Hello everyone, I am a mother of two children who have had two marriages, I have left the workplace for 3 years, since I have a second child and a full-time home with a baby, I can also live a worry-free life, I also thought that after starting again, I found the man who can accompany me for the rest of my life, in fact, it was all good at the beginning, so good that it was impeccable, so good that I thought I had picked up a treasure. The reality is that whether it is a relationship or a marriage is going downhill, it depends on whether the mentality can be converted, I was only 23 years after the end of the first marriage, and I returned to my parents' house alone with my daughter, and it was only the beginning of those two years that were particularly difficult and hard, because my original family was my father's alcoholism and love to find trouble, my mother was too weak, and my mother was also a bitter person, I was born without a mother, and I was abused and beaten by my father all my life, my first marriage failure cannot be said to have no responsibility of the original family, Not only yes but also big, I was not loved by my family since I was a child, and my parents often quarreled and fought, so you can imagine my growth.
When I became an adult, I wanted to leave home, the farther away the better, I had the idea of working across provinces, one south and one north, more than 2,000 kilometers, my first marriage also chose such a far place, at that time, I didn't look at the man's family, I didn't look at the man's life experience, I felt that I had escaped from home, someone loved you, but it backfired, the fate of not being valued, not understood, and not being treated favorably also found me, and finally failed.
In the next 10 years, I worked hard, and I gave my children a more satisfying life, until I met my current husband, his preference, his fun, and his family background are all in line with all my yearning for men, although it is not so good, but it is really much better for me, I resolutely stayed with him, and gave him a son, he worked well before him, and his career was also thriving after being together, so it has been 4 years, I don't know since when, We quarreled more and more, before all of them were safe and had nothing to do, just at the beginning of this year, the quarrel escalated again, I found that people are really in countless quarrels, slowly on marriage, gradually disappointed in the people around them, people are really in a moment, a certain point of touch, these two months I suddenly found that people will indeed change completely in an instant, as long as he completely tears his original face, you know that people's hearts can be described as, even if they were in love before, from now on can only go together will not be concentric.
Although I was a little bitter alone, I was able to have fun in the bitterness, as long as I had a lot of happy times with my children, now I have an extra burden, I can't let go, I can't be ruthless, but I can't be happy. I've been depressed and healed many times, and I need to pick myself up again.
34 years old, no diploma, no background, no connections, confused, I know what I want, but the reality finally slapped me in the face, I want to be independent, I want to have my own life, I want to achieve financial freedom, I think too much, too much......
I hope that friends who read my article, I have no objection to living together before marriage, because divorce is much more expensive than breaking up, and you are still single after the breakup, but after the divorce you are a hot potato. If someone who has the ability can pull me along, I am willing to go to the soup to repay you.
I hope you will pay more attention to me. Can give me some support.