Aunt Ping's nephew will get married in two days, she went to her sister's house to see if there was anything else to help, she hadn't been at home for the past two days, and she just came back and went to her sister's house.
Her house is very close to her sister's house, and it takes less than 5 minutes to get there by electric car.
It didn't take long for Aunt Ping to come back, and there were a few aunts chatting outside the gate of her house, so I asked her why she came back so quickly?
Aunt Ping wanted to help, but when she arrived at her sister's house, she saw that their family was sad, and her sister told her that the wedding was canceled.
Wedding cancellation? Aunt Ping was so surprised, she got married in two days, why did she cancel it? My sister reluctantly said that it was her mother's temporary change of fortune, and the conditions she proposed were unacceptable, so she had to cancel the wedding.
Aunt Ping said that this mother-in-law is always like this, when she was engaged, she temporarily put forward conditions, although her sister was not happy, but for the sake of her son, it was according to what she said, this time it was time to get married, she was like this again, this time my sister's family did not listen to her.
Aunt Ping's sister's family conditions are very good, she has already bought a house for her son in the city, and her son is no longer in school, so her parents paid for her son to open a clothing store in the county seat, and the son usually does business in the county seat.
Aunt Ping said that her nephew was a child who reassured his parents everywhere, and his business was doing very well, and her sister was just worried about her son's marriage.
Although my sister's family conditions are good, I don't have to worry about my son not marrying a daughter-in-law, but parents are like this, as long as their son has not married a daughter-in-law, they are not sure, only when they see their son start a family, they are relieved.
Aunt Ping's sister's family conditions are so good, there are many people who tell her son that she is a matchmaker, and her sister does not covet how rich the girl's family is, as long as the girl is kind-hearted and good to their son, she will run the family and live.
As long as the mother looks good, let her son see it, although she has been on a blind date many times, but she has never met a suitable one. Parents want their son to get married soon, but they have to like it.
Every time her son goes on a blind date, his mother hopes to succeed, but it always fails, so Aunt Ping told her sister that her nephew is not big, he is handsome, and he is not afraid that he will not be able to marry a good daughter-in-law.
Aunt Ping said that this time her brother-in-law's daughter-in-law of a friend's introduced her, her nephew thought the girl was very good, and her sister also liked the girl because she was beautiful and quiet.
Aunt Ping said that when her nephew brought the girl to meet her parents for the first time, her sister gave her a red envelope of 10,000 yuan.
Aunt Ping's sister has no problem with the girl, but she doesn't like the girl's mother.
My sister and Aunt Ping have nothing to say, my sister said that it was very good to look at the girl, and her father didn't look like anything, not like a person who likes to play tricks.
It's the girl's mother who makes people uncomfortable to look at, looks very fond of money, and always likes to ask Aunt Ping's sister how much income she earns a year, and how much a clothing store can earn in a year.
My sister said that she was disgusted with such people, but then she thought that their family was marrying a daughter-in-law, not a daughter, as long as the girl was good, it didn't matter what happened to her parents, and her son didn't live with them.
Aunt Ping thought differently from her sister, she felt that if she had such a mother-in-law, there would definitely be trouble in the future, she told her sister that such a mother-in-law was not easy to do, but she didn't say much, in case she thought wrong, don't delay it anymore.
Aunt Ping said that her nephew had been dating the girl for more than half a year, and the two were also in love, so it was time to talk about marriage.
When the engagement, the nephew asked the girl what she wanted, and the girl said that she had to go home and ask her parents.
Aunt Ping's sister said that the girl's mother was not a real person, and it seemed that she was in charge of the house, so she might make any requests, so she was afraid of this future mother-in-law.
The whole family was worried that the girl's mother would make any excessive demands, and one day the girl replied to them, saying that her mother had no requirements, and what other people's families should do, her family would do it, and let Aunt Ping's sister's family watch it.
This surprised Aunt Ping's sister, but she didn't expect her future mother-in-law to be so reasonable, she was wrong, and she shouldn't be suspicious.
Aunt Ping asked her sister how much she planned to give, and her sister said that since her in-laws were reasonable and did not say the amount of the bride price, they could not give less.
Now there are 66,000 bride prices, 88,000 yuan, and 100,000 yuan, almost all of which are about 100,000 yuan, and there are also jewelry.
Sister Ping decided to give a bride price of 120,000, as well as hardware, which used to be three gold, but now that hardware is popular, they will also give hardware.
My mother-in-law was very happy to hear that so many bride prices were given, and Aunt Ping's family was finally relieved.
On the day of the engagement, it was the man's family who brought the dowry to the woman's house, and Aunt Ping also went.
Aunt Ping's sister gave her daughter-in-law a red envelope of 10,001, which is a good meaning of one in a million.
Aunt Ping saw that the girl's mother's face was a little unpleasant, so she whispered the matchmaker out, and Aunt Ping could see that they had something, but she didn't know what they were going to discuss.
After a while, the matchmaker returned, still smiling like before, unable to see what was happening, and she didn't want others to see it.
