Children are like snails in spring, leisurely and contented, not urged by time. Their actions always seem to be at odds with their expectations, and this difference may stem from their unique rhythm and pace. Excessive urging, like a passionate symphony, may make children feel lost and lost, and instead make them slow to move like they are stuck in a quagmire.
A child's attention, like a butterfly fluttering among the flowers, is always easily drawn to the world around him. They may forget the urging of ** because of a falling leaf, a busy ant. At this point, even if we repeatedly urge them, they find it difficult to concentrate and complete the task quickly.
A child's motivation is sometimes like water in a stream, sometimes gurgling, sometimes silent. They may lack interest in certain tasks or not be motivated enough to complete them. In this case, urging will only make them more resistant and move more slowly.
In addition, excessive urging can also cause heavy stress for children, making them nervous and uneasy. This pressure can make them feel like rebellious ponies, who are not only reluctant to carry out their tasks, but will deliberately procrastinate.
To avoid this phenomenon of "pushing slower and slower", parents can try the following strategies: First, give their children enough time and space to complete tasks at their own pace. Second, provide clear instructions and expectations so that children know exactly what they need to do. At the same time, children are encouraged to develop self-management skills and learn to plan and organize their own time. Finally, provide appropriate rewards and incentives to motivate your child.
Parents need to be patient and understanding, like a gardener with flowers, and respect the pace and manner of their child's growth. Through reasonable guidance and encouragement, we can help children establish good behavior habits and time management skills, so that they can move forward bravely on the road of growth like a vigorous cheetah.