Shakespeare once said, "To borrow money from others is to ask for trouble." ”
Generally speaking, there are two types of "debts", monetary debts and emotional debts.
There is a way that it is natural to repay debts; Money debts are easy to repay, but love debts are difficult to repay.
Money can be quantified and can be accurate to the point, but feelings are priceless or worthless.
Really smart people know how to add some "love" to their money. Find a balance between human and economic interests and promote the development of life.
Money and affection are the relationship of dialectical unity, and it is the wisdom of "giving and taking".
Leaving the emotional card is the best investment.
* When "Langya Bang" was released, it quickly attracted the attention of the producer, and everyone knew the business opportunities.
One after another, producers found the author Hai Yan and gave his own "**** Of course, Hai Yan did not give a reply in time.
The producers couldn't sit still, and raised the price one after another, hoping to win with **.
After Hou Hongliang watched "Langya Bang", he immediately went to Chengdu with his assistant and had an interview with Haiyan.
In the face of the rising tide, Hou Hongliang thought twice and wrote down an agreement, but in the ** column, nothing was written. He said: "Let Haiyan set the price himself. ”
When the agreement was signed, surprisingly, it wasn't very high.
Haiyan said: "Hou Hongliang was able to come in person, and he also made me **, which is touching." ”
More and more people regard feelings as a transaction, always thinking that as long as money can solve the problem, it is not a problem. As everyone knows, many things are problems that money can't solve, and they are higher than money.
As the saying goes: "Leave a line of affection, and see each other in the future." ”If anything is done too badly, there will be no room for maneuver, and feelings will fall into a cramped space, which is suffocating. Only by relaxing and using feelings as a lubricant for interests can we breathe freely in the field of interpersonal relationships.
During the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei visited the thatched house and invited Zhuge Liang, but he did not give a huge gift. Instead, he went three times in a row to express his sincerity.
If you can find a way to move the other person, then the thing is half the battle. There are some things that can even make the other party pay backwards.
People interact with each other mutually, if you talk about money directly, the other party will regard money as very important; If you play the emotional card, the other party will also return a certain amount of affection to you.
If you meet a person who is not bad at money, and still desperately gives money, it will seem ignorant.
Saving useless socializing is to cover your money bag.
My mother once told me about a few old classmates who met at a small hotel, and my mother was among them.
Before the party, some classmates said in the group that when the party is gathered, everyone remember to bring money. Because of a certain classmate, he wants to do a big business.
What kind of business is it? Everyone is in the dark, hoping to unravel the mystery.
When I arrived at the small hotel, my mother found that only five of the more than ten classmates who were supposed to come came.
During the meal, some classmates began to talk about business experience, and for some reason, the party quickly dispersed.
To be honest, they are all old people, and they still expect to make a fortune? No one is stupid. There is no such thing as a pie in the world.
Meals that are purely eating and drinking, meals that are greedy for money, people who are looking for you to borrow money, "Adou" who can't help them, and people who are close to you. Be vigilant.
It's not uncommon for a meal to become a **; It is not uncommon to see too much drinking, resulting in the wrong meal.
Therefore, by selectively attending dinners, your purse will be tighter. Money is not blown by the wind, it is the income of labor, and you don't have to pay for useless socializing.
To cherish the affection of your relatives is to get a priceless treasure.
If you tell your parents how much money you make, your parents will be pleased; If you say how much money you have lost, your parents will be very distressed.
Bi Shumin wrote in "Filial Piety is Priceless": "I don't like the story of a hard-working child studying for school. The family is very difficult, his father died, and his younger siblings are waiting to be fed, but after graduating from college, he still has to insist on going to graduate school, and his mother has to sell blood. I thought it was a selfish student. ”A few words, the love of parents is vividly reflected.
In this life, the people who really owe are parents are parents.
If you give up the love of your parents and only know how to spend your parents' money, then you are gnawing at the old people and a person who does not know how to be grateful.
No matter how poor you are, don't save money for your parents. If you don't have time to spend with your parents, then you can give a ** to your parents, ** the fee is still affordable.
During the New Year's holidays, I visit my parents and bring small gifts. It doesn't cost much, but the feelings are very sincere.
When your parents are old, you bring them tea and water, which will delay your time to make money, but you will also have a lot less regrets. This "money", you need to give.
When talking to your parents about money, you have to be generous, so that the money will be more valuable.
Husband and wife make money hard, which is a love that enjoys happiness and hardship.
There is a saying on the Internet: "Men are just such little tricks." Trick a ten-year-old girl, use sugar, cheat a twenty-year-old girl, use flowers, want to cheat a thirty-year-old woman, intentions, cheat a forty-year-old woman, you can only use money. ”As you get older, feelings become more and more realistic. Between husband and wife, they also have to talk about money. If you only talk about love, not money, you will not have sincerity.
Middle-aged couples are called "chaimi couples". They are all the pillars of the family, how can they do it without money?
Therefore, a good couple will make money together, no matter how hard it is, they will survive together. When you are famous, spend money together, travel, see the scenery, and feel the beautiful life.
For the sake of love, you have to be willing to invest, and even give all your money to your lover.
Money is not everything, and it is difficult to buy true love; But without money, true feelings will be sad.
Love is worthless, but love can become the driving force to make money, the bargaining chips to borrow money, the opportunity to make a fortune, and the moving of cooperation.
In this life, it is actually a process of "planting in spring and growing in summer, harvesting in autumn and hiding in winter".
If you sow love, you will reap it; If you shed sweat and tears, you will get money.
If you have money or not, you must have affection, and your life will be more cheerful.
As the saying goes, we are all people who run with tears.
If there are tears in the eyes, it is affectionate.
To run hard is to make money.