Aunt Cheng in the community is in her sixties and still looks tough. We often walk the baby together, so the relationship is relatively familiar. Recently, I can often see her sad face. I casually asked, "Auntie, why do you seem to have something on your mind, are you not in good health?" ”
Then, as if the conversation box of Aunt Cheng had been opened, she began to confide in me about her troubles.
One day, when I was busy cooking in the kitchen, my daughter's mother-in-law, who had never been in the kitchen, suddenly barged in and said angrily, "In-laws, when are you going to move out?" ”
Aunt Cheng was stunned for a moment, and then asked, "Why did I move out?" ”
The daughter's mother-in-law explained: "The house only has three bedrooms, and Yueyue is about to sleep independently, where do you let her sleep?" "Yueyue is Aunt Cheng's granddaughter.
Aunt Cheng didn't know what to say for a while. Since the death of her husband, she has been living with her daughter's family.
By the way, this house belongs to Aunt Chen. At the beginning, the two of them did not agree to their daughter's marriage, but the daughter did not listen and had to get married naked. I didn't have anything when I got married, and I have been living in a rented house since I got married.
Later, Aunt Cheng's wife died, and only Aunt Chen lived in the house, so she asked her daughter to quit the rent and then live with her.
I lived with my daughter for a year, and my daughter became pregnant. Aunt Cheng is also retired and takes care of her daughter and her husband, and is responsible for three meals a day.
Then her granddaughter was born, and Aunt Cheng originally felt that it was okay to take care of them, and she could ask for a confinement sister-in-law if necessary. But the son-in-law insisted: "My mother is waiting to take care of her granddaughter, how can I invite a confinement wife, and it costs money, just let my mother come." ”
In order to maintain her son-in-law's face, Aunt Cheng did not refute and acquiesced to her daughter's mother-in-law to take care of her. After Yueyue was born, the son-in-law's mother also came.
At first, I thought that my son-in-law's mother would leave in confinement, but unexpectedly, she stayed for three whole years. Although there were some conflicts during this period, Aunt Cheng mostly chose to settle things and was unwilling to embarrass her daughter.
The family has been together for a few years, and now Yueyue is about to turn 3 years old. However, the son-in-law's mother claimed to take care of her granddaughter for a long time, saying that she could not do without her granddaughter, and she would take care of her second child in the future, and planned to stay here all the time. So, she asked her aunt to move out.
Faced with this proposal, Aunt Cheng was quite unwilling. This is obviously her house, left to her by her wife, why should she be allowed to leave as the owner? The son-in-law's mother can blatantly stay, is it just because she is a grandmother?
However, if he is unwilling to move out, he is afraid of causing a quarrel between his daughter and son-in-law. Besides, this is an only daughter's house, and sooner or later it will be theirs. At present, I am indeed facing the problem of not being able to live, three bedrooms, one for my daughter and son-in-law, one for my in-laws and Yueyue, and one for Aunt Cheng. Now, Lian Yueyue is about to sleep independently, and the accommodation problem has indeed become a problem.
Aunt Cheng considered the possibility of moving out and renting a house by herself, because her pension is only more than 6,000 per month, which is basically used to fill the family, and there is not much left. If she rents a house, the rest of the money is enough for her to spend on her own.
However, there was still a doubt in her heart about whether this was the acquiescence of her son-in-law, and hoped that she would take the initiative to move out so that more space could be given to them. It made her feel bad.
At the same time, she is also worried that her daughter may be angry after she leaves. After all, her daughter is her only daughter, and she is the person she cares about the most. She was afraid that her daughter would not have a good time after she left, and that she might be bullied by her son-in-law and mother-in-law if she moved out, and she could not witness it.
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