Over the years, perhaps you, like me, have found that your contact with relatives has become more and more scarce.
Perhaps, it is you who have alienated your relatives; Or, it's a relative who has alienated you.
Socializing is mutual insistence, and breaking off friendship is also a kind of socialization.
But if you think about it, why did the blood relationship between relatives become so thin?
Perhaps you have heard the phrase "the rich and the rich are together, and the poor and lowly relatives are separated". But it's not all snobbery on the part of relatives.
Zhang San was kicked out of his home and left out in the cold during the Chinese New Year. However, when he became the champion, relatives came to congratulate him.
This seems to indicate the link between relatives and personal worth. Those who are in high power and relatives come in droves; And those who have lost their value, their relatives are drifting away.
On the other hand, "come and not be rude". If you don't want to interact, family affection will also become indifferent.
Li Si's cousin, although she has a prominent position, rarely helps. Gradually, her home became crowded.
Your human touch is gone, and your relatives treat you as a passerby.
The Tao is not the same". Relatives may already be in their own worlds.
My cousin was studying in medical school, but my aunt was unimpressed. Different life trajectories are drifting apart.
When severing diplomatic relations, we need to distinguish between the real and the fake.
Relatives who have not been in touch for a long time may not really have broken off relations. Maybe they will still lend a hand when you are in trouble.
However, those relatives who do not get along with each other for the old and die and whose interests are paramount are the real severance of relations.
Those who love you will return your love; People who don't love you may just be passing by.
Let's think about the reasons behind the severance of relations with our relatives, as well as our own behavior.
May you and I find our own place in this world.
This is Yun Shuiqing's heart, looking forward to your response.