I went with my friend to the public hospital in the city to get glasses for her children, and it is a very famous public hospital. It is famous far and wide, not to mention the city, and even the neighboring urban areas also come here.
Because the child is relatively small, we also chose this hospital and feel more at ease.
After I went, there were a lot of inspections, and the process of inspection was very difficult, it was rare that it was not a child, and it was rare that it was too anxious.
I want to look at the eye chart, but also look at the equipment that can spurt inside, and there are many tests, but as long as the child does not give me a response within 3 seconds, ** begins to say "is it intentional", "say it well", and even say "have you gone to school, how can you study like this after school?" "Wait, a long day of check-ups, queues, waiting and being told from time to time.
At the end of the day, it's just a bad feeling. Why is this, the child is still young, how can he behave like an adult for the first time with glasses? And isn't this kid the type of disobedient bear kid? What if this is a little naughty?
The point is, we all dare to be angry. Don't you dare to squeak? Why? I'm afraid of wearing small shoes.
As far as my friend was concerned, she had a bleeding in the early stages of pregnancy, so she hung up an emergency room, and then asked her to go into the consultation room, saying that the emergency department would call her immediately. But the doctor who saw the doctor had been chatting with others, and she waited for a while, so she was in a hurry, so she urged the doctor. As a result, guess what, the doctor said: "We receive many times a day when you are bleeding like this, what is the fuss, go drink water, hold urine, and then do B ultrasound, B ultrasound has to queue up, you can't come back in 2 hours in this situation."
At that time, I was angry with my friend. Later, we unanimously came to the conclusion that don't talk to doctors in public hospitals.
There are many more such examples, I have a cousin who works in a hospital, and tell me the truth.
A couple went to the hospital to give birth, the wife was about to enter the delivery room, the doctor was not there at that time, no one cared about the wife, the husband was a little angry, said that the doctor was a little irresponsible, and then the doctor was angry, and he was on the bar in the elevator to send the mother to the delivery room, and he didn't get out of the elevator, the wife screamed in pain in bed, and the husband was very anxious. apologized to the doctor, the apologetic doctor was not angry, the husband was so anxious that he was about to kneel, and finally the doctor pushed the mother to the delivery room.
I also have a sister, she gave birth to 2 children, she is more experienced, she was hospitalized in advance, and when she was about to give birth, she took the initiative to ask to enter the delivery room, ** not to say that she did not give birth when she refused. But my sister was very sure that she was going to give birth. The brother-in-law is very good, believes in his sister unconditionally, and then quarrels with ** and strongly asks to enter the delivery room. ** Only then did I push my sister into the delivery room. Soon after entering the delivery room, she gave birth to a lovely daughter.
I saw a funny joke on the Internet, in which the doctor was very impatient, and the patient went to scare. The following netizens commented "It's so unreal, I don't dare to be scared in life".
Yes, just like us today, like most people, dare not speak out.
When we were young, we were brave, we would say it if we couldn't get used to it, and if we were angry, we would say it, and what we wanted was to do whatever we wanted.
Slowly, I don't know when we became cautious. When I saw injustice again, I learned not to speak. When you encounter unhappiness again, you no longer say it, but send a "red envelope".
In the course of these years, we have become the "mature and steady" people. I just don't know, is this change good or bad?