As the saying goes: "If you don't go to the grave without spring, you will go to the grave." "This year happens to be the Year of the Dragon, and there is also a leap year, and there is no spring. The Qingming Festival is coming, which makes many people confused: should they go to the tomb or not?
In fact, there is no absolute answer to this question. Some people feel that they will be sorry for their ancestors if they don't go to the tomb, but some people will worry that going to the tomb will cause bad things. In fact, we don't have to be too entangled in these old rules, because the essence of tomb sweeping is to express our thoughts and respect for our ancestors.
If you still want to visit the tomb according to tradition, then pick a suitable day to kowtow to your ancestors and offer bouquets of flowers. But be sure to pay attention to safety, and don't cause accidents because of some small details.
If you feel awkward in your heart, or if your family has other particulars, it's okay not to go to the grave. You can place some tributes at home to silently express your thoughts and respect for your ancestors.
In short, tomb sweeping is not a must-do, what is important is our thoughts and respect for our ancestors. Whether you choose to visit the tomb or not, as long as you have your ancestors in your heart, it is the best memorial to them.
So, don't get too entangled in this issue, relax and enjoy the traditional festival of Qingming Festival. Of course, if you have a better idea or idea, please leave a message in the comment area, and we can work together to ** how to better express our thoughts and respect for our ancestors.