It has been said, "Marriage is like a city, people outside the city want to come in, and people in the city want to go out." "Maybe it's really like this, those who are married envy the single, and the single ones look forward to getting married. Everyone is faced with the choice of whether to be single or married, but no matter what choice we make, we will eventually regret it. George Bernard Shaw, a famous Irish playwright, once said: "If you want to get married, get married, if you want to be single, you will be single if you want to be single, and you will regret it in the end anyway." When these words sound, perhaps we can think about whether we truly understand the life we want and whether we are ready to bear the consequences for it. Either way, cherish what you have now and live the life you choose. Yes, there will always be some regrets in life, but we should try not to have too many regrets. Whether you're married or not, if you want to maintain a good relationship, it's important to understand how couples get along. This is especially important for married people. Mutual respect, communication and cooperation and mutual growth are the keys to maintaining a happy marriage. Let's work together to create a better family life. The marriage of two people is a blessing from the previous life, and it should be cherished. In this world, there are too many single people who yearn for someone to keep them company. And what a rare opportunity to be able to find a soulmate and be with you for a lifetime. Therefore, we must cherish the people in front of us and keep each other well. The way for husband and wife to get along is to achieve three more, three less, three places! Three more is more tolerance, more care, more love; The three less is less quarrel, less calculating, and less resentment; The third is to deal with the small details and problems in daily life, and jointly create a harmonious and happy family. 
Three more: more care, more respect, more encouragement 1, more care If everyone can give some love, the world will be better. The same is true for husband and wife, as long as they care for each other a little more, the relationship between husband and wife will be more harmonious. We might as well spend more time with our spouses and chat more about our hearts and minds in our spare time, and share the bits and pieces of our lives with each other, which may make our marriage happier and more satisfying. In life, love overflows and happiness goes hand in hand. Caring doesn't need to be complicated, just a simple greeting, a hug or a smile can make people feel the warmth of body and mind. You don't need to say too much, just pay attention to others and you'll make a real impression. For ordinary people, caring for and understanding each other is one of the most beautiful emotions. Life is indeed impermanent, and our time is limited, so let's go through this journey with our hearts and make good memories. 2. More respectIn getting along with each other, although we don't have to fully identify with each other, mutual respect is very important. Especially between husband and wife, they should learn to respect each other, instead of making casual jokes or saying things that should not be said. In marriage, mutual respect is an important foundation for maintaining a relationship. So, let's learn to respect each other and create a harmonious and respectful marriage relationship together. In order to maintain interpersonal relationships, the most basic courtesy should be to respect others. Only if you show respect to someone will they reciprocate the same respect. If you don't give others the respect they deserve, then your relationship with them will inevitably become distant. This applies not only to friends, colleagues, and family, but also to partnerships. If you don't respect your partner, even if you are a couple, sooner or later you will fall apart. In modern society, respect and civility are indispensable, and they can make human relationships more intimate and lasting. 3. Encourage the best relationship between husband and wife, which should support each other, encourage each other, and move forward together. As husband and wife, we should always pay attention to each other's emotions and needs, give more affirmation and support, and become each other's most solid support. Only with each other's encouragement can we move forward hand in hand, overcome all the difficulties in life, and move towards a better tomorrow. In life, we will inevitably encounter moments of low mood. Then, when the people around us need care and help, we should not hesitate to give them support and encouragement. We can send them a warm text message, buy a small gift to take with them, or chat with them personally. These small gestures will make them feel our love and warmth, and make them feel reinvigorated. 
