Given that both of my sisters have had two or three miscarriages, I would like to discuss it here, even though the topic of "contraception for both sexes" is sometimes difficult to talk about.
Some girls are really fertile and will get pregnant without taking good measures despite the safe period. It just so happens that my two sisters are also fertile-prohibitive, and what I can't understand is that they don't do safety measures. I asked, why not take security measures in place? My second sister said, you don't understand, your second brother-in-law is troublesome, and they can't control their love of drinking. I said, "You're 41 years old, and you had a bad miscarriage before, and you were still young at that time, and your recovery was slow." Again, you see that your face is as white as paper, and you are shaking when you walk, can't you take safety measures? You and your second brother-in-law should also have a good talk about this issue, you really can't afford to have a miscarriage, it hurts your body too much. The second sister looked a little embarrassed, it seems that more than ten years have passed, and she has not used it*** Now it has become a habit, she is also very helpless, and it is difficult for her to ask for the second brother-in-law again.
I really wonder what kind of "love" a man is reluctant to do safety measures for the sake of his wife. I was even more resentful of my sister's lack of self-love, and I didn't mention the least of self-protection requirements.
Here I would like to talk about myself, I have been married for six years and have two children, both of whom are trying to get pregnant. I'm not going to give birth either. After giving birth, I said to my husband: "If you don't want me to have all kinds of ** diseases and geriatric diseases in the future, you can honestly do contraception, and I feel that I have lost my vitality after giving birth to two, and I don't want to experience the harm of miscarriage again." "I think it's a minimum requirement for self-preservation, I take care of my body because I can't get sick and I have two small children to take care of.
Without proper safety measures, only girls end up being harmed. Therefore, I still want to appeal to everyone: boys, it is really not easy for a woman to have a lifetime, the pain of having children is a firm choice of love, and the harm of miscarriage should not be experienced by them. I hope that boys will think more about girls, after all, your little "discomfort" can avoid a great physical injury for girls. Girls, you should also love yourself and protect yourself. Don't compromise.