Don't have children! After 19 years of marriage, Li Jian, the "* talent", ushered in his own ending.
Li Jian is a man full of responsibility.
Out of a sense of responsibility, he would rather break up with his girlfriend who he has loved for many years.
Out of a sense of duty, he chose to quit the orchestra, even though they were in the limelight at the time.
Out of a sense of duty, he even gave up his own offspring.
Why did he develop such a strong sense of responsibility?
His family is intimately connected to it all.
Li Jian was born in Heilongjiang in 1974.
His father was an entertainer who performed Peking Opera martial arts, while his mother, although only engaged in ordinary work, also had a deep understanding of art and literature.
However, no one expected that Li Jian, a person who grew up in a family full of literary and artistic atmosphere, would become a headache for his parents.
Li Jian studied martial arts with his father since he was a child, so he was much stronger than his peers, but he did not use this advantage on the right path.
Li Jian's mischievous behavior became the talk of the town, and whenever school was over, his father always gathered around a group of complaining children.
In order to avoid having Li Jian bully his classmates at school, Li Jian's father made a deal with him, promising to take him to the zoo.
However, when Li Jian kept his promise not to bully the other children again, his father did not respond.
Because of his busy work, Li Jian's father temporarily forgot his previous agreement.
Li Jian was angry and decided to go alone, and he was penniless, and with the help of several older brothers, he was able to enter the park.
He didn't leave until he came determined to try it, and the father of the child had not yet been found.
His father did not immediately lash out and blame Li Jian, but apologized to him.
Li Jian's father realized that the culprit of Li Jian's disappearance this time was actually himself.
It is his responsibility to break the agreement, and despite being poor, he was still able to enter the zoo, which shows Li Jian's ability.
Li Jian's mistake was that he did not consult his parents before he disappeared.
A child's first teacher is his parents, which is a lesson about responsibility for Li Jian.
Li Jian's life has been accompanied by this truth.
After Li Jian went to school, he completely changed his previous naughty image and became a truly sensible child.
He took on the responsibility of being a student, so he worked harder and studied hard after being praised by his teacher for the first time.
During this time, he also came into contact with ** outside of opera for the first time.
Li Jian studied opera with his father during his childhood, but was eventually removed from the teaching list due to his rapid growth.
Li Jian was also attracted by the chic appearance of those who played the guitar and sang, just when the HK Phil was popular.
He expressed his wish to his parents, but they did not give any reply.
Two months later, when he had lost confidence in the future, he unexpectedly received a surprise from his mother.
They all saw Li Jian's efforts to study in their eyes, and Li Jian's wish happened to solve the problem that the two of them didn't know what to give.
In order to live up to his efforts, Li Jian's mother gritted her teeth and spent two months' salary to buy Li Jian a red cotton guitar.
In order to live up to his parents' expectations, Li Jian made this the motivation for his struggle, so he was more serious in class.
It is only in the daily guitar class that you can find a moment of peace.
But his parents didn't realize that this hobby could be the key to future success.
Li Jian, even though he had excellent grades, began to feel nervous in the year of the college entrance examination.
After learning that Tsinghua was going to hold a literary and artistic winter camp, he heard that there was a chance to add points, so he decisively signed up to participate.
He only had a 4-month foundation in folk music, but he went to Tsinghua University in the hope of achieving something there.
Although Li Jian's foundation is not solid enough, his talent is rare, which also gives him an opportunity.
I was just going to increase my score, but I was unexpectedly escorted.
Tsinghua took a fancy to Li Jian's talent, and his grades were also very good.
In order to retain talents, he was admitted, and after relieving himself of the trouble of studying, he put more energy into his own career.
He found that he was incapable of entering college.
Here, Li Jian's performance can only be regarded as an ordinary level, although it gathers outstanding students from all over the country.
However, his excellent interpersonal skills led him to become the class president.
His talent also attracted many enthusiasts, not only as an accompanist for nine orchestras, but also as a choir.
He became a campus star, but that didn't stop him from studying.
Although Li Jian's grades in the class were not the best, they were not bad.
He also gathered many geniuses around him, which changed his perception of his abilities.
He relied on his outstanding performance in school and successfully entered the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.
Although everyone was happy for him, he had different thoughts hidden in his heart.
In 2000, Li Jian decided to quit his job because he believed that his path should be the best way, not to become an obstacle to the upward development of more capable people.
When he and his senior Lu Gengxu contacted the school, they formed an orchestra together and embarked on the journey of the entertainment industry together.
The band's *** came out five months later, but none of them expected that this move would make them an overnight success.
When they were first founded, the two supported and relied on each other, but once they became famous, they often had conflicts with each other.
Li Jian impulsively quit the orchestra during an argument, suggesting that the decision he made in anger was irrational.
He knew that as a member of the orchestra, he had a responsibility to tell himself that he could not leave at this time.
He told himself that he could not compromise on his responsibilities in life.
Li Jian finally decided to go it alone, but his family was in trouble.
Li Jian's father suddenly fell ill, and in order to take care of him, Li Jian will shift his focus from ** to the family.
Faced with today's situation, the high medical bills have made his life difficult, and the first thing he thinks of is his girlfriend.
His current situation does not allow him to delay such a beautiful girl any longer, but his girlfriend rejects his breakup.
Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are friends who have known each other since childhood, they were separated in middle school, but met again at a classmate's wedding.
Their former youthful emotions resurfaced at this moment, and finally under Meng Xiaobei's active pursuit, the two came together.
She decided to face the challenge with Li Jian and become his most reliable support.
Despite repeated attempts, his father chose to leave and abandoned him.
After Li Jian's father died, he married Meng Xiaobei.
Meng Xiaobei has always supported Li Jian as promised and has never broken her promise.
Li Jian believes that he is not ready to be a father at the moment, especially for children.
As a father, he is not yet able to take on this responsibility, which is not an easy task.
He didn't think it was necessary to be a father.
He doesn't have much inheritance to inherit, so he's more focused on **.
It is irresponsible to not invest in the care of the child.
Everyone has a different personality, thanks to the differences in the circumstances in which they live.
Perhaps it is Li Jian's strong sense of responsibility that has led to the fact that the two still have no children.
As a result, he has put his focus into the world and has achieved what he is now.
Now, he and Meng Xiaobei have been together for 19 years, consistently, isn't this a kind of happiness?