The fourth episode of "After Marriage" looks at the divorce of her parents from the perspective of her daughter Yueyue, the daughter thinks that as long as she is obedient and obedient to her parents, she will not divorce, and she is in a dilemma in the middle, in order not to let her parents divorce, her daughter is willing to be a "two-faced person", lying to lawyers, social workers and others, just to make the divorce lawsuit last longer, hoping to reach adulthood, so that she has time to repair the relationship between her parents, she said that love can ** everything, but it backfired. As emma Zhang Mingxin said, the longer the divorce lawsuit drags on, the more intense the means of snatching the child, and emma finally broke the fact that Pan Shanren Tim cheated on the Internet, and Yueyue was injured. 
Because emma posted Pan Shanren's cheating work "After Marriage" on the Internet, the gossip caused her daughter to be affected at school, but Yueyue still wanted to listen to her father's clarification and wanted to match her parents, but she saw her parents accusing each other, and they attacked each other and quarreled loudly. It can only be said that the parents taught the child love, but it turned out to be a lie, and even completely exposed the ugly side in front of the child, Yueyue finally burst into tears and kept apologizing, saying that she shouldn't want her parents to reconcile, saying that she shouldn't be an angel, thinking that love can ** everything. It's hard not to feel distressed to see Yueyue collapse, and the fairy tale castle created by her parents was destroyed by her parents. 
From the child's point of view, learning that the father's cheating and the divorce of the parents really hurt the child, and then Yueyue also changed, from the previous innocent child, to an indifferent appearance, and the same as the children of the previous divorced family, they focused on playing mobile games, so do you want to maintain the marriage for the sake of the child? Should you tell your children about your husband's cheating? From the child's point of view, the child is innocent, and it seems better for the child to maintain a false appearance of peace, but will it really be better? Personally, I think that long-term pain is better than short-term pain, because maintaining the so-called husband and wife relationship will only bring endless quarrels, and it is not good for children. 
Although Yueyue is very painful because of the divorce of her parents, but the changes in the family cannot deceive people, parents quarrel frequently, and even often use children as the point of quarrel, tense family relationships will make Yueyue unconsciously become a pleasing personality, she strives to make herself better to please her parents, and then she will fall into self-doubt. Yueyue thinks that her parents quarrel because she is not well-behaved enough, she finds the reason in herself, and also finds the reason in her mother, and asks her father if she hates her mother because her mother is too fierce? That's why you betrayed this family? 
To be honest, Yueyue's reaction is unexpected by adults, in the imagination of adults, when Yueyue knows that her father is cheating, she should choose her mother to spit on her father, but Yueyue's first reaction is not to believe it, she still doesn't believe it after her mother certifies, saying that she wants to give her father a chance to explain, and after her father admits it, she asks if her mother is too fierce, and regrets that she shouldn't get off when she confirms the divorce, which makes people feel more distressed. understands that the child is innocent, and the child is still young and ignorant, but this is more hurtful, because the child does prefer his father, and in her eyes, his father and grandfather are better, while his mother has a bad temper and scolds his father for driving away his grandfather and busy with work all day. 
emma is so miserable, everyone, including the third party, is accusing emma of saying that she is sorry for her daughter for Pan Shanren's cheating, and she is not thinking about her daughter, but what should she do? For the sake of the family, how can EMMA, who sacrifices her parent-child time to pay off her father-in-law's debts, win her daughter? If you don't tell your daughter that her husband is cheating, her daughter will never understand her mother's pain and will be snatched away. So, in the case of a non-peaceful divorce, should I tell my children the truth? Or help maintain a hypocritical father figure? How should a wife vent her dissatisfaction?