The two-child policy has long been liberalized, although the peak of fertility after the 70s has long passed, but in order to make up for the shortcomings of the only child, some families are trying or have given birth to a second child, enjoying the life of having children and daughters growing up together.
However, there are also a large number of groups who choose only one child due to economic and other pressures. This is understandable, after all, having children is not as simple as talking.
The burden of life is very heavy, and the spiritual pressure is not light, most of the families born in the 70s have faced the dilemma of the old and the young.
Having only one child relieves the pressure of the post-70s generation to a certain extent, reduces the distraction of energy, may save more time to focus on your career, and can also have the mind to cultivate better children.
However, the post-70s generation is no longer young, and soon the old age will come, and when they are old, their dependence on children will become stronger.
Therefore, in order to have as many worries as possible in the later years of the post-70s, it is recommended that families with only one child arrange these things in advance.
01 Plan financially
The amount of money spent on raising multiple children is certainly different from that of a family raising only one child.
Post-70s parents who choose to have only one child will inevitably have more financial benefits than families with many children.
However, if you choose only one child, then the family will often put more resources and energy into the child, and it is easy to form the child's idea that "everything in the house is prepared for yourself".
Parents will also give the best to their children without hesitation, so that some families will also empty everything they have to meet the needs of their children to buy a house, get married and have children. This is certainly not true.
Although there is only one child, the future pension may depend on him, but parents cannot put their old age on their children.
If the child is filial, it is understandable, in case of raising a child who does not know how to be grateful, when he is old and frail, he wants money and no money, and he has no health, what should he do.
Therefore, post-70s parents should make financial planning as soon as possible, prepare education and marriage for their children in advance, ensure that their children have sufficient financial support in the future, and also make rich reserves for their own retirement.
On the one hand, educate children to learn how to manage money, cultivate financial intelligence and a sense of responsibility, and on the other hand, let their later life be guaranteed, so that they can be taken care of in their later years without increasing their financial burden.
02 Cultivate children's life goals and values
Parents love their children and plan far for them.
Whether it is a family with many children or a family with only one child, parents will not love their children less and will plan for their future.
When a person lives, he always has to have a purpose, because this is the key factor that determines the direction of a person's future.
Parents should make the right direction for their children's life path at an early age, encourage them to set their own goals and directions, and boldly pursue their dreams.
And on the path of a child's life, parents are the best teachers. Parents can lead by example, be role models for their children, and pass on a positive and healthy outlook on life and values to their children through their words and deeds.
Only with the right values can you restrain your own behavior norms on the road of pursuing your dreams, embark on a positive path, and realize your life value.
This is not only very important for the growth of children, but also has extraordinary significance for parents in their later life.
In a family with many children, if a child takes the wrong path, although the parents are sad and sad, at least there are other children to rely on, and for the one-child family, the parents have no room to turn back.
03 Adjust your mentality, exercise your body, and cultivate hobbies
The intensification of population aging is an indisputable fact, and the pressure on the elderly in the future society will be increasing.
Therefore, post-70s families who only have one child should think about how to face this challenge in advance. In addition to preparing an adequate pension for yourself and educating your children to learn to live independently and become a responsible person, you should also consider your own hard problems.
For example, as you get older, you don't feel afraid of panic and death, but calmly accept your aging, because this is a problem that no one can avoid.
In order to be able to live a quality life in old age, parents born in the 70s should protect their bodies, exercise moderately, do regular physical examinations, and seek medical treatment in time when they are sick, so as not to drag a minor illness into a major illness.
At the same time, in order to avoid the possibility that their children cannot be by their side in their later life, parents of the post-70s generation should know how to cultivate some hobbies and hobbies, enrich their spare time, do not pin too much affection on their children, and do not blindly meddle in their children's families.
Life is rich and colorful, and maintaining an optimistic and positive attitude towards life will make your old age more meaningful on the one hand, and on the other hand, it will also help to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship with your children.
Parents of the post-70s generation who want to have only one child must understand these truths.
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