On March 3, 2019, Liang Moudong went to work in the field as usual.
Before leaving, his wife asked him, "You go out like this all day long, can your body stand it?" "I think you're trying to make money. ”
He didn't care about it, and if he didn't do his best, what else could he do? His child is still in master's school, and he is the only one in the family, and he has to take on this responsibility.
Okay, I'll take care of myself. ”
After saying that, he packed his things and was about to leave, but at this moment, he suddenly felt dizzy and lost control of his body, at first, he was still struggling, but soon, he lost consciousness.
Liang Moumin is still reviewing in the dormitory, and all she has to do now is to prepare for the graduate school entrance examination.
Xiaomin, are you still studying? You are the hardest working one in our dormitory, and I hope you can be as disciplined as you are. ”
Hearing this, she just smiled and didn't speak.
So what else can be done? There is no way, she has no other choice, she is from a poor background, she has to rely on herself for everything, her elderly grandmother, her older brother, and she went to college, all have to spend money ......
If it weren't for her father's constant efforts to earn money for her to study, she would have been a married woman by now. The only thing she can do is study hard, strive for a master's degree, and then find a good job.
She secretly cheered herself up and continued to write. At this time, the mobile phone rang, and I didn't know who was calling or who called.
Xiaomin, something is wrong, your father suddenly fainted, we are all admitted to the hospital now, you hurry home! ”
When she hung up the **, the whole person was like a lightning strike, tears couldn't stop flowing down, she didn't think about it, picked up the coat and ran to the hospital.
The doctor conducted a full-body physical examination for Liang Moudong, and the conclusion made Liang Moumin's heart like ashes, his father had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and he had to undergo surgery immediately to save his life, and the operation cost was at least tens of thousands.
It's all said, let him do less, he's disobedient, now it's okay, where do we get so much money? Liang's mother said with a sad face.
Liang Moumin's whole person is not good, her father's illness is equivalent to cutting off her economy, which is undoubtedly a huge blow to her.
Things have come to this point, everyone must cheer up the spirit, Dad is not only the pillar of the family, but also the backbone of the whole family, we must cure him!
His father spent a lot of money in the hospital, and although the family was frugal, it was gone in a few days. She didn't have the heart to study, and every morning she woke up thinking about how to make money and how to survive this time.
Auntie, my father is in the hospital, his condition is very serious, do you have any money? When my dad is well, I will definitely return the money to you! ”
She used all the sweet words just to raise money. Her relatives and friends were afraid of her and avoided her.
When she was desperate, she suddenly remembered a person, she and her boyfriend had been together for five years, both had already met each other's parents, and the only thing they needed was a marriage certificate.
She and her husband made a deal: if she got her master's degree, she would get married.
Liang Moumin is a native of Henan, and according to local customs, when the man gets married, the man's bride price generally ranges from 50,000 to 100,000.
Thinking of this, she hurriedly called her boyfriend **:
Husband, I can't help it, my father has a cerebral hemorrhage and is in the hospital, and the family is dying of sorrow, and I can't help it, so I came to you for help! ”
What's the point? ”
Seeing her boyfriend's reply, she was very angry, when did her boyfriend not only not ask about her situation, but also was so cold to herself, which made her very disappointed, she held back her dissatisfaction, and continued to say to her boyfriend: "I think we have been together for so many years, and sooner or later we will get married."
My requirements are not high, only 88,000 will be enough, what do you think? ”
The boyfriend was puzzled: "Uncle is hospitalized, what are you talking about this?" ”
Well, if you like it, pay me an upfront. On that day, the wedding of the two of us, you don't want it. ”
It took a long time for the other party to send a message: Let me think about it, there have been some things recently, let's talk about it another day!
She never expected her boyfriend to treat her like this, under normal circumstances, her boyfriend would bring some gifts to her father, at least a few words of concern, but her boyfriend looked indifferent, which made her very unhappy.
But thinking that her boyfriend didn't reject her directly, there was still a glimmer of hope.
Her boyfriend is her only remaining hope, and she can't force it so hard, so she said: "Okay, when you think about it, we'll contact you!" ”
After saying that, she hung up the phone, and the tears couldn't stop flowing.
For several days, she didn't receive a reply from him, and she was very anxious, she thought about it, and still sent a text message back to her boyfriend: "Have you thought about it?"
She was startled when she saw the exclamation mark on her phone, she never imagined that she would be blocked by her boyfriend.
She angrily called her boyfriend: What's going on? Why did you block me? ”
Xiaomin, I have already thought about this matter and discussed it with our family, we don't need money so early, and it's not worth it. I don't think the two of us get along, so it's better for us to separate! ”
What my boyfriend said is very reasonable, a sentence of "break up" will ruin his life for five years, and no one will feel good in his heart!
What else could he do? She couldn't let go of her father, and after she calmed down, she began to raise money for her father's medical treatment.
Receipts were sent to her one by one, but she couldn't do anything but be anxious in her heart.
Summoning up her courage, she called one number after another to her relatives and friends at home: "Auntie, I understand your family's difficulties, but I am really poor, do you have spare money at home?" Can I borrow more? ”
Xiaomin, we are all ordinary people, how can we have extra money to help others? Don't say that the aunt is ruthless, even if the children study, three meals also cost money, and we can't help it.
