To be a man, you have to endure and be ruthless, you must endure when you should endure, and you must be ruthless when you should be ruthless. So, when is it time to endure? When should I be ruthless? In life, we often encounter things that make us uncomfortable, but how to deal with them? I believe that we should be as patient as possible, and only act when we can't bear it anymore. There is no standard answer, it depends on the situation. As long as we know how to think calmly and grasp the degree, we can make the most appropriate choice. Forbearance is not weakness, nor compromise, nor submission, but a noble sentiment. It is a kind of generosity, a kind of wisdom, and it shows mature qualities. We must know how to endure and learn to be tolerant, so that we can better face the challenges of life. If you can endure it, you can go far. Ruthlessness is not the same as ruthlessness, indifference or force, it is a means, a determination, a kind of courage. We need to be ruthless in the face of major challenges. It is the driving force of our struggle and the key to our goal. Only by daring to be ruthless can we overcome ourselves, transcend difficulties, and realize our dreams. As the saying goes: "Only by enduring what ordinary people can't endure can we achieve what ordinary people can't." "Therefore, to be a man, you must be able to endure and endure, and of course, you must also be ruthless and ruthless. 
To be a man, you have to endure 1, and if you can endure, you can endure as the saying goes: "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky!" "When a person lives, he endures what he can. The so-called patience is actually the limit of what an individual can bear, and this limit varies from person to person, and everyone has different patience and tolerance ability. Whether we are facing setbacks or stress, we need to learn to control our emotions and mindset to cope with the adverse factors in life with a peaceful state of mind. Let us know how to wait, adapt to the times, and have a calm mind, so that we can better adapt to the challenges of life. There are some things that you can endure, but others can't, and there are some things that you can't endure, but others can. Forbearance is the most beautiful expression of human nature, and forbearance is even more appropriate performance. Forbearance does not mean cowardice, but rather a manifestation of strength. It embodies our truest emotions and brings us closer to our true selves. When faced with setbacks and difficulties, don't give up, keep a positive attitude, learn to endure, and you will be more mature. Therefore, forbearance is the most basic forbearance of a person. 2. When you endure, what is when you endure? In my opinion, this is a self-conscious contemplation, a consideration of the pros and cons. When it comes to patience, we often hear the saying "endure if you can". However, when we do decide to "endure and endure", it is usually because of a deliberate decision. This requires us to control our emotions and push us towards higher moral and emotional maturity. A little more tolerance and patience in life may make our lives better. Many heroes in history have experienced the experience of enduring humiliation. Like Han Xin's enduring humiliation and stealing his life, and Yue Wang Goujian's lying salary and tasting courage, these actions are not instinctive. Rather, it was based on the circumstances and circumstances of the time. If you only ignore the overall situation because of your personal feelings, then it will be difficult to achieve a career, let alone reach the height of history. Looking back on the precipitation of history, we should learn to see that those who can endure loneliness and bend to their loved ones are the most valuable. Patience is a kind of wisdom, patience at the right time can better protect ourselves, and temporary patience can allow us to accumulate strength and wait for the opportunity to act. Whether in life or work, patience leads to better results. Therefore, learn appropriate patience in order to better meet the challenges in life. 
3. There is a limit to people's patience, and when this limit is exceeded, there is no need to endure it anymore. Because I can't stand it anymore. Sometimes, patience can make us stronger, but sometimes we also need to learn to let go and release ourselves. When we endure too much, we feel stress and inner pain, so we must be firm in our resolve not to allow ourselves to suffer unnecessarily again. Everyone has their own principles and limits when it comes to forbearance. Different people will have different bottom lines. Some people can tolerate a lot, while others can't tolerate much. Therefore, everyone will have different limits. This means that we should respect other people's choices and understand what others do, because everyone should have their own freedom. Therefore, we must all be clear about the principle and bottom line of our own tolerance, and once we are violated, we do not need to endure it anymore. After all, unprincipled and bottom-line forbearance, in exchange, is often an inch. 4. It doesn't matter that forbearance is a noble state, which allows us to put down the knife in our hearts and obtain spiritual liberation. I believe that in the face of setbacks and difficulties in life, we should learn to be patient and tolerant, overcome rigidity with softness, and resolve contradictions, so as to achieve peace and harmony of the heart. Forbearance is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of generosity, and only in this way can we have real inner strength. If you have a knife in your heart, you can forbear, and if you don't have a knife in your heart, you don't care about forbearance. Forbearance, is it someone else, or something from the outside world, or oneself? Perhaps, the answer lies in the heart! 
To be a man, you must be ruthless 1, you must be ruthless to yourself, people are forced out, life is boiled out, people live, you must be ruthless to yourself. If you are not cruel to yourself, life will be cruel to you, reality will be cruel to you, and when the time comes, you can only be helpless and powerless. As long as we have confidence in ourselves and are not afraid to work hard, we will be able to meet a better version of ourselves. In life, we often encounter many setbacks and difficulties, but as long as we can persevere, face and push ourselves bravely, we will definitely be able to surpass ourselves and become a better person. Believe in ourselves and believe in the future, so that we can reap more unexpected successes. Human potential is limitless, but it can only be unleashed in the process of constantly pushing itself. Those who are truly outstanding are not afraid to be cruel to themselves. If we want to pursue success, we must put in more effort and sweat. Only by constantly challenging your own limits can you make yourself better. So, be yourself so that you can stand firmer, fly higher, and go further. 
2. Be ruthless with bad people and bad thingsIn fact, in this life, as long as we don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, we can all live well. There will always be annoying people and annoying things in life, and we must learn to deal with them decisively. Just like dealing with rotten fruit, if it is already bad, you must give it up decisively, and don't continue to dwell on it. If you should break up, you should break up, if you should turn your face, if you should let go, let go. You must learn to be neat and ruthless in dealing with these bad people and bad things, so that you can live more comfortably and comfortably. When you stay away from bad people and bad things, you can move forward better and live a better life. Really being ruthless to bad people and bad things is the best kind treatment to yourself. Conclusion: To be a man, we must be patient, but we must also be decisive. Don't hesitate to get yourself tangled. If you can't put up with it all the time, or if you keep being ruthless, then you're not doing yourself any good. Therefore, we must learn to balance, be both patient and ruthless, and make the right decision after calm analysis in case of trouble. In this way, you can live a happy and happy life. We are all human beings who want our lives to be better. Sometimes, however, patience is not enough, and we need to be firmer. In order to live a better life, we must face challenges and difficulties with courage and act resolutely when necessary. In this way, we can achieve our goals and make life better. Patience avoids troubles and misfortunes, while decisive action leads to a good life and self-fulfillment. We need to be patient and endure setbacks and difficulties, but we also need to be brave enough to make decisions and put in the effort. Only in this way can we win a better future and a happy life. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!