Who doesn't want to be blessed in life? Blessing is an indescribable thing, and sometimes seemingly inconspicuous little things can bring unexpected good fortune to people. As the old saying goes, if a man is not blessed, there will be a bad omen. It's a wake-up call to life, a reminder to cherish our blessings and not let them slip away. So, how can you continue your blessings?
The way to continue blessings is actually very simple, that is, to do more good deeds, to be cautious, and to observe the context of blessings and misfortunes. To do more good deeds is to do more things that are beneficial to yourself and others, such as helping others, donating to the poor, protecting the environment, spreading positive energy, and so on. These good deeds can not only bring happiness and warmth to others, but also accumulate good karma for oneself and increase good fortune. To be cautious is to pay attention to your words and deeds, and not to do things that hurt yourself or others, such as cheating, betrayal, slander, violence, etc. These evil deeds will not only bring pain and harm to others, but will also bring evil retribution to oneself and reduce blessings. To observe the context of fortune and misfortune is to understand that one's own blessings and disasters are determined by one's own cause and effect, not to blame everything on fate or others, but to find the cause from one's own heart and behavior, so as to improve one's own situation.
If we can do this, we will be able to continue our blessings and enjoy the beauty of life. However, if we ignore these, we may encounter signs of loss of blessings and send our lives downhill. So, what are these signals?
The first signal is that there are many family conflicts and husbands and wives quarreling endlessly. Family is the harbor of life, our closest partner and dearest loved one. If the family is harmonious, we can get the most sincere love and the strongest support, and we can feel at ease and warmth no matter how difficult the outside world is. However, if the family is not in harmony, we will lose the most important support and the most precious emotion, and no matter how beautiful the outside world is, we will feel lonely and indifferent. Family conflicts are often due to the lack of communication, understanding, trust, respect and other aspects due to the disagreement between the personalities, concepts, interests, and habits of both parties. If it is not resolved in time, it will lead to more quarrels and even lead to separation, divorce, and family breakdown. This is a loss of blessing and a sad end. As Leo Tolstoy said, "All happy families are alike, and every unhappy family has its own misfortunes." ”
The second signal is that the age is not yet aging, and the health of the body has been ruined. Health is the capital of life, our most basic need and the most important capital. If we are healthy, we will have the energy and courage to pursue our dreams and goals, and to enjoy our lives and happiness. However, if our health is compromised, we lose the strength and confidence to face our own difficulties and challenges, and to experience our own suffering and pain. The loss of health is often due to the imbalance of physical, mental, and emotional aspects due to one's own bad habits, irregular diet, sleep, exercise, etc. If it is not adjusted in time, it can trigger more diseases and even lead to disability, death, and the end of life. This is a loss of blessing and a sad ending. As Benjamin Franklin said, "Going to bed early and waking up early makes a man healthy, rich, and wise." ”
The third signal is that no one treats each other sincerely, and lives a lonely and selfish life. Relationships are the lubricant of life, our most extensive social and profound communication. If we have good relationships, we can get the most help and the best opportunities, and no matter how limited our abilities are, we can find the right place and space to play. However, if we have bad interpersonal relationships, we will lose the most resources and the best opportunities, and no matter how good our abilities are, we will be excluded and suppressed. The deterioration of interpersonal relationships is often due to the lack of respect, trust, understanding, cooperation, etc., due to their own bad personality traits, attitudes, words, behaviors, etc. If it is not changed in time, it will lead to more conflicts, and even lead to isolation, hostility, hatred, and difficulties in life. It's a loss of blessing and a sad end. As Romain Rolland said, "Without true friendship, life is a desert." ”
In life, blessing is a priceless wealth and a rare opportunity. We must cherish our blessings and not let them slip away. We should do more good deeds, be cautious, observe the context of good and evil, continue our blessings, and enjoy the beauty of life. We must be vigilant against family conflicts, health losses, interpersonal deterioration and other signs of loss of blessings, adjust our mentality and behavior in time, improve our own circumstances, and avoid the downhill road of life. We must understand that if people are not blessed, there will be bad signs, which is a kind of warning to life and a guide to life.