Girls chat with the boys they like, but they don't want to take the initiative to expose their needs, and they still want to talk ambiguously with boys, so they need to start with these two topics.
Talk about your own criteria for choosing a mate.
It's not ambiguous to talk to guys about mate selection criteria, but the special thing about this topic is that it's good to add some tentative jokes, which can not only allow boys to answer your more sensitive personal questions, but also avoid embarrassment after answering.
Whether it is a woman who substitutes herself into a man's mate selection criteria, or a woman who talks about her mate selection criteria, it is easy to be ambiguous when she pulls a man in.
And the biggest advantage of such a temptation is that it can be attacked and defended, even if the answer is not standard, it can also end perfectly and avoid embarrassment.
If the man feels the woman's mind, and he also has the intention to develop, then he can continue to interact with the topic in depth, and if the man pretends not to understand, the woman does not have to feel embarrassed.
Let's talk about future engagements.
Most men and women who get along well with the opposite sex will have some common interests and hobbies. And the topic of hobbies can be further revealed.
If you can add an agreement on this topic, then the situation is completely different.
For example, if two people like to play badminton, then they can meet to play badminton together on a certain day, and if two people like a singer at the same time, then they can meet to see his concert.
Although the future is full of uncertainties, this kind of agreement is a bit like drawing a pie, but when talking about this topic in the present, there will be emotional interaction, and an expectation of a better future, which represents a commitment, and the topic of commitment between men and women will be quite ambiguous.