Welcome to the real world.
1. One dollar can make customers open their eyes and talk nonsense, and post pictures to praise.
2. For ten yuan, you can let a takeaway guy deliver food to you against a 16-level typhoon.
3. For a hundred dollars, you can let a big man carry the refrigerator to send you upstairs.
4. A thousand yuan can make a daughter who has been raised by others for more than 20 years stand by your side.
5. 5,000 yuan can get a college student full of ideals to give you a month's class.
6. 10,000 yuan can make you see human nature clearly, and relatives and friends are still ruthless.
7. 100,000 yuan can make a person go west, and he will never dare to go east, south, and north.
8. 200,000 yuan can end the so-called "true love".
So, don't you understand the importance of money yet?
If you know at the age of 10 that making money is extremely important, then you should be a genius.
If you're 20 and know how important it is to make money, you're probably going to do better than most people.
If you don't know how important it is to make money at the age of 30, there is a high probability that there is no hope in this life.
If you know it's important to make money at the age of 40, you're definitely a ****oi.
If you don't know how important it is to make money at the age of 50, you can just wait to die.
But what if you didn't know that money was important until you were 60? Then you should really be dying - most likely because your children don't care about you, you lie in the hospital and can't afford to take medicine, you see through the heat and cold of the world, and you know that money is very important, even the most important.
People are cold, and I have seen too thoroughly in the past ten years of being out of society.
I still remember when I was a freshman in high school, I just went to the county seat to study, and the first time I left the countryside, I couldn't even take the bus in the county seat. Follow my father to the stall next to buy **, and then the boss said why not buy two, I said I still wear one, one to wear, so just buy one, the boss smiled embarrassedly.
My father provided me with education, but he didn't have the ability to make money, so he planted rice at home, raised chickens, planted a few acres of chili peppers, dried the chili peppers, dried the chili peppers, how much money could he make from this? Busy all day, the whole family went out at six or seven o'clock in the morning, because the sun was relatively big at noon, so they rushed to pick the peppers home at seven or eight o'clock in the morning during the day, and then dried them for four or five days.
At that time, I was only a teenager, I felt that it was too difficult to make money, I resented my father, why couldn't he let me eat and drink, my shoes and clothes were all left over from relatives and children, my father had no money to buy new clothes, so he let me wear the shoes of relatives and children, until one day, relatives and children celebrated the New Year, from the county to follow his parents, together with this rural hometown, he pointed to my clothes and said, Dad, that is not my clothes? I could only keep my head down and say nothing.
Due to the poverty of my family, the tuition fee is borrowed in a low voice, and the living expenses are less than half of other students' classmates. When the family built a house, they owed 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, and the annual interest was more than 8,000, and my mother had insomnia every day.
It is more realistic for people to be poor than for dogs.
Because the family was poor, my parents went to the city, and after finishing what they had to do, they were reluctant to eat when it was time to eat. If you have money, you will go back hungry? Parents are sick and reluctant to see it. As a result, a minor illness becomes a major illness, and more money is spent. Every time I call **, as long as it takes five minutes, my mother says that I hang up, but I still feel sorry for the phone bill. We don't have any information about the village. I work outside the home and can only go home once or twice a year.
Because my family is poor, I have been imprinted too much.
At that time, I was only a teenager, and my classmates in the class, even if her family was poor, would not show it, because everyone knew about it, and she would be looked down upon.
I once wore long sleeves in the summer, and people asked me how to wear long sleeves on such a hot day, and I couldn't tell him because I couldn't afford to buy new short sleeves, so I wore long sleeves as short sleeves and folded the sleeves and that's it.
When I was in junior high school, I only had one pair of shoes, and I had to wear shoes to physical education class, not slippers, but I only had one pair of shoes, so I wore them dirty, and washed them at night and dried them on the second day, and if I couldn't dry them, I wore wet shoes to class because I didn't have new ones to change.
I remember when I was in the second year of junior high school, my shoes were torn, and when I got home, I told my father that he didn't have the money to buy me shoes, and he asked me to wear his shoes, and he was two or three sizes bigger than me, but I still wore his shoes and his jeans to school, and my classmates laughed at me, saying why do you feel so big in pants, are they your dad's? There are a lot of things like poverty, for example, when I was in the first year of junior high school, someone asked me to borrow a dime, and I asked him to ask for it, but he didn't pay it back to me, and I asked for a whole week. There are too many other stories, I don't want to say more, now I am an adult, and I have been out of society for more than ten years.
I have become ruthless, without a trace of benevolence and morality, I just want to make money, I just want to make money all the time, and other dramas and entertainment news have nothing to do with me.
If a man is poor, the wife he marries can only be crooked and cracked, this is the reality of life. People are poor, their IQ is not high when they marry their wives, and their intelligence is average when they have children, and children can't walk anywhere, another cycle of introverted inferiority.
You ask me, why do people make money?
I can only say that because I was too poor, my childhood was too poor, there were many memories of poverty and inferiority and various stories, after the junior high school physical education class, I went to the supermarket to buy cold Sprite Cola, and I went back to the school water dispenser to drink water from the water dispenser.
