On this day, family members and relatives in their hometowns communicated**. Women, there are not many topics in the pass, it is a short topic among parents, the east and west are short, and the conversation is endless, and this call is at least more than half an hour.
The family passed**, and the individual did not interject. Because it was a conversation in the hall, there was no confidential topic, and the family members did not shy away from it, and the conversation was very energetic. Inadvertently, I heard them talk about a very cheesy topic.
It is a matter of a rural aunt going to his father-in-law's house to visit relatives. said that on that day, my uncle went to my father-in-law's house to attend the funeral of a relative, and in addition to the normal gifts, he also spent two or three hundred yuan, one is that the light smoke is five and a half boxes, all of which are more than 20 yuan a box of cigarettes, and five and a half boxes are more than 100 yuan. The other was during the meal, when a young man who delivered food called his brother-in-law and gave him 200 yuan.
It's nothing to smoke, it's impossible for people who can smoke to smoke themselves, see people you know, especially when you meet a lot of people on this occasion, it's inevitable to prepare more cigarettes, people who don't smoke like me, this money will be saved, to ** have never smoked, I don't smoke I know, and no one finds fault.
For the second phenomenon, I don't understand it very much, that is, when I go to my father-in-law's house and meet a junior who calls me brother-in-law or brother-in-law, I have to pay money, as little as 100, as much as 200, there is no upper limit. Personally, I strongly disapprove of this approach, and it is by no means that I cannot afford it. When I went home some time ago, someone reminded me to prepare money, and I said that this is the rule of **, can't you not give it? I won't give you anything! Some people say that if you don't give it, you won't give it, who can turn over your pocket. On the day of my father-in-law's house, my family still prepared some money for me, thinking that if you prepare it, I won't dig out what can be done!
Even in the village there are people who are particularly opposed to these vices. Before the family went to the funeral at the father-in-law's house, some people said that the village did not need to pay for the younger generation, and that this kind of behavior would be stopped from now on, and they would not pay it in the future. And this family member actually provoked a reason for this, saying that this matter didn't start with us, how could it end with us, and told her husband to continue to send it.
This relative is a better face, he puts face first in everything, and would rather be wronged than save face, including attending the funeral, which is completely free to participate. Because she was hospitalized when she received the notification, it was not yet time to be discharged, so she had to be discharged early. I felt unwell after attending the funeral. My body did not fully recover well, and I had to be discharged from the hospital to participate. In fact, this is not needed, and when she was hospitalized, she knew who would pick this reason, what could one more person and one less person do, and she was not afraid of her mother's family. Isn't it idle to pick on what to do with this?
It's a personal matter to save face, but you can't encourage this kind of vice to breed, just like the uncle who went to the father-in-law's house to pay money for the younger generation, saying that there was not much money, and he wanted to be lively, and then he wanted to be lively, and he couldn't take his own money seriously, he had no relatives and no reason, and some didn't even know each other, why should he pay money for these people, and the most important thing is what is the meaning of paying money? It's so hard to just say good things to others. If it is familiar, it makes sense to take out this money if you need it, and you don't need to remind you to pay it, and you have donated a lot of public welfare donations in recent years, at least this is a meaningful thing.
Taking money to promote the breeding and spread of unhealthy tendencies and vices in the countryside is a change of customs and incompatible with the current civilized rural construction!
The above is only a personal opinion, please correct any inappropriateness. Hope it can help you and more people. Teachers and friends who are interested in this topic can pay attention to it, and you can leave a message, discuss and comment below. Thank you!
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