When I was young, I still had a lot of shortcomings, my personality was paranoid, impulsive, and immature, but I also had a unique advantage that other age groups did not have, that is, I had nothing. Because there is nothing, it means that there is nothing to lose.
Maybe for love, young people are nothing more than losing their first love or losing someone they like very much, which may be very uncomfortable at the time, but most of the time can slowly heal, and then as you meet some new people, the past becomes a thing of the past.
When I was young, there were many people my age, they took love very seriously, or they were very serious, either they didn't look for someone who could stay with them for a lifetime, the threshold for love was set too high, and there were very few people who met the requirements, and when they couldn't find the right person in their minds and started falling in love, time would continue to go backwards.
When he was middle-aged, he finally met a heart-warming person, and when he wanted to love with all his body, he found that love could not be moved, because at this time, in addition to love, he also had work and life, and he had to think about the future, because he had lost the fearless spirit of the ignorant when he was young.
Love when you are young, because you have nothing, so you will not be afraid of losing, but when people reach middle age, there are always some concerns that tie us up and don't let us go to love, but there are also many people who want to live themselves, so they use the way of sacrificing the people around them to achieve their love, of course, such a price is also conceivable.
So for us, time is really important, what kind of time to do what kind of thing, once the time is missed, and if you want to make up for it later, the taste will not be right.