In this colorful world, everyone moves forward in different rhythms and trajectories, chasing their own dreams. However, some people always seem to be stuck in confusion and anxiety, feeling that life is incomplete and uninteresting. Why is this happening? Perhaps, the answer lies in this simple but profound truth: their pattern is too small.
When we talk about "pattern," we are referring to a person's view and understanding of the world, of life, and of their expectations and aspirations. The larger a person's landscape, the broader his focus and the broader his attitude towards problems, so that he can better adapt to changes and challenges. On the contrary, if a person's pattern is too small, then he is likely to be haunted by trivial things, unable to see the wider world, ignoring the beauty and possibilities in life, which leads to the hindrance of the pursuit of happiness.
Imagine two people standing at the top of a mountain and at the bottom of a mountain, and the view they see is completely different. Those who stand on the top of the hill can overlook the scenery of the entire city and feel the spaciousness and magnificence; Those who stand at the foot of the mountain can only see the narrow streets and buildings around them, and feel surrounded and confined by them. In the same way, a person's pattern determines what he can see and experience, and determines his attitude and choices towards life.
It doesn't matter if you're in**, as long as you look up at the starry sky, you will feel small and great. "Only when we can let go of the trivial things and troubles in front of us and look up to see the wider world can we appreciate the true meaning and value of life. The size of the pattern does not depend on the wealth or status that a person has, but on his attitude and state of mind towards life, and whether he is willing to accept and try new possibilities.
A person with a broad pattern can see the infinite possibilities and beauty in life, find opportunities from difficulties, and draw strength from setbacks. They are optimistic and positive, brave to pursue their dreams, and are not afraid of setbacks because they believe that every challenge is to make themselves stronger and more complete. In contrast, a person with a small pattern is often confined to his own limitations and comfort zone, unable to surpass himself, unable to break through difficulties, and thus feels trapped and unhappy in life.
For example, it's like a boat drifting down a river. A person with a broad pattern is like a flat boat, spreading its wings and soaring in the turbulent rapids, facing the wind; The small person is like a small raft, pushed by the waves, unable to find the direction and motivation to move forward. Life is such a rushing river, only with a broad pattern, can we follow the trend, control the wind and waves, and sail to the other side of success and happiness.
If you find yourself stuck in negativity and anxiety, maybe it's time to take a look at your pattern. Try to open your mind, let your mind fly, expand your horizons, and discover more possibilities and beauty in life. Remember, no matter what stage of life you are in, no matter what difficulties and challenges you face, as long as you dare to look to the future and dare to challenge yourself, you will definitely be able to find your own path to happiness.
As singer Faye Wong once sang: "Life is like a journey, and the scenery is constantly changing along the way." "Only by having a broad pattern can we see the scenery along the way, feel the diversity of life, and meet unknown challenges and opportunities. So, let's face it bravely, open up the pattern, and live a true life of happiness and value!
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