiping, and the tragic ending of the seaweed had a lot to do with her.
As an older sister, she should love and teach her younger sister, but in the end, for her own selfish desires, she brought seaweed step by step to the point of no return.
If you want to say that she is good for seaweed, there are also yes. For example, what should have been abandoned after Seaweed was born was Haiping who insisted on keeping her sister and bringing her up. Seaweed went to school in Haiping's city, and Haiping took good care of her, leaving her with anything delicious.
Although they are sisters, their relationship is better than that of mother and daughter. This is also why seeing Haiping's difficult life, complaining and quarreling all day long, Haizao will feel so uncomfortable, and she can't wait to clear all the obstacles for Haiping and let her live happily.
In her heart, Haiping is the first place. It's a pity that in the heart of my sister Haiping, the first thing is the house.
In order to curry favor with Song Siming, the owner of the real estate company where Seaweed works deliberately gave Seaweed a promotion and a salary increase.
Seaweed has just entered society, and I instinctively feel uneasy about such a pie-in-the-sky thing. So I called Haiping to discuss what to do.
What did Haiping say? Haiping, who has worked hard in the workplace for many years, actually thinks that this is a good thing, it is a fool not to take money if she has money, and she doesn't care what the boss has in mind.
My sister is rich, which means that she will have greater help in her future life, which is indeed a good thing for Haiping.
Seaweed used to be called out by the boss to accompany customers to eat, drink, dance or something, according to her words, it was almost to sleep together, and even precious weekend time had to be occupied.
Obviously, the boss is not right, and suddenly the bodhisattva is hearty, obviously not holding back any good fart.
Seaweed has no ability, no background, in addition to a young body, what else is worth the boss's attention?
Why doesn't Haiping warn seaweed to pay attention? Maybe she has a fluke mentality in her heart, compared to the unknown danger, the immediate benefits are the most real.
Not long after seaweed entered the society, it was simply ignorant and had not yet formed its own outlook on life and values.
She is still in the stage of observing and learning about the people and things around her, and her sister Seaweed has always been a guiding light on her life path.
But Haiping is not a good teacher, she lives her life in a mess, complaining all day long that men are useless, can't make money, and can't afford to buy a house.
The values she conveyed to Seaweed are: if a woman wants to live happily, she must find someone who must be rich and be able to provide a house.
It's hard to imagine that these words come out of the mouth of a highly educated person who has graduated from a prestigious school. In her eyes, the only thing a woman can rely on is a man, and it is no wonder that she has worked for so many years, except for empty words saying that she wants to live in a big villa and make a lot of money, the rest of the time she is full of complaints.
In addition to self-internal friction, she never thought of improving her ability to make money, and pinned all her hopes on her husband Su Chun.
Some people may say that she is angry, but it is precisely the angry words that can show the truest thoughts in her heart.
Haiping's own life has failed, and Seaweed, who regards her as a life mentor, is affected by her, and her three views will only be distorted.
Their mother said that Haiping has dared to rush since she was a child, and her personality is like that of a boy, while Haizao is cowardly and timid, and going out is the most unsettling.
If it weren't for the cover of their sister Haiping, their parents would definitely not agree with Haizao working alone in a different place.
But who would have thought that it was the most timid child who would do the most daring thing. The reason why she came to this point, in addition to Haiping's influence, she also tasted the sweetness later, so she gradually fell.
She approached Song Siming, didn't she borrow money for Haiping in the first place?
If Haiping knew Song Siming's thoughts, she could decisively refuse the 60,000 yuan and send the seaweed back to her hometown, there would not be so many things later.
But her selfishness dominates, although there is family affection, but seeing Seaweed interacting with rich men, her life can be much better. The persuasion of righteous words is just scratching the itch of the boots and making a show.
With her daring character, if she really doesn't want to do something, ten cows can't pull her back.
After graduating from university, Haizao wanted to go back to her hometown, but Haiping persuaded her to stay in Jiangzhou. What do you want to do with it? Does she have a good job introduction or does she know a high-quality man to recommend?
