A septuagenarian is too obsessed with the image of a young girl to extricate himself, insisting that he would "rather die than play the role of a mother".
However, some people become professional mothers in their 20s.
She has devoted her life to helping new actors, so she is known as the "loving mother of Hong Kong".
is this Hong Kong actress, her name is Su Xingxuan.
She was a late bloomer and didn't win her first Best Supporting Actress award until later in life.
However, at the award ceremony, Su Xingxuan did not appear.
Since then, Su Xingxuan seems to have disappeared and never appeared again.
What's going on? Why did Su Xingxuan not attend the award ceremony?
In 2012, the 31st Hong Kong Film Awards held the award ceremony as scheduled.
Su Xingxuan has worked diligently in the circle for decades, and finally won the recognition of the organizing committee.
She won the Best Supporting Actress award at this year's Academy Awards.
However, Su Xingxuan's figure never appeared at the award ceremony.
*Yun received her own trophy and certificate on behalf of the crew.
After decades of struggle, the first trophy in her life was supposed to be a moment to shine, but Su Xingxuan was nowhere to be seen.
There was a lot of talk about it, and some people speculated that she was absent because she was going to settle in a foreign country because she wanted to evade taxes.
Some people said she didn't deserve the award, so she was embarrassed and didn't attend.
The people Su Xingxuan once helped never stood up to support her.
Su Xingxuan is not willing to occupy public resources, nor does she want to attract too much attention, which is the reason.
In fact, at the time of the award, Su Xingxuan's condition had deteriorated to the point where it could not be contained.
Her emaciated body sat in a wheelchair, powerless to retrieve the trophy.
Su Xingxuan's life is really tragic when people look back.
So was born in Hong Kong in 1952.
Su Xingxuan has been very sensible since she was a child, because her family background is not good.
When her parents came home from school, they always looked forward to waiting for a hot meal to be served, and she needed to cook for them.
Su Xingxuan took on the responsibility of taking care of the family early, as the saying goes, the children of the poor are in charge of the family early.
At that time, both family members and relatives and friends thought that Su Xingxuan would get married very early in the future and become a virtuous wife and mother.
However, Su Xingxuan did not act according to their expectations.
When Su Xingxuan was in junior high school, she cherished her life ideals for the first time.
She aspires to pursue a career in acting.
After school, Su Xingxuan returned home full of excitement and confided her dream to her mother.
Children are innocent and yearn for the glamour on the screen, but they don't know what's at stake.
Her mother resolutely rejected Su Xingxuan's idea and advised her to change her dreams with good intentions.
Su Xingxuan was as firm as if she had taken a reassuring pill, and no matter how much persuasion she took, she couldn't shake her determination.
Her mother had to peel off the cocoon and expose the darkness of the entertainment industry to her, hoping to scare her.
However, she never expected Su Xingxuan to be so determined.
As the saying goes, "The best teacher is interest." ”
In order to pursue her dream, Su Xingxuan worked day and night to prepare for the exam of the TVB artist training class.
Those who have a heart will be rewarded in the end.
Su Xingxuan was successfully admitted to the training class.
It wasn't until she came here that Su Xingxuan realized that everything her mother said was correct.
Su Xingxuan's appearance looks a lot worse than others.
The eldest lady and the young master were dressed in gorgeous costumes and radiant, and they wore different clothes every day.
Some students even get the opportunity to perform because of their family ties before they even graduate.
Standing in the crowd, Su Xingxuan looked like an old hat from the countryside.
Despite the huge disparity in wealth, Su Xingxuan did not have the leisure to grieve.
She was able to achieve all of this only by her own efforts.
Su Xingxuan studied hard in the practice room, while the other classmates went out shopping and rested together.
The graduation season is coming, and Su Xingxuan is about to face it in the blink of an eye.
She successfully received her certificate of completion with an outstanding performance, which is an achievement to celebrate.
On that day, she rushed home with her report card and certificate of completion in hand.
The mother hurried into the kitchen and began to get busy before she could talk to her daughter in detail.
In order to celebrate Su Xingxuan's graduation, her mother prepared a table of sumptuous dishes.
The family was laughing and laughing under the plane tree, after a full meal.
At this time, Su Xingxuan did not realize that she would face greater challenges and crises.
When you graduate, you are unemployed, this is a popular saying.
Su Xingxuan showed the vividness of this sentence.
Although she achieved excellent results in school, due to the lack of a strong family background and sufficient financial resources, without the support of stepping stones, she was unable to get the opportunity to show her solid acting skills on stage.
Therefore, Su Xingxuan has been playing a role in different crews in the years after graduation.
Day after day, time passed in front of Su Xingxuan's eyes, and she never found the opportunity to show her talents.
The family is not wealthy, and now it has been a graduate for many years, but it is still not able to earn a salary.
Su Xingxuan felt the pressure doubled, and felt sorry for her parents.
She couldn't take it anymore, so one day, she ran home and confided in her mother.
Mother has been reassuring her instead of blaming her for her choice.
After sticking to the choice, hope is waiting for you ahead, as long as you stick to it, you will definitely succeed, obediently.
With her mother's understanding and support, Su Xingxuan rekindled the hope in her heart.
After Su Xingxuan returned to the crew, she was still busy dealing with various trivial matters, and actively fought for the opportunity to participate in the group drama from the director.
It wasn't until that day that she heard the director complaining.
What's wrong with actresses now, is the role of mother so difficult to play?
At this time, Su Xingxuan realized that her opportunity had come.
