In real life, everyone's life is full of joys and sorrows, and we should do our best to do our best.
Gen-la Hongyi: "When you really see through all this, you will understand that in this world, you are you, and your joys, sorrows, and sorrows are all controlled by yourself. Even if someone expresses sympathy, it is only a momentary comfort, and in the end, it is up to you to clean up the mess. Don't expect anyone, in the darkness, even the shadow will leave you. We can all have something to look forward to, but we can't rely on ourselves, relying on ourselves is always our greatest confidence. ”
In life, gain and loss are all controlled by oneself, and destiny is always in one's own hands. When we look back, those things that we have gained and have make us happy and proud, and those things that have been lost and slipped away make us feel sad and lost, all of this is providential, no need to be grateful and blame anyone, in the final analysis, all the joys and sorrows are still fulfilled by themselves.
If we get something that makes us happy, we should be grateful for our efforts! Without your own persistence and persistence, you can't get today's success.
I used to be so helpless and powerless, it can be said that I should not be able to call the heavens and the earth, and I have no support, no dependence, everything depends on myself.
During the period of confusion, I also thought of giving up, but that thought was only fleeting in my mind, and I must not let this kind of cowardly behavior occupy my brain, nor can I make a little sloppiness and retreat at a critical moment.
Hold yourself in a moment of crisis, stay calm and reasonable, once a person falls, once he loses faith, it may be over, and he will never have the courage to stand up again.
No matter how bitter, tired, or difficult, you must grit your teeth and get through. At this time, tears and crying can not solve the problem, if tears can be exchanged for success, then the world is afraid that the world has already cried, has already shed into a river of tears, into a sea of tears, gushing, endless.
After understanding such a life, knowing how failure ends, and understanding the true meaning of relying on oneself. Those so-called sympathies are just a kind of appearance, giving people temporary comfort, and those feelings of pity are just a kind of false affection, occasionally throwing the so-called "cat crying mouse, fake compassion." The hypocritical persona. After spending some time together, you will see the truth and show your true form.
When you're at a low point, momentary comfort doesn't mean much. Some people may be moved out of a momentary emotion, and come forward to comfort a few words that are not painful; Some people may directly speak out and ridicule you, making you embarrassed in public and embarrassing in front of others; There are also some people who directly scold you for making things difficult for you, and if you reply to you, they will let you be in the limelight; There are even some people who fall into the well and make things worse for you, and want to send you to hell and never be reborn.
Very few people want to help you get out of the sea of suffering from the bottom of their hearts, truly sympathize with you, be by your side at all costs, save you from the dire situation, and are our lifelong friends, grateful for a lifetime. This is another special kind of group, which is something else and is beyond our description.
For us in the dark, it is better to rely on no one than on ourselves. The temporary help of others can only be temporarily spent for a while, and the road ahead is still very long, with twists and turns, ditches and bumps, strong winds and waves, unpredictable prospects, and many unsmooth. Getting out of the dim predicament and bravely accepting challenges is a high-quality quality that you will always need to have.
If you buy an insurance for yourself, the name is Ping An Insurance, that is, everything depends on yourself. If you rely on others, when the relationship collapses, you will naturally see their ** faces.
In good times, everyone is kind to you, behaving in a beautiful and sunny manner, you can see the kindness of others to you, and under the illumination of the sun, the shadow who trusts you the most will never abandon you, accompany you, and make yourself feel happy and happy.
And when you are in adversity, the people around you scatter in a hurry, calling for thousands of calls, but no one can be called, which makes you feel isolated and helpless, and extremely sad. Even his most trusted shadow brother is gone! No matter how you shout and shout, he will be treacherous and leave you, leaving you alone.
Therefore, we can't rely on anyone, we don't expect anything from anyone, and we always firmly believe that relying on ourselves is the greatest confidence in our lives.
Learn to heal yourself when you're sad and redeem yourself when you're sad.
Let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, and let us all become the best and best versions of ourselves!