Documentary: The daughter-in-law is very aggrieved that she is not liked by her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law said that there is a reason for that.
A daughter-in-law told the mediator aggrievedly: Her mother-in-law is too strong with her, not only does she not like her, but she always forces herself to divorce her husband, how can there be such a mother-in-law? Can't you get into her eyes?
In order to find out the truth of the matter, the mediator decided to talk to her mother-in-law about what was going on.
So the group came to the mother-in-law's house, and sure enough, the mother-in-law glared at her angrily when she saw her daughter-in-law, and she had a posture of wanting to drive her daughter-in-law away.
The mediator hurriedly stepped forward to do the work, and asked the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and others to sit down and talk slowly.
The mother-in-law said angrily: As soon as I saw her, I was angry, and I felt that talking to her was cheap, and I still had the face to come to my door?
In the face of her mother-in-law's bad attitude, the daughter-in-law felt that with her husband's support and a mediator by her side, her mother-in-law did not dare to do anything to her.
So he had the courage to say: I don't like to hear you say this, after all, I am your daughter-in-law, why can't I come here?
The mother-in-law became even more angry, she stood up and pointed at her daughter-in-law and shouted: You let me go, I don't like to see you, what's wrong with my daughter-in-law, I still want you to divorce quickly?
In the face of such an unreasonable mother-in-law, the mediator also feels that the mother-in-law is too strong, how can there be such a mother-in-law in the world? The reason for forcing a daughter-in-law to divorce?
So the mediator was not satisfied with the mother-in-law's behavior, and said: Sister, you can't talk about your daughter-in-law like that, what conflicts in the family can't be resolved?
The son was also very dissatisfied with his mother on the side, and couldn't help but nag: How can there be a mother like you? No matter how bad she is, she is also my wife, why do you always have trouble with her? Besides, we have been married for 4 years, and our children are 2 years old, what are you still thinking about the past?
The mother was even more angry when she heard her son's words, and she grabbed the mediator angrily and began to tell the reason for the incident
It turns out that the son and his current wife used to have a happy family before, and they lived with the original wife for 9 years.
also gave birth to two lovely daughters, and the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law got along well with the family.
The relationship between the son and his ex-wife is also very beautiful, and the mother-in-law is happy in her eyes and heart, thinking that she will live a peaceful and warm life from now on.
Who knew that later, the son's attitude towards his wife suddenly changed, not only did he not go home to live, but he often picked his nose and eyes at his wife.
The wife cried and cried for some reason to tell her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law tried to persuade her son in order to make her family happy, but the son couldn't listen to his mother's language at all.
Instead, he filed for divorce from his wife even more severely.
The wife later learned that her husband had already changed his mind, and it turned out that the man who had sworn by the mountains and seas had already had a new love outside.
The wife had no choice but to agree to the divorce.
The mother-in-law has long treated her daughter-in-law as if she were her own daughter, and it is very sad to see that the good family is separated like this.
angrily scolded his son for having no conscience, abandoning his wife is not a good man, leaving a good family behind, and doing nonsense outside.
But even the mother's persuasion did not prevent the son from divorcing on April 1, April Fool's Day. A month later, the son and his new love secretly got a marriage certificate.
This action made the mother half angry, and she really didn't understand what good her son did in doing this.
But the wood is already in the boat, and the mother has no choice but to get angry in her heart and feel unfair for her former daughter-in-law.
Since her son married a junior, this daughter-in-law is not only lazy, but also disrespectful to her elders, which makes her mother-in-law even more disliked.
So my mother-in-law didn't have a good face from beginning to end.
Later, when I learned that my daughter-in-law was pregnant, my mother-in-law thought that since they were all raw rice and cooked rice, they should treat others well.
So the mother-in-law began to send various nutritional products to her daughter-in-law, and after giving birth, the mother-in-law took her home to serve the confinement child wholeheartedly.
Who knows that the daughter-in-law always looks high, either that this is not good or that is not good.
is still too lazy to die, even if the confinement is out, the grass is not vertical, no matter what the mother-in-law has to do by herself, let alone help cook once.
After a long time, her mother-in-law didn't like her in the first place, so she said a lot of complaining things to her daughter-in-law.
The daughter-in-law not only did not restrain herself and admit her mistakes, but also felt that she was justified and had many disputes with her mother-in-law.
In a fit of anger, the mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law to get out of the way and let her leave her son, preferably divorced.
said that she didn't like such a daughter-in-law a hundred times, and her son was really obsessed with such a person.
So the old thing was repeated and scolded the daughter-in-law for being shameless, knowing that people had families and children, and they were willing to be a third party by breaking up their faces.
The daughter-in-law felt too shameless when she heard her mother-in-law scolding her like this, so she cried and asked her husband to find justice for herself.
The son told his mother that his divorce from his ex-wife was not his current wife's business, they were only a business partnership, and after the divorce, he felt that since he and his current wife were cooperative businesses, why couldn't they be husband and wife? So I wanted to marry my wife.
And his wife also had a good impression of him, so the two got married on impulse.
Since it is the wife chosen by the son, he hopes that the mother will treat the daughter-in-law well, and he does not want the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be discordant and make himself a son in the middle.
In the face of her son's quibbles, the mother did not believe it at all. She said to the mediator: Do you believe what your son said? He said that the two hadn't hooked up before, and I didn't believe it if they were killed!
The mother did not budge for this, accusing her daughter-in-law: As a mother-in-law, she not only has to take the two children left by her former daughter-in-law, but also serves the children born to her current daughter-in-law, which is very hard for her.
Not only does the daughter-in-law not help, but at home she is completely palms up, and she only knows to reach out to her son to ask for money.
Since the son married this wife, his business has not been good, and he has pulled down a lot of foreign debts, and his in-laws have helped him pay them off.
Thinking of all kinds of reasons, I can't help but scold my daughter-in-law for being a loser, if the son says good things for his daughter-in-law, his mother will also scold him and let them get out together, and it is best not to appear at the mother-in-law's house.
At this point, the mediators understood the reason and began to persuade each other.
The mediator told the daughter-in-law: Mother-in-law is anxious for you, sometimes you don't speak well, don't take it seriously, usually be diligent at home, help your mother-in-law do something, even if it is to wash the dishes and chopsticks and clean up. After a long time, my mother-in-law saw that you were good, and she naturally liked you.
He also said to his mother-in-law: Don't take care of young people's affairs, since his son has done something wrong, even if he regrets it now, it's too late, don't be angry in the future and say something to complain, so that your son is unhappy and your heart is not happy.
Later, under the patient persuasion of the mediator, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law finally reconciled.
The daughter-in-law took the initiative to bring a cup of tea to her mother-in-law and said: In the future, when the child is older, I will find a place to go to work, so that I can help the family make money, and I will also help you do housework in the future, so that you will not work so hard anymore.
The son also took the initiative to admit his mistakes, saying that he and his wife would live well in the future and be filial to their parents.
When the mother-in-law saw her son, the daughter-in-law admitted her mistake and was sincere, so she no longer insisted, took the tea from the daughter-in-law and took a sip to express her acceptance.
Some people say: In fact, every parent hopes that their children will live well, and sons and daughters-in-law like this, since this is already the case, they really want to correct their mistakes, and I hope that the family will be harmonious and happy from now on.
What do you think about this?