She hurriedly stepped forward and told the director that she was willing to take on the role.
People have a preference for characters that are both beautiful and unique, and few people are willing to play the image of old age.
At the same time, everyone is also worried that they may be restricted by the acting path after playing the role of a mother.
The director was stunned for a while, because Su Xingxuan was willing to try to play the role of an elderly mother.
The director decided to let her try it because she looked honest and unpretentious.
Su Xingxuan is like a treasure, after being affirmed.
She knew it was a rare opportunity for her to give it her all and do well.
After Su Xingxuan returned home, she found a large number of video tapes to imitate her mother's demeanor and posture.
That night, she spent almost insomnia.
The next day, Su Xingxuan put on makeup, put on the costume to play the role, and went to the filming location, and the director was greatly surprised by her change.
Su Xingxuan encountered some small accidents during the test shooting.
However, it wasn't a big deal for the whole wonderful experience.
As expected, Su Xingxuan successfully won the role.
Su Xingxuan challenged for the first time to play a high-profile role in a TV series.
Although he plays a supporting role, his performance is not inferior to that of the heroine.
Su Xingxuan's role as the mother in the play has attracted wide attention from the audience, and the play has attracted much attention since then.
Most actresses have gradually transitioned from playing beautiful heroines to playing the role of mothers, and there are almost no women who jump directly to mothers like her.
Su Xingxuan can be said to have become a household name overnight, from being unknown to being widely known today.
However, Su Xingxuan's performance field has also been restricted.
Subsequently, Su Xingxuan received more and more scripts inviting her to play the role of her mother.
Su Xingxuan can perfectly play characters of all ages in the play, whether it is a young actor, or an actor of the same age or older than her, she can play their mother figure excellently.
When Su Xingxuan partnered with Wang Mingquan, who was 5 years older than her, she did not feel any discomfort.
She exudes kindness and makes people feel close, and she is a perfect example of a mother.
She will help newcomers quickly integrate into the role when they are on the set, and provide them with guidance and assistance.
As we all know, Su Xingxuan is famous in the circle for her dedicated attitude, and she has also created many classic roles that are well-known to the audience.
Guo Jing's mother in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Aunt Yun in "Intolerable", and Tony Leung played the role of the mother in "Senior Brother Xinzha".
Although Su Xingxuan's mother image has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, many years later, she still has not received the honor she deserves.
Su Xingxuan did not hesitate to send blessings to the classmates and newcomers in the same period, and they all won awards one by one.
She didn't enter showbiz to rely on awards to prove herself.
Because of her love of acting, she was able to play the role of a mother who others would not want to touch without complaint.
She will even send comfort and warmth when the newcomer is frustrated.
When Su Xingxuan sowed the seeds of love, she didn't know that there was someone who had been quietly observing her.
is that person who will become his husband in the future, he is Xu Chengbiao.
Once, Xu Chengbiao and Su Xingxuan had a short cooperation in a certain crew.
Whenever Su Xingxuan acted, Xu Chengbiao always couldn't help but set his eyes on her.
After Xu Chengbiao had a certain understanding of Su Xingxuan's character, he approached her even more inadvertently.
The two gradually comprehended the friendship between them.
The love between the two ushered in a smooth development, and eventually they became a couple.
Su Xingxuan and Xu Chengbiao got married in 1988 and started a happy married life.
Surprisingly, both men believed deeply in Buddhism.
Su Xingxuan and her husband worked together to open a vegetarian shop with years of accumulation.
They will continue to keep a close eye on charity and donate money to Hope Primary School.
Su Xingxuan has established a certain position in this circle.
Whenever a mother character appears, the crew always provides Sister Xuan with the opportunity to choose first.
If Sister Xuan doesn't star, then give this opportunity to someone else.
Su Xingxuan's career is smooth sailing, and her family life is also very happy.
She and her husband take care of the vegetarian restaurant and take care of the children, and the family lives a harmonious and happy life when they are not filming.
The days went by like this, day after day.
Su Xingxuan had no hope of winning the Academy Award for Best Actress, but suddenly ushered in this honor.
However, at this moment, she no longer has the strength to stand on the podium and accept her own honor.
In the past, Su Xingxuan always paid too much attention to herself, and her schedule was very tight, which led to physical problems.
She was hospitalized** for three full months due to diabetes.
She realized that she needed to empty herself when she returned.
She began to meditate, reciting the Buddha's name silently and praying for peace and stability in her heart.
However, seeking the blessings of the Buddha can only bring some psychological comfort, but Su Xingxuan's concealment and avoidance of the illness is ultimately not a wise move.
Her condition worsened, and her body festered at one point.
When receiving the award on the same day, Su Xingxuan delivered an acceptance speech through **.
She didn't say much, but she expressed her deep gratitude to those who helped her.
Su Xingxuan's son announced his mother's death to ** in the summer of 2013.
At the moment when Su Xingxuan's life was dying, her close friends still kept chanting prayers for her, hoping that she would leave safely.
Her face was calm, and she didn't seem to feel any pain at all.
A number of celebrity actors came to express their condolences at the funeral.
Tony Leung and Carina Lau were also present.
Su Xingxuan's son said: "Mom has left without regrets. ”
She commented on Qin Hailu and said: "Although there are not many scenes, every scene is brilliant."
Su Xingxuan's life was full of greed and resentment.
Under the influence of Buddhism, she learned to be indifferent to fame and fortune, and to see everything in the world as a cloud of smoke.
As a result, she has been loved by many people.
It's been 10 years, but there are still a lot of people who miss her after she left.