When they were young, boys and girls loved each other, but they faced a series of realities. After being admitted to the civil service, the boy gradually embarked on a stable and promising career path. The girl, however, did not find a stable job and was questioned by the boy's family. Despite the fact that the girl had previously behaved impeccable and conscientious in the boy's family, the practical interests made the relationship between the boy and the girl have to face a cruel test.
In this profit-drivenSocialPeople are often measured by money and statusMarriageCriteria for suitability. The boy heeded his family's advice and chose to burn his feelings. How should a girl respond to such a cruel reality? Her previous dedication to the boy's family, her respect and courtesy to her elders, as well as her talent and self-motivation, are difficult to understand and recognize because of the interests of reality. She is faced with the fact that she cannot change and has to face the difficulties of life.
In this seemingly material prosperitySocialin,MarriageIt seems to have become meaningless. People pay more attention to factors such as matchmaking, wealth and statusMarriageIt often becomes a pure exchange of interests. Parents are hell-bent on finding a place for their children that has a financial foundation andSocialstatus of partners to ensure their future happiness and family stability.
In fact, a lotMarriageIt is a combination of interests. People tend to overlookEmotionThe importance of money and status is regarded asMarriagecore. of this interestMarriageUnions not only tend to lead to tension and disharmony in the family, but also deprive people of their right to pursue true happiness.
Young people are often told that they should first work their careers and pursue financial independence and success before pursuing relationships. This view makes:LoveIt seems to become dispensable, easily replaced by the pursuit of power and wealth. However, should we beLovewithMarriageCompletely negative?
MarriageAlong with responsibility and commitment, it is built on mutual respect and mutual support. Despite the practical interests forMarriageThe choice has an impact, but it cannot be completely negated. More importantly, we should strive to find a balance between marriage and love, so that they can promote each other and grow together.
MarriageNot just a paper contract, but oneEmotionand commitment to responsibility. Through mutual understanding and tolerance, the relationship between husband and wife can be stronger and happier. Only inLovewithMarriageOnly on the basis of complementarity can we truly achieve personal and family happiness.
Life is like a play, and everyone is playing a different role. LoveIt's one of those beautiful performances. AlthoughLoveIt may be unpredictable, but we can't give up on pursuing and cherishing it because of this.
In pursuitMarriageand in the process of benefit, we should also learn to feel it from our own heartsLovemeaning. Whether it's staying with that person for a long time or trying to find something newLoveWe should all be true and brave in pursuit of our own happiness.
In the face of practical interests, we often give up because of utilitarianismLoveand no longer believe in its existence. However,LoveThere is no substitute for power. It may be short-lived, but it also has the potential to bring us lasting happiness.
Looking back, we may find that those who abandoned us were not our happy destination. Whether it's lost or gained,LoveIt's not a game to win or lose, it's an important part of life. CherishLoveChance, it may only come once, or it may accompany us for a lifetime.
In reality,MarriageThere may indeed be a lot of interest to consider. Family happiness and economic stability are what we want to have. But we can't ignore itLovepower and meaning. It is the source of our pursuit of happiness and fulfillment.
In pursuitMarriageIn the process of benefiting others, we must remain true and courageous, and constantly explore what we really need. Only by finding the balance between marriage and love can we truly achieve happiness and fulfillment in life. In the face of practical interests, don't lose yourself, stick to the true love in your heart, and pursue your own happiness and joy.