As a large-scale life service emotional blogger, there is a problem that will be encountered from time to time, but no matter how you talk about it, it seems that you can't get a result.
Can people who have truly loved still be friends?
Some people say that people who have loved each other will only make each other uncomfortable if they are reluctant to be friends.
It is also said that when lovers are not good, it is even more impossible to be friends.
Some people also say that people who have loved are friends, mostly in restraint.
Let's be honest,Whether the people who have loved can be friends or not, most people are not optimistic.
AbsolutelyThere are also more rational people who believe that after love, they can be friends as long as the mentality of the two people is good.
So, how do people who have really loved make friends? It's nothing more than these 4 ends
1.Reluctantly restrained, he continued to pull.
Some people will choose to force themselves in order to continue to be friends.
However, this restraint is hardly long-lasting.
You must know that the more you want to suppress some emotions, the more affectionate they will become.
If you can really treat it sensibly, then it is not true love.
Therefore, those who reluctantly become friends after a breakup will only fall into an entangled situation.
This back-and-forth state will make both parties exhausted, and even aggravate each other's injuries.
2.Thinking relieved, he still lingered.
Some people think that they can be friends with each other after letting go.
However, in the actual relationship, they will find that they still can't let go.
Especially after seeing the other party getting close to other members of the opposite sex, or having a new relationship, I still feel uncomfortable, very jealous, and in the final analysis, it is the explosion of possessiveness.
Being friends in this state is actually just a kind of self-deception, they think they have come out of the shadows, but in fact they are still lingering in the same place.
3.After a long time, really let go.
It is undeniable that love does disappear, especially under the influence of time.
However, the length of time that everyone has put it down varies.
Some people spend their entire lives without being able to truly let go.
Of course, there are also people who have no heart and lungs, and they may come out completely in a few days.
Only when you really let go can you be friends with each other with a new mentality.
In this case, it is possible for the two to be friends, but the actual situation will be much more complicatedYou know, what ordinary people can't do, it's even more difficult if you want two people to do it at the same time.
4.One is not wide, and each is fine.
Once you've loved, the best thing to do is not to contact again.
You can leave a place in your heart and pretend to be an "old friend".
Good memories can be had, but the intersection of life is avoided as much as possible.
Such an ending may be the best for the two.
After all, if you really love, many things will be unforgettable, and it is really difficult to really let go, even if there is only a little bit of such care, it will affect the mentality of the two.
Instead of asking for trouble, it is better to stop bothering, bless each other, and live well.
Actually,Whether the person you have loved can be a friend, the answer is yes.
It's just that you have to figure it out, if you want to be friends with each other, do you simply think it's good to be friends, or do you want to get back together?
Everyone's definition of love is different, and the requirements for friends are also different.
But remember that don't lie to yourself.
Finally, I want to say that,After a breakup, you can be friends
But remember, don't force yourself, let alone the other person's ......