The child is in the ninth grade this year, he is 1.7 meters tall, skinny, and in my opinion, he is completely immature.
Usually at home, I will move when I call it, and if I don't call it, I will not move. Everything is at the mercy of the adults. For example, if you ask him to sweep the floor, he will sweep the floor, let him wash the dishes, let him take out the garbage, if he doesn't arrange it, he can sit in front of the TV all day and watch TV, and his eyes are still motionless. This makes me very angry, it's definitely okay to watch TV, I agree with watching some popular science programs that increase knowledge, but he just watches that kind of game explanation, which I don't agree with very much.
It's okay to relax once in a while, but he can play for a day when he plays, which really makes me lose my temper with him a little bit. said that he still talked back to me, and I was angry.
Another characteristic of entering adolescence is that he does not like to go out, and he especially likes to stay at home. I usually invite him to go out, but he says no. When he is really forced to go out, he will appear to be completely unmotivated, out of place with other people, and completely unable to integrate into the group. It's no wonder that the teacher's comment in his student handbook is to let him open his heart and let the sun shine into his heart. He's good, he's getting more and more closed off now.
Sometimes for some things at home, he still loses his temper at every turn, feels that we are too careful, and he feels that he has his own living space. His so-called space, in our opinion, is simply a mess. Playing games, playing with his mobile phone, and watching TV have become his biggest hobbies, leaving his studies behind his children.
While there are a whole bunch of disadvantages, there are also some advantages. He can do all the electrical tinkering at home. The child's father works outside the home all the year round, and the light bulb at home is broken, so he carries a ladder to change it. The computer at home doesn't turn, and he can fix it. Hands-on ability. If the guidance is correct, I think he should be able to achieve something on the technical level, and in the future, it is not impossible to be a technician.
In addition, he draws those game mods, without looking at them in his mind and drawing them from memory, and he draws them very realistically, just like the professionals draw them. I once took him to an art class, and the teacher asked him to draw instant noodles, and he poured a bowl and turned it in as homework. Later, the teacher said that he simply didn't go to class.
The most annoying thing was that when I signed up that day, the homeroom teacher asked him to fill out a questionnaire, and he went from nine to twelve o'clock, and it wasn't until I went to pick him up. It turned out that there were three items on the questionnaire, one is what did you gain in school? Second, what is your ideal? Third, what do you think needs to be improved in the school?
The other kids have all filled it out and gone home, and he's still looking at it. The teacher asked me to sign before letting him go home. Under my guidance, he finally completed the questionnaire.
Having such a child at home is really love-hate and hateful, and hatred is not made of steel. Some people say that adolescent children are like this, and it will be fine after this time. Cold treatment is required. The education of adolescent children is really a headache, please help!
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