Three less: less suspicion, less accusation, less old accounts 1, less suspicion The most important thing between husband and wife is to be honest with each other, and not let suspicion ruin the relationship. Once suspicion begins, conflicts between husband and wife will slowly breed, and over time they will erupt. Therefore, both parties should maintain heart-to-heart communication, solve problems together, and don't let anything affect each other's trust and love. Only in this way can the marriage be happy and long-lasting. Trust between husband and wife is the most important part of a marriage, not only as a sign of mutual respect, but also as a key to maintaining marital stability. Therefore, husbands and wives should trust each other, don't hold the problems in their hearts, and communicate openly with each other to enhance their relationship. In conclusion, trust and communication between couples is the key to maintaining a happy marriage. 2. Less blame for being a man, we should raise our own requirements more and blame others less. Especially when we as a couple encounter problems, we should not blame or complain to each other, but really solve the problems and face the challenges together. Only in this way will we be able to maintain family harmony and mutual understanding. Let's work together to become a better person and create a better life! When we are faced with a problem, we are often anxious to find responsibility and blame the other person. But in fact, if the problem is caused by ourselves, we are not in a position to blame others. In the same way, if it is the other person's problem, we should not blame it, because the accusation will only bring resentment to the other person, and it will not do each other any good. Therefore, when dealing with problems, we should calmly analyze the causes and find solutions instead of pointing fingers at each other. Only then will we be able to build real communication and trust that will allow us to work better together. 3. Turning over old accounts less In the life of husband and wife, there are often some people who like to pick on each other's past, which eventually leads to the two breaking up unhappily. But in fact, turning over old accounts is the most taboo, because the more you turn over, the greater the contradictions will be, and the easier it will be to break down your feelings. Therefore, in order to maintain mutual trust and affection between husband and wife, we should tolerate and understand each other, and not always bring out each other's small mistakes in the past, but should face the future together and create a better life together. Mutual tolerance and understanding between husband and wife is the key to getting along. We've all had different pasts, which can affect our present and future. But most importantly, you need to create a better future together now. Don't let past misses and setbacks become obstacles between you, let them pass and become the past, and move forward towards a happy life! 
Three places: think more about the other party's benefits, understand each other's difficulties, and tolerate each other's shortcomings 1. Think more about each other's benefitsHuman beings are emotional creatures, and it is inevitable that they will be affected by others and produce emotional fluctuations. When we are upset by a small offense by someone, we may forget all the good that was done to us. This kind of behavior is precisely the weakness of human nature that needs to be overcome and overcome. We should pay attention to our own thoughts, think about the help, support and love of others, and do not hold grudges easily, let alone act sadly. Only by being tolerant and rational can we have a positive mental attitude. In a husband and wife relationship, it is common to ignore each other's interests because of temporary dissatisfaction. We should think more about the good of the other person and not bring negative emotions to the family. Mutual understanding, respect and care are the keys to maintaining harmony between husband and wife. In ordinary days, cherish each other's dedication and care, and make the family a warm harbor. 2. Be considerate of each other's difficultiesLife is full of challenges, and no one's road is smooth. We have all experienced psychological and emotional difficulties, and our life paths are fraught with uncertainty. However, in this world, we need to care for and understand each other, especially in the relationship between husband and wife. We must not embarrass each other, but be considerate and supportive of each other to make our path smoother. Life is hard enough, let's be honest with each other and support each other in tough times. As a member of the family, we all have to take our share of responsibility. As husbands, we should carry the burden of the family on our shoulders; As wives, we have to take care of the big and small affairs of the family. However, these are not easy and require mutual understanding. Only on the basis of mutual understanding and support can our families be more harmonious. May all families live together in harmony, peace and happiness. 3. There is a saying about accommodating each other's shortcomings called "no one is perfect, no one is perfect", which also applies to the relationship between husband and wife after marriage. When two people have been together for a long time, each other's shortcomings will gradually be revealed. That's where inclusion comes in. As a husband and wife, both parties should understand and accept each other's shortcomings, and try to give as much support and care as possible. Only in this way can we build stronger relationships and walk hand in hand through every stage of life. Our relationship is like two people walking hand in hand in a park, tolerating each other's shortcomings. I like your big grin, you like my little waywardness. We don't find fault with each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, but insist on tolerance. Only in this kind of harmonious relationship can we make progress together and move forward together. There are no perfect people in the world, but relationships become better when two people are able to be honest about each other's differences. 
Conclusion: Husband and wife are the most intimate relationship between people, but they are also the most difficult relationship to deal with. However, as long as we deal with each other with heart and love, give each other more care, more respect, more encouragement, less suspicion, less accusation, less old accounts, think more about each other's benefits, understand each other's difficulties, and tolerate each other's shortcomings, then the relationship between husband and wife will last for a long time. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!