Don't rush to pay us back just yet, we'll talk about it when we have enough money. Your father's condition will not get better for a while, I think your father has had a hard time during this time, why don't we discuss it and stop treating him! ”
was flushed by the words of her relatives, and if it wasn't for the end of the road, she didn't want to be trampled under her feet at will.
It's easy to say, but there are very few people who can really do it.
If it were her, she would definitely save her body at all costs.
If it were her, she wouldn't have watched her father die.
By June 30, 2020, the poor family finally couldn't afford Dad's medical expenses and had to stop treating Dad. The family packed their belongings without ash and went to go through the procedures for their father to be discharged from the hospital.
Out of the hospital, she silently said in her heart: "Dad, don't worry, don't worry, wait a minute, I will definitely let you **." ”
With what little luck she had left, she went to the charity and asked for help from kind people.
She told everything that happened at that time, and everyone around her felt sorry for her.
On July 1, a report about a charity fundraiser was pushed to the top of the trending topic, and the public quickly caught the attention of the public, and donations were made.
It didn't take long for the total amount of donations to break through the 100,000 mark, and Liang Moumin's father was also sent to the hospital again with the help of well-wishers to continue specialized diagnosis and treatment.
At this point, a big stone hanging in my heart finally fell to the ground, and the family finally breathed a sigh of relief.
At that time, she went to a charity organization, and she was holding back a fire in her heart, and vented all the unhappiness between her and her boyfriend.
Although this report is about charity, at the beginning, she told Liang Moumin's boyfriend's behavior and irresponsible behavior, making her boyfriend the target of public criticism.
One of the netizens said: "I've done so much, it's time for me to say my opinion, Xiaomin's boyfriend is also irresponsible enough, he broke up with his girlfriend because of 80,000, this kind of person is not something I can rely on at all."
Another netizen said: "I agree with you, Liang Moumin's father's illness has nothing to do with her boyfriend, why should he pay for her?"
Moreover, she hasn't married him yet, and she is already thinking about whether to give a dowry, in case her father can't be good, when they really get married, will she find another reason to ask for money?
No one can say for sure, the boyfriend knows that it is a bottomless pit, and it is normal for him to refuse, and he is also doing it out of self-defense, there is nothing wrong with it. ”
Netizen: "Even if you don't agree to your girlfriend's suggestion, you won't block the other party, right?" They've been together for five years, do you think their feelings will fade over time? ”
How many giants are there now? As soon as he opened his mouth, it was eighty-eight thousand taels, and how could there be so much silver except for those who were in business? ”
There are all kinds of voices on the Internet, at this moment, Liang Moumin regretted it, and when facing **, she expressed her opinion:
At first, I was really angry, I had known my boyfriend for many years, but in the end we broke up because of some small conflicts, and I was very sad, so I told the reporter all this.
After this period of self-reflection, this is a personal matter after all, I can't make it public, thank you for your support to me, I will work hard, and when I have enough strength in the future, I will also help others and spread this relationship.
I know you're good to me, but my boyfriend and I have grown up, and no one owes anyone, and please don't dwell on this issue, thank you! ”
Liang Moumin is a filial son, and she tries everything to save a broken family, although the means are a bit extreme.
A netizen quipped: "Before I get married, I have already begun to prepare a dowry, and if my boyfriend agrees, it will be a lot of money, which can not only treat my father's illness, but also find a good helper for myself." If the boyfriend doesn't agree, then use "mental threats" to threaten him, which is really wonderful. Isn't this the real version of Fan Shengmei? It's a pity that her boyfriend is neither the rich Qu Lianjie nor Wang Baichuan, so no one wants to die with her. ”
If she is an ambitious person, how can she go to graduate school?
After you graduate from college, you can get married, don't you work so hard to make your family live better by your own efforts?
From this point of view, she doesn't look like a **, but from another point of view, she really shouldn't use the advance money to negotiate terms with her boyfriend.
As a man, he certainly didn't want his wife to take on too much responsibility, and in that case, it wouldn't do him any good. Moreover, Liang Moumin can obviously use the word "borrow", but she uses the word "advance".
Because the word "borrow" has a certain relationship with the word "return".
The so-called "advance" is the remuneration paid to the man in advance, if she just kisses lightly, the man will obediently give the more than 80,000 yuan to others?
A man's behavior is relatively simple, if the other party is unwilling to say it, then forget it, but as soon as the other party opens his mouth, he blocks his girlfriend's WeChat, and he doesn't explain anything, more than 80,000 **, can test a person's sincerity, it's incredible!
As the saying goes, a gentleman says, a horse is hard to chase, Liang Moumin has been dating for 5 years, if it weren't for his father's poor health and lack of money, they would have gotten married a long time ago.
It was these 88,000 that made her see a real man, which is not a good thing.
After all, the two were lost.
I hope that everyone can remember that at all times, don't count on others, only you are the most reliable.
Marriage cannot be a stepping stone in life, after marriage, you have to think about yourself and each other. If both parties get the benefits, then the wedding will last forever, this statement sounds straightforward, but it is the truth.
Liang Moumin, who was relieved, said: "I hope that my father can ** as soon as possible, our family will soon be able to return to the original track, and I will be able to return to the shore soon." I will never hate others, and I will not lose my faith in feelings, so you can rest assured. ”