She walked straight to Aunt Ping's sister and whispered a few words in Aunt Ping's ear, but Aunt Ping didn't hear what they said, so she saw her sister go out with the matchmaker.
Aunt Ping was curious and wanted to see what was going on, so she went with her.
The matchmaker led Aunt Ping and the sisters outside the courtyard, the girl's family lived in a remote place, it was very quiet, and no one bothered her.
At this time, Aunt Ping saw that her sister's face sank, and she could see that it should not be a good thing.
Why can't this red envelope?" Aunt Ping asked the matchmaker.
The matchmaker said that according to her, there was nothing wrong with the red envelope of 10001, but the girl's mother was not satisfied.
Aunt Ping was anxious and interjected, "What's she not satisfied with?" How much does it take for her to be satisfied? ”
The matchmaker said that the girl's mother had to ask for 48,000, which she said symbolized that her daughter's life after marriage was harmonious and beautiful.
The matchmaker is also helpless, this is not her moth, it is the girl's mother who proposed it.
Aunt Ping's sister was not happy, the dowry was not less, the bride price was also discussed, and they agreed, but now there are fewer red envelopes.
The matchmaker persuaded that at this juncture, for the sake of his son's marriage, he would make up for it.
Although Aunt Ping's sister was not happy, in order for her son to get married smoothly, her mother-in-law said as much as she wanted, and the matchmaker went to call the girl's mother again.
At this time, Aunt Ping's brother-in-law and nephew did not know about it, but Aunt Ping's sister said it after returning from the girl's house, and they were also very unhappy.
Aunt Ping said that it was appropriate to give 10001, they are really one in a million, I have never seen anyone have such a thing, she said here, her youngest son happened to come back, so she said: "When I marry a daughter-in-law, I am not picky, just pick one out of a hundred, and save you money." ”
Aunt Ping poked her son's head with her finger and said: "You can go to school well, marry a good daughter-in-law in the future, if you don't have a chance, you can't marry a good daughter-in-law, let you don't say anything, you have to use your mother as a nanny, you kid don't marry me back like that." ”
Aunt Ping's son smiled and said, "Don't worry, you must find a good one", and while talking, she entered the yard, and Aunt Ping continued to talk about her sister's house, and that mother-in-law is really good at calculating.
Soon after the engagement, it was time to pay the bride price, and Aunt Ping's sister was very worried, because the mother-in-law's behavior at the time of the engagement was unexpected, and this time I don't know if she will have any moths again.
On the day of the bride price, Aunt Ping's nephew and the matchmaker went together, and after they left, Aunt Ping's sister began to feel uneasy.
My sister told Aunt Ping that she hoped everything would go smoothly and that her mother wouldn't do anything else.
Aunt Ping's nephew and matchmaker came back after lunch at the girl's house, and when she saw her nephew entering the yard, her face was not ugly, and she guessed that she should not have encountered any trouble this time.
Aunt Ping's sister couldn't wait to find out if her mother-in-law was embarrassed about her son, and hurriedly asked the matchmaker, did her mother-in-law make other requests this time?
The matchmaker told Aunt Ping's sister to rest assured, her own mother didn't say anything else, and she was very satisfied with these bride prices. The matchmaker said that it was already in order, let them prepare for their son's wedding as soon as possible.
Aunt Ping's sister was relieved now, and the stone in her heart finally landed.
Start organizing the wedding, notify relatives and friends, prepare a banquet, and all kinds of red envelopes.
Aunt Ping's sister asked her son to ask her daughter-in-law how many children their relatives had and that they had to prepare red envelopes for the children.
The daughter-in-law said that their relatives had more than 30 children, and Aunt Ping's sister said that each child's red envelope was 200 yuan, and her son told the daughter-in-law again, and the daughter-in-law listened to it very little, saying that her mother said that each child would get a red envelope of 300 yuan.
Aunt Ping's sister said that according to what her mother-in-law said, this is a trivial matter, and it is a big thing to get married smoothly.
Everything is almost ready, the wedding day is getting closer and closer, Aunt Ping is happy and nervous to see her sister, happy that her son is about to get married, and nervous is that her mother must not look for trouble.
There are still three days before the wedding date, and before Aunt Ping's sister's house has finished breakfast that morning, someone knocked on the door outside, and it was so early, who came to visit the door, she put down the dishes and chopsticks to open the door.
When she opened the door, she saw that the matchmaker was coming, which surprised her, what happened again? She had a bad premonition in her heart.
It could be seen from the matchmaker's face that she was very anxious, and Aunt Ping's sister hurriedly let her into the house.
The matchmaker was in a hurry to explain her intention before she could sit down in the room, and she said that the girl's mother-in-law had put forward new conditions.
Aunt Ping's family can't take care of eating, their hearts are hanging, they are about to get married, and the bride price has been given, what are the new conditions?
The matchmaker said that the girl's mother had three more requirements, one was bride price, one was a house, and a car.
Aunt Ping's sister panicked, these requests sounded headless.
Didn't the bride price money be given, it was 120,000 that was negotiated with them, why is there a problem with the bride price again"? Aunt Ping's sister was anxious to ask the matchmaker.
