Life is something that belongs to each person's own feelings, not to anyone else's opinion.
In life, we are often influenced by the opinions of others, and we may go against our hearts and change our choices because we are worried about what others think.
I wanted to drink a latte, but others said it was high in calories, so I switched to green tea;
I wanted to climb a mountain, but people said it was too tiring, so I switched to swimming.
Doing so will only lead to losing oneself and losing sight of one's true needs and feelings.
For a long time, I had low self-esteem, a low sense of inner worth, and an extreme desire for security, which made me care about the feelings of others.
I've always been used to compromising, to pleasing others, to wronging myself.
Until I saw a sentence from Mr. Yang Jiang:
The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of one's heart. We were so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.
There are many people in the world, and everyone has a different situation and naturally has a different way of life.
I've come to understand that everyone is an individual, and even if they get closer, they are still different.
Whether you are sad or happy, others are destined to not be able to empathize, and the only thing you can truly experience is yourself.
If life is always defined by others, you will not be able to have your own life.
Life is like a whizzing train, and you are the only one who controls it, and other people occasionally take this train, but they will always leave at a certain station, and they will eventually pass by.
It's better to be a normal person, fight for this and that, fight for and lose your life.
This sentence can be seen as a summary and enlightenment of the whole **.
If a person is too competitive, he may lose himself in the pursuit of various things, and may even endanger his own life.
It is a wiser choice to maintain a moderate sense of competition in life, not to pursue material and status excessively, but to cherish life, care for others, and face life with a peaceful mind.
As long as people live happily, they are not afraid of poverty.
This simple and profound sentence in "Alive" is like a key that opens our thinking about the essence of life.
Happiness does not depend on wealth or poverty, but comes from inner satisfaction and love of life.
Happiness in life is often simple and pure.
Especially children, a leaf, a butterfly, and a small flower can become a treasure in their eyes, triggering their endless curiosity and exploration, and bringing them happiness and satisfaction.
Fugui, the protagonist of this book, can still find his own happiness in life even after experiencing countless hardships.
True happiness does not lie in how much we have, but in whether we can find beauty in ordinary life and whether we can face the ups and downs of life with a happy attitude.
has been crushed by fate, only to understand the mercy of time.
Seeing what happened to Fugui, we can't help but sigh that the impermanence of fate is so powerless, we struggle in the quagmire of life, but we are often unable to change the status quo.
But time is like a gentle doctor, silently slapping the wounds of our hearts.
Time can** everything, please give time a little time.
There is no path in the world that is repeated, and no life that can be replaced.
Everyone's life is a unique adventure.
Because we are unique, each of us is full of possibilities.
No one can replicate the success of others, and no one can replace us to experience the ups and downs of life.
People live a lifetime, do their best, and do what they can.
Just stand at your own height, look at the scenery you should see, and be safe without regrets.
We first came into this world because we had to; Eventually, we leave this world because we have to.
No matter how much we struggle, the strength of life can make us feel powerless and helpless.
We cannot choose to be born, let alone escape.
After all, in the universe, we are as small as a grain of sand, and we can only spend a limited time and a limited life.
It is precisely because life is so fragile and short that we should cherish it and live, feel and experience it with our hearts.
Even if we eventually have to go, strive to live better and make life richer and more worthwhile.
As Yu Hua said:
"Walk thoughtfully, or leave a song, a diary, or even a kind memory, that's what your life really meansThe embodiment of righteousness. ”
Humans can't stand too much truth.
Truth is often brutal, and it can shatter our illusions and expectations.
The common disease of human beings is that they often prefer to indulge in beautiful fantasies rather than face the coldness of reality.
In fact, although the truth is painful, we can only grow and progress from it by facing the truth.
Nothing is more convincing than time, because time can change everything without notifying us.
Some things may feel unforgettable at the moment, but time will slowly fade everything, and those pain and happiness will become unique scenery in the journey of **life.
Fugui's life has experienced countless hardships and changes, from a wealthy landlord to a destitute peasant, from the fragmentation of a family to the departure of relatives.
Time has witnessed his rise and fall, and it has also allowed him to gradually understand the true meaning of life in the long river of time.
Time is also a kind of power, it can make people forget the pain and heal the wound.
Fugui is still strong and alive after experiencing the great pain of losing his loved ones and property.
Time allowed him to gradually get out of his sadness and rediscover the meaning of life.
Don't be confused, the dead still want to come back to life, you can't die as a big living person.
Life's difficulties and challenges are everywhere, and there are times when these difficulties can make us feel hopeless and helpless.
However, we cannot give up our lives on the spur of the moment.
Life is precious, and everyone only has one time.
Cry with laughter and live with death.
This is the protagonist Fugui's profound understanding of life after experiencing the vicissitudes of life.
Fugui has experienced one life dilemma after another: from the loss of his family property to the death of his relatives, from war to famine, his life can be described as full of vicissitudes.
However, despite his ill-fated circumstances, Fugui has always faced life with a tenacious attitude.
Fugui uses laughter to face the hardships of life.
His laughter is not only a helplessness to fate, but also a respect for life.
He knows that there will always be unsatisfactory things in life, but he chooses to use laughter to resolve the pain and face life's challenges with an optimistic attitude.
Fugui lives with death, which is also a unique experience of his life.
He has experienced too many lives and deaths, but he still insists on living.
The profound tenacity and tenacity in the book is worth reading again and again!