The child is getting slower and slower, psychology There is a reason for procrastination, and urging

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-01

The child bought a lot of extracurricular books, but after the end of the semester, they were basically blank; Children always feel that there is not enough time every day, leaving early and returning late; Parents throw money in all kinds of fancy ways, but the effect is not good. These situations have happened to many children, parents in order not to make themselves anxious, but bought a lot of information, and spent a lot of money in other aspects, I thought that the anxiety of the old mother should be able to disappear, but it turned out that the plan is perfect, the execution is bad, the effect is very poor, and the anxiety will not disappear. Time management is a very effective way to improve learning efficiency, as long as you can save half an hour a day, a few years of primary school, the cumulative effect is huge, and the gap between children will widen, so one day earlier, one day sooner, one day benefit.

1. The harm of procrastination to children

will take a hit

Each of us will have a range of tolerance in our hearts, and when we push everything back, we will be hit by life, and we will slowly lose interest and confidence in life, and even have a psychology of disgust with ourselves and the world.

Affects mood and disrupts teamwork and relationships

Procrastination can affect personal emotions, making people mentally negative and slack, making it difficult to be interested in affairs or interested in cultivating and feeling to the fullest. This can affect a team's ability to work together and relationships.

2. How to avoid children from having "procrastination".

Teach your child to know the time

Children are not sensitive enough to time, and we can use some tips to make children aware of the existence of time and appreciate the value of time. Divide the time of day into segments, let your child know what to do at a certain time of the day, gradually form a habit, and develop a sense of time for your child. In addition, we can also put a small alarm clock in the child's room, set time reminders for getting up, doing homework, resting, etc., or usually play some games with the child to recognize the time, such as asking the child to guess what time it is, asking the child how much time it takes to do a specific thing, etc., to strengthen the child's sensitivity to time. All in all, we need to integrate the understanding of time into children's lives, so that children gradually have a clear concept of time.

Bonus stickers can be used to reinforce time management when necessary

I also shared this strategy in the live broadcast, in fact, when we introduce a new ability training, or let the child get rid of a bad habit, the reward sticker can also become our helper, but this reward system has to be phased, such as a 7-day cycle, and the reward system cannot become a dependence on children's time management.

Set a time limit for your child to do things

It's a child's nature to play, but when there is a conflict between playing and doing, how do you choose? As parents, on the one hand, we have to take care of the child's mood and what we can do, and on the other hand, because we need to inform him that he needs to keep his promises, let him feel the pressure appropriately, and clearly tell him that you must complete things within the specified time before you can play. Of course, if the child can successfully complete a good thing within the specified time, as a parent, in addition to keeping his promise to let him play, he should also be rewarded appropriately to let him feel the sweetness of life, for example, we can give him a verbal appreciation, or we can give him a small toy that he likes.

The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.

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This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.

Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".

This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.

Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.

I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.

A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.

Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.

While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......

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