The matchmaker said that she only found out the night before, because it was too late and she didn't come, so she hurried over early this morning.
The matchmaker said that the girl's mother went to her house last night and told her that the bride price of 120,000 was not enough, it was too little, and she had to add another 60,000, and the bride price was 180,000.
Aunt Ping's sister asked why it became 180,000 again, didn't they agree to give 120,000 at the beginning, why has it changed again?
The matchmaker said that the girl has a cousin who is about to get married, and the bride price is 180,000, so her mother has to ask for so much.
The matchmaker didn't know the girl's cousin, but she just heard her mother say that, anyway, her family's bride price would be 180,000, otherwise she wouldn't be able to get married.
Aunt Ping's sister was angry when she heard this, how could there be such a thing, the bride price was given, it was time to get married and change the hexagram, it was clearly a calculating person.
Aunt Ping's brother-in-law asked again, what was going on with the house? They have already bought a wedding house for their son, and their son has also taken the girl to see it, so what else is there to dissatisfaction with?
The matchmaker said that the girl's mother thinks the house is small, and if it is too late to buy it now, she can live in it first, but she must buy a big house after she gets married.
Regardless of whether she agreed or not, Aunt Ping's sister wanted to hear what her mother-in-law had requested, so she asked the matchmaker if her mother-in-law still wanted her family to buy another car?
The mother-in-law is to buy a car, although Aunt Ping's son has a new car, but her daughter doesn't have it, she has to buy it for her daughter, and the mother-in-law said to buy a cheap one, just buy more than 300,000 yuan.
After listening to these requests, Aunt Ping's sister didn't want to agree to anything.
Aunt Ping's sister said that the bride price was as much as she wanted, and they didn't want to add more, not because they didn't have money, but because they didn't do it.
I think the house is small, it's just a bone in the egg, the house they bought is not small, and they said that this set will live in first, and then buy another big one, isn't this asking them to buy two houses?
Speaking of cars, for their son's marriage, they have already bought a new car, and at this time their daughter-in-law wants to buy it again, they feel that there is no need for this, just have one at home, and it is a waste of money to buy it again.
Aunt Ping's sister said that they couldn't agree to the three requests made by their mother-in-law, how could they get married and change their hexagrams, and the matchmaker also said that it was really difficult to do without them.
Aunt Ping's sister asked the matchmaker to talk and make peace again, and the matchmaker was also very embarrassed, she had already persuaded her, but it didn't work, Aunt Ping's sister said that it was all burning her eyebrows, so let's talk about it again.
The matchmaker had no choice but to agree, and this time Aunt Ping's sister also went with her.
When she arrived at her in-laws' house, Aunt Ping's sister said a lot of good things, but her mother-in-law just didn't let go, and there was no room for negotiation, she insisted that if she didn't agree to the three new requirements, she wouldn't let her daughter marry.
Aunt Ping's sister and matchmaker wore out their mouths, but her mother-in-law was still resolute, but she refused to change her mind.
It's really anxious, Aunt Ping's sister is so anxious that her forehead is sweating.
Can you not be in a hurry, seeing that you are going to get married, and your mother-in-law is coming out like this again, isn't it embarrassing, if you don't agree to her request, you can't get married, but relatives and friends have already been notified, what should I do?
This is all the idea of the mother-in-law, the father-in-law has been looking at the face of his wife, it seems that he doesn't want this, but he can't be a family.
Since she couldn't convince her mother-in-law, Aunt Ping's sister and matchmaker had to come back.
When she got home, Aunt Ping's sister said that her mother would not change her mind, so her son would call the girl, and the girl said that she listened to her mother.
The parents were embarrassed, and the son made a decision and said: "Just cancel the wedding, this marriage doesn't have to be married, let's withdraw from the marriage, this is obviously calculating us, thinking that the bride price was given, and seeing the wedding day, he will take care of us, such a family, even if they get married, they will not have a good life." ”
When the son said this, the parents were relieved, and they also wanted to withdraw from the marriage, but they were still worried that their son was unwilling.
When Aunt Ping went to her sister's house, her sister had already told the girl's family that she would withdraw from the marriage, and asked them to return the bride price money and jewelry.
The girl's family didn't expect to get out of the marriage, thinking that they had spent so much money, and their relatives and friends also knew about it, and they were about to get married, so how could they get out of the marriage.
They were annoyed, saying that Aunt Ping's sister's family had proposed to withdraw from the marriage, and the bride price and jewelry would not be returned.
Aunt Ping's sister said that the other money could be dispensed with, but the bride price and jewelry had to be returned, and they could not be calculated.
Aunt Ping said that she also has a daughter at home, and she will definitely not be so calculating when she gets married in the future.
This is the girl's mother who is not kind, and should not calculate her daughter's marriage like this.
If you really want to think about your daughter, you should know more about your daughter, whether the boy is reliable, and be single-minded and self-motivated for her daughter; See clearly what kind of people the boy's parents are, and the daughter's future in-laws must be sincere and kind, so that they can get along easily.
If the daughter marries the right person and lives happily in the future, this is the good of the parents for their daughter.