Family education plays a vital role in children's development. Children's sexual orientation, independence, self-perception, etc., are largely influenced by the family environment. This article will use two real cases to trigger readers' thinking about the educational concept of "children avoid mothers" through two real cases, ** the possible negative impact behind the intimate relationship between mother and child.
In the case of counselor Liang Yong, a boy who had been intimate with his single mother for a long time and over-imitated his mother's behavior and habits, led to confusion of sexual orientation. In the process of growing up, children's confusion about gender consciousness may lead to homosexual tendencies, and it is important to have a correct understanding of sexual orientation.
Expanding: The boy rubs the cream and applies ** at home every day, and the mother sleeps with him all the time, which leads the child to learn the girl's meticulous behavior, as well as the dependence and preference for women. Chronic lack of interaction with boys, children's social skills and masculine traits are neglected, resulting in confusion in inner identity.
In this case, the mother's overprotection of her son caused the child to lack the opportunity to socialize with boys of the same age, which led to the child's emotional cognitive deviation. Excessive intimacy between mother and child can have a profound impact on a child's sexuality, and the child should be given adequate personal space and social experiences with men of the same age.
Expansion: Mothers unilaterally devote all their love and energy to their children, resulting in children lacking opportunities for intimate relationships with other male characters and not being able to obtain diverse gender identities. In the process of growing up, children should receive multiple care from their families and society to form a healthy gender identity.
The case of Taiwanese star Di Ying reveals that excessive spoiling of maternal love can cause children to be unable to live independently and lack self-management. Excessive maternal love will make children lose their ability to take care of themselves, rely on their mothers for a long time, and form the phenomenon of giant babies.
Expanding: In order to dot on her son, Di Ying does not hesitate to spend a lot of time and energy to take care of all details of the child's life, resulting in the child's lack of independent thinking and action in daily life. Children are immersed in the care of their mothers for a long time, unable to face challenges and difficulties, and long-term development may lead to the hindrance of children's self-growth.
In an environment where mother and child are overly close, children may lack the ability to be independent and make the right choices about their personal needs and decisions. A mother's doting behavior can deprive a child of the opportunity to pursue his or her own goals and manage her own life.
Expansion: The typical macrosomiac phenomenon is that the child is dependent on the care and care of the mother, unable to complete the tasks necessary for daily life independently, and lacks space for self-growth and development. When children grow up, they may face the problem of not being able to adapt to the needs of society and live independently, which is essential for the development of self-maturity and independence.
Through the above two cases, it is not difficult to see that behind the intimate relationship between mother and child may be hidden hidden dangers in the growth of children. When educating children, parents should pay attention to giving their children appropriate space and opportunities for independence, and help children build self-awareness, gender identity, and independence. At the same time, parents should also be aware that overprotection and spoiling will have a negative impact on their children's development, and should adjust their education methods in time to guide their children's healthy growth.
In the process of educating children, it is necessary to follow the principle of "children avoid their mothers", so that children can gradually establish independent connections with the outside world and cultivate their autonomy and sense of independence. Parents are the guides on their children's growth path, and should give appropriate guidance and support, but also give their children the space and respect to grow, so that they can become independent and confident individuals to meet the challenges of the future.
Family education is an indispensable part of children's growth, and the right way of family education can cultivate children's healthy development. Through the case analysis and ** in this article, I hope that parents can take warning, avoid overprotection and spoiling, establish a positive and healthy parent-child relationship, and create a good growth environment for their children, so that they can thrive and meet future challenges.