Poverty is a habit, being rich is also a habit, being poor is a lifetime, and being rich is also a lifetime. I just don't want poverty to trap me all my life, so until today, I have been struggling and struggling.
People will change, now I have become **, or kind, I don't have too many answers, a person changes, either the environment, or nature.
Real poverty is not the absence of money, but the fact that there is money, or to do things with the thinking of the poor.
Material determines consciousness, material is poor, it is impossible to open up thinking, it will continue to block, unwilling to invest, dare not take risks, can only live cautiously. To truly change one's destiny is to respect common sense and put it into practice. When you come into contact with all kinds of people and things, you will expand a lot of ideas for making money.
Mother takes money very seriously, puts all the money under the TV, the cabinet inside for many years, she is not willing to spend or use, if a person makes money in a difficult way, then it will be even more difficult for him to spend money. Because he earns 100 yuan, which is the result of a hard day's work, how can he be willing to spend 100 yuan to buy a virtual software? Impossible!
Poverty is a family's genes rooted in its bones, passed from father to son, and son to grandson. Look at the Chinese New Year, relatives are driving home to visit relatives, and his father can only sit on the threshold and smoke alone, and no one gives him cigarettes or greetings.
The son has the ability, are all relatives and friends coming to send cigarettes and alcohol, are they all sitting at a big table and complimenting?
I used to think that it was a shame to set up a stall, a young man in his 20s, a young man, how to set up a stall, now what face do I want, sell goods directly, make money directly, and clear the money and goods, what shame do I have?
Many people always have their own ability, hope that offspring, give birth to a lot of children, bet on the probability, there is always a child who has a chance, and they expect him to have a chance to support his parents. They seem to be pinning their hopes on some kind of escape, even if it is very slim.
All in all, I worked hard, and when I reached a higher level, my physical state and mental state changed. No longer cynical, but more realistic, more and more rational. I used to be poor, and I didn't want my children and grandchildren to become ignorant and backward. I only appreciate those who are strong, those who are overpowering, who are free in spirit and in wealth. I used to say that I would stop doing it if I earned 1 million, but now that I think about it, I was still too young at the beginning, thinking that a little rich is safe, that is, if I earn 10 million, I will continue to toss. Enterprising, never satisfied, this is the main theme of the strong.
It is not terrible for people to be poor, what is terrible is to get used to poverty and never want to change.
There is one more sentence, I must say again: it is absolutely a lie to be rich for three generations. What I see is that the children of the poor will always be poor, and the children of the rich will not be worse than they are.
What is the difference between a young person and a dog if he does not risk his life to grow himself?
The scenery around us doesn't seem to change much every day, but the scenery in our hearts is transforming and sublimating every day. Time flies, reluctant day and night. Five years later, some are small grasses, and some are towering trees. What kind of seed we have in our hearts, what kind of scenery we can reap.
I used to be very poor, because what I paid attention to, saw, and understood every day was negative, passive, and bottom-level, and my thoughts and thoughts would be assimilated and influenced by them, and eventually become consistent, that is, stupid thinking.
Nowadays, all I see is positive, proactive, optimistic, positive, and constantly forging ahead, and I don't look at those negative comments anymore. In my long life, I have written essays for 8 years, and it is the notes of these 8 years that have established my new thinking.
Many times poverty is temporary, but the inferiority complex that poverty produces will follow someone for the rest of your life and linger, even if you have achieved financial freedom.
What about my uncles of the older generation, if you do this, you may lose money, don't do it! It costs to open a store, so don't do it! Alas, I haven't done this, and I don't do it, they've been on that road all their lives, and now 20 years later, they're still the same.
The information that the poor are exposed to is nothing more than watching TV, Douyin, etc., or hearsay, and their channels are very narrow.
I used to like to watch all kinds of brain-dead TV series, but now I don't watch them, those are all marketing stupid.
I can learn to do business and run a business after watching two episodes of TV series, and that's really hell, I can make money because I've been working, I've been moving with my hands and feet, I've been thinking with my head, and I've been working.
Since ancient times, heroes have come out of youth, and fools have been realized later. Wasting time equals being a fool, and being a fool equals wasting time.
Jay Chou has been learning to play the piano since he was 4 years old, and his mother whips him with a teaching. Han Han took the initiative to drop out of school at the age of 17 and enter the society, and Fudan University escorted him to not go.
The poor are still going to graduate school at the age of 25, and the 35-year-old who works is just beginning the mid-life crisis, and like many people who are paralyzed in bed and dying at the age of sixty or seventy, they find that their children do not care about him, and only then can they see the truth of the world.
It wasn't until I was 20 years old that I fully understood that nothing is more important than making money. It doesn't matter if it's any family, friendship or love. Compared with making money, even one toe of money can't be compared. So I'm better than most people. But it's not as good as Han Han's geniuses.
When people have no money, they can't see the truth of the world clearly, don't believe anything that people who don't have money say, including their perception of feelings, their perception of life, and their view of the world. It's all wrong. Their kindness is all stupid, and even their recipes are considered right because they don't have money.
Don't assume that any of your opinions are right until you make money on your own. Definitely wrong. Because the poor do not understand the world, nor do they understand human nature.
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