As an elderly new mother, it seems that her attention and sensitivity to her children are much higher than those of her friends.
The baby is two years old this year, and from birth to now, I have been raising according to parenting textbooks.
What sleeps in January, cries in February, turns over in March, ......That is what everyone often says: three turns, six sitting, seven rolling, eight climbing, Zhou Hui walking, etc.
At each stage, I will compare, what should the baby do now? Will the baby know? Why not? ......
In the process of children's growth, it seems to be particularly anxious.
Always paying close attention to babies of the same age, what will they already be? What can be done? And then I feel like my baby doesn't seem to know how to do it.
That anxious, anxious, and a bunch of negative emotions made me ignore the baby's strengths.
After listening to Professor Zhang Meiling's lecture, I was enlightened, and my mood suddenly became brighter.
Especially in the fourth section of Professor Zhang Meiling's "Just Five Steps to Become a Wise Parent":Education should tap the potential of each individual and arouse the vitality of living beings; Education should promote the individuality of each individual; It takes time to grow, and the process of growth makes me even more confused.
I calmed down and reviewed, in fact, my baby has a lot of advantages. In the process of children's growth, we don't need to compare, we don't need to compare, babies have their own strengths.
Don't pull out the seedlings to help them grow, just like Professor Zhang Meiling said:We must learn to read children, follow the laws of children's growth, know that children's growth is staged and more continuous, and understand that every child is different.
We should be good at discovering and paying attention to children's interests and specialties, what children like and what they are good at, and cultivate them so that they can better show themselves.
Professor Zhang Meiling said: It is good to find the right one for you. That's right, what's right for kids is the best.
Professor Zhang Meiling said: to give children the best perceptual understanding in games, life, and nature, and to give children a happy childhood is the purpose of education.
This reminds me of the famous quote of the Austrian humanistic psychologist Adler: a happy childhood can heal a lifetime, an unhappy childhood allows a lifetime to heal, and childhood life is often closely related to the family of origin that grew up.
Isn't this what we as parents want most when children grow up healthy and happy?
Professor Zhang Meiling also said: healthy body, happy attitude, good habits, flexible thinking, and colorful stageIt is we who should give our children five golden keys, and I think these five keys are not only needed by children, but also by our parents.
I sincerely hope that our children have truth, goodness and beauty inside, and spirit, energy and spirit outside, and can become children with ambition (lofty goals), backbone (confidence) and confidence (real talent and real learning).