The relationship between people is like an intricate picture. We live in a society full of contradictions, where everyone is working hard for their own life while inadvertently bowing their heads to others. This phenomenon is like a mirror, reflecting our deep inner inferiority complex and conceit, longing and fear.
"People despise each other and flatter each other, people want to be higher than each other, and they each prostrate themselves in front of others. ”This sentence has pierced the veil of hypocrisy of many people, and we have to face the complexity and contradictions in our hearts. We crave to be recognized and respected, but in the process, we often lose ourselves and forget our original intentions.
In order to gain the favor and appreciation of the other party, we will compliment the boss's leadership skills, flatter the policies of **, please authority figures, and even deliberately package ourselves in order to get likes and attention on social **. This kind of compliment may serve our purpose, but it makes us lose our true selves and make us appear humble in the eyes of others.
In this competitive society, we are constantly comparing and constantly competing. We want to be able to stand in a higher position and hope that we can be a successful person in the eyes of others. When we stand on a high place, we are afraid of losing and being surpassed. This fear makes us inadvertently start complimenting others, hoping to strengthen our position in this way.
We despise each other because we are unwilling to admit the excellence of others and accept our own shortcomings. We flatter each other because we are afraid of being alone, for fear of being excluded. We struggle with this contradiction, trying to find a balance, only to find ourselves more and more lost.
The true meaning of life is not about comparison, but about self-growth. We should not base our value on the evaluation of others, but learn to think independently and learn to reflect on ourselves. We should appreciate the strengths of others, but we should also have the courage to face our own shortcomings. Stay resilient in the face of wind and rain and be optimistic in the face of challenges.
Maintain a humble heart and learn to respect others as well as yourself. In the journey of life, no matter what challenges you encounter, you can stick to your ideals and beliefs and move forward bravely.