Xiao Fang and Xiao Li, who used to be just ordinary work partners, have worked together on this project for almost two years. Xiao Li has always had a good impression of Xiaofang, thinking that she works hard and has a sunny personality.
But on this day, the day after the company's meeting, there was a piece of gossip that Xiao Li and Xiao Fang had happened overnight because of drunkenness, and the two had already determined their relationship.
What? The two of them are actually in love? But after thinking about it, there seems to be some "chemistry" between Xiao Fang and Xiao Li.
So, to what extent do you have to go from co-workers to husband and wife?
Frequent work exchanges.
Due to the needs of the project, Xiao Li and Xiao Fang often communicate on some problems encountered in their work. After a long period of cooperation, the understanding between each other will naturally deepen.
Through work contact, Xiao Li found that Xiao Fang is a very hard-working person and has a very cheerful personality, so the relationship between the two is also very harmonious.
At work, familiar work can easily be turned into a personal attraction.
In fact, romance in many companies begins with intimacy at work. It's also normal for two people to work together.
But if it continues to develop, it is easy to go wrong, because too close feelings will make both parties lose their judgment on the work, which will affect the work status of both parties.
Therefore, such frequent exchanges are a warning to them that they must adjust their distance between each other at all times, otherwise they will be in big trouble.
Frequent social events.
The two teams of Xiao Li and Xiao Fang usually organize collective formation. Both of them are active and often sit down and talk.
In a relaxed and cheerful atmosphere, they found that they had many hobbies in common.
The exchange during this period made the relationship between the two more intimate and laid a solid foundation for future development.
A lot of corporate romances are built on such group gatherings. In this relaxed atmosphere, both of them drank some wine, which naturally brought each other closer.
In fact, this is a temporary confusion, but if left unchecked, it can have unexpected results.
Therefore, when participating in team building, you also need to be careful not to get too close to female colleagues.
Maintain an appropriate distance and prevent drunken behavior, both for yourself and for others. A good team atmosphere helps to increase productivity.
Passive occasions meet.
Gym in the complex, restaurants nearby ......The two would often meet in other places.
This kind of "chance encounter" allowed the two to have more communication, and also made the relationship between the two develop from simple work to friends, or even closer.
Excessive attention to this kind of "chance encounter" is also what you think in your heart. If it is just a simple colleague relationship, it is impossible to have an ambiguous relationship.
Therefore, this encounter also means that the mentality of the two has changed.
Once you begin to yearn for this "chance encounter", you need to be alert to your mind and check the relationship repeatedly.
Try not to come into contact with people too often outside of work, as this can cause misunderstandings.
If two male colleagues communicate frequently at work, socialize frequently, and often meet outdoors, then all three conditions will turn them from co-workers to lovers.
Of course, not all female colleagues who are frequent develop enthusiasm. To properly handle the relationship between colleagues, we must also have our own judgments and limitations.
If you find any of these traits in a colleague of the opposite sex, you should reflect on your relationship and fix it in a timely manner to avoid unnecessary arguments.
To find a balance between emotion and work, you must have a lot of reason and patience.
I wish you success in your work, long friendship, and happy love!