My brother-in-law is a different kind of person, he comes from a poor family. I still remember when I was a kidWe are a familyLife is very difficult, and the economic conditions are very tight. I grew up dreaming of wearing beautiful new clothes, and my seven uncles never got married because of poverty. At that time, I heard the neighbors jokeGrandma's houseThere are seven gourd babies, meaningGrandma's house's uncles are all singles. And when my brother-in-law was about to get married, he was already in his twenties, and I had just entered junior high school.
Although the brother-in-law is a grandfatherGrandma's houseThe youngest child, but he didn't enjoy any special treatment for it. In our family, we often don't have enough to eat, let alone take special care of him. Due to the poverty of the family, the uncle'sMarriageIt has not been settled. Until one day, a widowed woman from a neighbor's family took the initiative to find her grandfather and expressed her willingness to marry her brother-in-law. It was a pie in the sky for my grandfather, and he gladly accepted the offer.
My uncle's newlywed partner is two years older than him, and although he has an ordinary appearance, he is hardworking and capable, and he is very filial. She was previously married and had no children after her husband's death. The uncle accepted thisMarriage, they became husband and wife.
However, thisMarriageAnd it was not recognized by the people around him. The neighbors looked down on the aunt and laughed at the uncle for not choosing a wife, even the widow dared to ask for it. There are even people who deliberately approach the little aunt and want to dig up her black history in the past. But my aunt doesn't care about this, she is magnanimous, kind and diligent, and has always been the backbone of the family. She not only took care of her grandfather, but also helped her brother-in-law run a second-hand furniture and appliances business.
My uncle's business is getting bigger and bigger, and his brothers are joining the business and working hard to make money together. A few years later, they bought a house and settled in a first-tier city. My uncle's two cousins also got into the exam wellUniversity。Now, my uncle's family has returned to my hometown, and the neighbors are envious that my uncle has the ability and makes a lot of moneyBig citiesSettle down. But my uncle said that without my aunt, I wouldn't have the good life I have now. My aunt is the lucky star of our family.
This story teaches us that poverty is not the end, and that widowhood does not mean despair. After experiencing all kinds of difficulties, my brother-in-law's family found an opportunity to change their fate through hard work and hard work. They were not afraid of difficulties, stuck to their original intentions, worked hard, and finally embarked on a path of happiness.
Everyone has their own poverty story, thoughCriticalIt's about how to treat and change. Poverty is not our fault, but we should not let it hold us back. We should stay true to our original intentions, actively look for opportunities for change, and work hard to create a better life for ourselves and our families.
Widowhood is not a sin, but a misfortune. Despite losing our partner, we can earn happiness and respect for ourselves through our own efforts and perseverance. Widows should not feel ashamed and inferior, but should face life bravely and actively welcome a new chapter in life.
The future is unknown, but we can write it with action. Widows should face challenges bravely, maintain a positive attitude, and find their own happiness. Whether it is to find a new partner, or to find the meaning and value of life by developing their own careers, it is the direction of the widow's struggle.
Let's learn from my uncle's family, stick to our original intention, defy difficulties, and write a new chapter in our lives!