She herself has had a hard time for many years haha, what reason is there to keep seaweed? The reason is that if you don't stay, you will suffer from 4 years of college.
In the end, Haizao listened to Haiping's words more, stayed and became a social animal in a big city, working hard every day, and even eating a meal of meat was a luxury.
She left the seaweed behind, didn't have any plan for her, went with the flow, and relied on her own efforts, and still suffered the same.
Seaweed is the eldest in the family, and she really doesn't like to endure hardship. Just force yourself to be sensible and cater to the needs of others.
In fact, if you think about it, the only beneficiary of seaweed staying in Jiangzhou is Haiping.
If seaweed returns to its hometown and lives with its parents, it will naturally enjoy more resources. Her parents may subsidize her financially, and the house will be left to her, and in the end, Haiping will get less.
Secondly, Haiping is far away from home, working hard outside, it is inevitable that she will be lonely, and she has the desire to talk.
She can't believe outsiders, and the only person she can talk to is seaweed. This child was brought up by her since she was a child, and she has always listened to her, and she can pour out her dissatisfaction and resentment in her heart.
In the end, she is powerless to change her life, and Seaweed is young and has unlimited possibilities in the future, in case she marries a rich man, this is undoubtedly her last chance to turn around and change her life.
This is not alarmism, there are similar situations in reality.
Happy Girls' Day
Friend Yang Xue was not liked by her family when she was a child, but after work, her sister suddenly changed her degree and took good care of her, with a close attitude of eldest sister, which made her feel the long-lost family affection.
Her sister said, both of us are working in other places, far away from home, it is better for you to come to work with me, and take care of each other in the future and be each other's mother's family.
So she quit her job and went to work in the city where her sister lived.
Her sister's husband was in business, and he didn't do well at first, and the flow of funds was not enough. So her sister often complained to her, saying that the money in hand was not enough.
couldn't bear to see her sister live a hard life, so she lent all her savings to her sister. Not only that, but her sister also said that you can't spend much money every month, and the rest of the money will be lent to me first, and when your brother-in-law's company grows and grows in the future, you will definitely be recruited to work.
She said that she didn't care about the future, she just wanted to repay her sister for her kindness. So she saved money and lent all the money she saved to her sister, and in five or six years, she had more than 100,000 yuan.
Now that I think about it, her sister's kindness to her, that is, to cook a delicious meal during the New Year's holidays, and ask her to come over for dinner, most of the other time, is to complain.
Her sister complained that her husband was useless, that her in-laws were selfish, that her children were disobedient, and that she didn't even have the skills to interject.
Some words were repeated over and over again, and her sister said them dozens of times, which made people have a headache to hear.
She went to be a guest, and her sister said that if she came to the door empty-handed, her parents-in-law would be unhappy, and as her mother's family, her sister wanted to earn face for her. So she bought a gift every time.
Even the delicious food issued by the company, she was reluctant to eat it, so she gave it to her sister's family.
When she got married and needed money to buy a house, her sister repaid 40,000 yuan on the grounds that she had no money in hand. And it didn't take long for her sister's family to buy a small two-room apartment.
She asked her sister, you have the money to buy a house, why don't you know how to pay back the money you owe me?
Her sister said, I am also for your own good, your husband's family is poor and white, in case you divorce one day, the money you leave with me can still come in handy.
Yang Xue was speechless, is it not an investment if she has money to buy a house? Isn't it better than putting half a penny in your hand without interest?
In the end, she asked for the money back in a tough way, and the two of them tore their faces. Later, her sister took the initiative to reconcile once, but the ultimate goal was to borrow money, and Yang Xue decisively refused.
She understands that family affection will shrink in the face of interests and reality, and suddenly people who are good to you are likely to want to take advantage of you.
Stay away from your loved ones who are always complaining, because they transfer their negative energy to you, which will affect your own fortune.
Don't overestimate your abilities, the most important thing is to live your life well