I believe that many people will find that the marriage rate continues to increase every year, but the divorce rate has begun to rise. As for the decline in the marriage rate, Ben believes that the fundamental reason is not the bride price, but the man's "spending power", and the so-called "spending power" problem can be found in history.
For example, many people will think of the capitalist world economic crisis of 1929-1933, when the capitalists poured milk into the river rather than sell it cheaply. Of course, about overproduction, middle school history textbooks explain it this way: that is, the so-called overproduction, it is not really oversupply, but because the goods produced are products that the majority of people cannot afford to consume, so there are not so many takers for the things produced, so there will be surplus.
In fact, today's marriage rate** is also essentially related to overproduction - at least it can be compared to overproduction.
For marriage, love is optional. The essence of marriage is nothing more than the man covets the woman's body and needs the woman's body to help him solve his desires, while the woman finds a long-term meal ticket that provides financial support for herself. This is the nature of marriage. So there is a line in the Japanese movie "Wangxiang": Marriage is just a long-term sale (so what). Of course, this may seem vulgar, but the reality is that it is.
Of course, it is not denied that there are indeed people who believe in love in reality and are willing to fight for love, but after all, this is a small probability event, and this article is talking about the mainstream situation.
Nowadays, the low marriage rate comes down to the fact that the requirements of the woman far exceed the carrying capacity of the man.
For example, under the popularity of some turtle men, as well as various braggart atmospheres, men with a monthly salary of 3,000 are not worthy of living (in other words, isn't the majority salary in small counties and towns also three or four thousand?). ), a monthly salary of 120,000 is not unusual. I even know some poor ghosts in the poor rural areas of Guizhou, who go to the city to work and eat for two days, and boast that the annual income of 350,000 yuan is easy, and the annual income can be more than 10 million yuan by doing a small business. Under this kind of braggart atmosphere, many women often misjudge social wealth: many women feel that the man should not only have a car, a house and a deposit, but also take out a bride price of two or three hundred thousand, and should also ensure that he can live with a new family of one or two hundred thousand a month, otherwise such a man is not qualified to marry a wife.
I remember the year before last, I heard an Anhui woman who was one meter four tall and looked like a monkey claim that her boyfriend earned more than 300,000 yuan a year in Beijing, but she disliked that her boyfriend was not good, and this Anhui woman who looked like a monkey was born in the countryside, and she was also a very low-end worker, so there were no conditions at all.
In reality, a monthly salary of 120,000 yuan in the city actually requires very hard work (for mainstream workers), while in the county town, a monthly salary of 3,000 or 4,000 is considered the mainstream. Therefore, the vast majority of men cannot meet these demands made by the woman. Therefore, the man does not have the spending power to consume marriage, so the marriage rate continues to increase.
Of course, this article does not feel that the current marriage rate is the responsibility of the little fairies. After all, the reason why the little fairies are too demanding of the men is because the little fairies are in the state of information cocoon, and the formation of the information cocoon, the vast majority of bragging turtle men are responsible, this is the so-called, when the avalanche, no snowflake is innocent.
Therefore, bragging hurts others and hurts yourself.