Human interactions are fraught with variables. Sometimes, we may meet people who look friendly on the surface, but behind the scenes there is a hidden side. Therefore, we often need to go through things before we can really see a person's heart.
Experience is the litmus test of people's hearts.
Experiences are the textbook of life, they teach us how to grow and how to face challenges. In the process, we will also meet all kinds of people who may become our friends, partners, or even our mentors.
But again, there will be people who will let us down and get hurt. These experiences are like a mirror that allows us to see the human heart for what it really is.
See people's hearts clearly in the midst of difficulties.
When we encounter difficulties, those who really care about us and are willing to lend a helping hand are often the ones we cherish the most.
And those who choose to stay away when we need help the most also show us who are the real friends. This experience has made us realize that true friendship and love are selfless and unrequited.
See people's hearts when they are successful.
When we succeed, the attitudes and reactions of those around us also reveal what they really think inside. Those who are truly happy and proud of us are worthy of our deep friendship. And those who flatter us on the surface, but behind the scenes they are jealous and slander us, also let us see the dark side of human nature.
Experience makes us more mature.
Through experience, we have learned how to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and how to judge people's hearts. We no longer easily believe the rhetoric of others, but we have learned to feel and judge with our hearts. This experience has made us more mature and more sensible.
Cherish those who truly treat us.
After all this experience, we will cherish more those who reached out when we needed it most, and those who were happy for us when we succeeded. They are the most valuable treasure in our lives and a solid backing for us on the way forward.
If you don't experience it once, how can you see people's hearts clearly! Every experience is an opportunity to grow, an opportunity to see people's hearts. In the process, we learned how to distinguish the true from the false, and how to judge people's hearts.
We no longer easily believe the rhetoric of others, but we have learned to feel and judge with our hearts. This experience has made us more mature and more sensible. Therefore, we should cherish every experience, learn from it, grow, and learn to cherish those who treat us more sincerely.
No matter what kind of people we meet or what kind of things we go through, we must keep a kind and sincere heart.
Because in this world, there are still many people who treat us sincerely. As long as we feel and judge with our hearts, we will definitely be able to find those people and things that are worthy of our cherishment.