When I was in college, I went to the water room to fetch water, and the faucet in the water room was too big, and I was standing on the sidelines at a loss, when a boy came over and said, "I'll help you." ”
As he spoke, he quickly turned off the faucet. I looked up at him, tall, black **, I hurriedly thanked him.
After receiving the water, I was ready to carry the water and leave, but he insisted on helping me carry it, and I refused several times, so he grabbed the handle of the kettle. I was afraid that the water in the action would overflow and burn people, so I didn't insist anymore.
When I arrived at the door of the dormitory, I thanked me again and again and was about to take the kettle and go up to the dormitory building, the boy put down his kettle and held my kettle and said, "Why don't we add a WeChat, we can chat and get together often in the future." ”
He helped me, just asked for a WeChat, and I was embarrassed to refuse, so I passed the friend verification.
After adding WeChat, I knew his name was Ah Jie. He was always talking to me all day long, and he always had endless words and questions.
A few days later, when I opened WeChat and saw a barrage of messages from him, I began to feel disgusted. As long as I didn't reply to a message, he would send a series of question marks and start his questioning and blame, which undoubtedly bothered me.
His excessive enthusiasm and rapid excitement found it difficult for me to accept.
Got up. "What are you doing? ”
Are you so busy that you don't have time to reply to messages? ”
Do you know that it is very unqualified to not reply to other people's information? ”
What are you doing, is it so hard to reply to a message? ”
Have you ever made a mistake and you haven't known to reply to a message for so long? I am worried that I can't contact you, can I understand something? ”
Looking at the series of messages he sent, I couldn't help it, and quickly typed and replied: "What is our relationship?" Am I so idle, do I have to watch my phone all day long and wait for your message to reply to your message? I'm not used to communicating with you like this, so wouldn't it be nice if we didn't contact each other like this? ”
Unexpectedly, when this message was sent, he immediately sent it to WeChat voice, I immediately pressed reject, he called again, I still pressed refuse, without hesitation.
Then I saw the message he sent: "Why are you like this, I was kind enough to help you carry boiling water, and I didn't do anything to you, why are you so hard-hearted?" Are you embarrassed? ”
I felt my blood pressure go up and kept mentioning it to the top of my head. Then send a message to reason with him, so that the hours have passed.
There will be a second time for this kind of thing, and I am unwilling to be told all by him, and every time I will reason with him without humility or arrogance. But I found that it didn't help at all, and next time, I would go back to the beginning and start the same topic again.
I was really tired during that time, and I felt sick when I thought about him. When I think about the time wasted and meaningless reasoning with him, I regret it even more. I was absent-minded in class, and my exam scores regressed very quickly.
Later, I simply didn't reply. He still sends a lot of messages every day, and I turn a blind eye. He was anxious and said that he would wait downstairs in the dormitory for me to make it clear, but I was still indifferent and did not reply a word.
A week passed, half a month passed, and he gradually stopped talking to me. My life gradually returned to tranquility.
I suddenly realized that dwelling on rotten people and rotten things was consuming myself. It's better to focus on something meaningful. Otherwise, my heart will be occupied by those rotten people and rotten things, and it will be meaningless not to talk about exhaustion.
After another half a month, I deleted Jay, and there has been no intersection since.
Reasoning works with people with a sense of reason, not everyone can make sense. That being the case, there are many times some theories that are undoubtedly superfluous. Don't waste your time on superfluous things, time is precious.