When people are old and have pensions, life should get better and better.
Many people think that after surviving the hard days of going to work, and their children have grown up, they can live a free and casual life in the future.
If you observe carefully, you will find that some old people always do some thankless things, but they lose their due happiness.
Therefore, I advise you that after retirement, no matter how capable you are, you must learn these kinds of pension wisdom. In the twilight of life, we still have to make long-term plans and have a big pattern.
First, cover your money bag and don't be a "generous" person.
It's not easy to make money, and because you are too generous, you can easily spend all your money.
There is such a sentence: "In this life, the most terrible thing is that people are still there, and the money is long gone." ”
Although you have a pension, you don't have any savings at all, and your heart is very unsteady。In case of illness and emergency, reaching out to borrow money from others and asking for money from children is a very "inferior" thing.
Master the routine of slamming the door, and the old man's money will last for a long time.
First of all, don't buy chicken rib products。Those things that are touted as "omnipotent", don't buy them, most of them are routines to deceive the elderly.
For example, if some strange food is placed in front of you as a health baby, then quickly avoid it.
There is no elixir in the world, not even Qin Shi Huang has found it, let alone ordinary people?
Some inapplicable gym equipment and colorful clothes, when you buy them home, they become decorations.
Irrational consumption has emptied the wallets of the elderly, and it really needs to be vigilant.
Second, reduce the exchange of gifts。Don't pay for "favors and face". Even if your children want to do something, you can't empty out all the old bottoms, you have to keep one hand.
Eating, drinking, eating, drinking, and all kinds of gatherings must be rational, and people who cannot be led should take this as an opportunity to enrich their own pockets.
Finally, refuse to lend money to others。In these years, the people who borrow money are no longer so simple, and they often have such expressions - when borrowing money, treat you as an elder, and after the money is in hand, no one can find it.
Young people are very troubled about debt collection, let alone the elderly? Perhaps, the vicious person will think like this: "If the old man dies, don't pay the money back." ”
The further you go, the more places you spend your money, the harder it is to make money. Your generosity, in the eyes of others, is an "opportunity to make money" and will not be rewarded.
Second, children are all heirlooms, and they should be treated equally.
Some people say: "Raising children and daughters does not prevent old age." ”
On the one hand, when children grow up, most of them will go out to work and start businesses, and they will not have much time to spend with their parents. On the other hand, children can also become white-eyed wolves and abandon their parents.
In fact, the relationship between children and parents is a "necessity" for the elderly.
Even if the children are very poor, they can get together every three or five times, and the family will be warm when they can get together during the New Year's holidays.
If you want to retain the warmth of the extended family, as a parent, you should insist on caring for your children and minimize "eccentricity". When it comes to family property, we should consult with our children and be transparent.
Children are not in harmony, and parents are difficult to behave. If the property matter is clear, and the usual family expenses are managed, everyone will not be suspicious of each other.
Third, the prosperity will eventually fade, and learn to socialize reasonably.
The ancients said: "The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water." ”
After retirement, people go to tea and cool. Don't think that you are still a leader, or an expert and scholar.
When you leave your post, you are the masses.
It is a blessing to have three or five friends and often get together. If you don't have any friends, don't force yourself into someone else's circle. Why bother to live by looking at other people's faces?
Don't think that if you have a lot of free time, you can go to a relative's house, have a meal at a friend's house, play mahjong at an old colleague's house, and take a walk with an old leader. Such an approach is disgusting.
Mr. Lu Xun said: "Wasting other people's time is seeking money and killing people." ”Just because you're laid-back doesn't mean that others are always available. Do as little as possible to disturb others.
Happy old people are developing hobbies, accompanying their families, being gregarious or not, all at will.
Fourth, the wife of the chaff cannot be bullied, and the husband and wife of Chai and Mi are the most rare.
When a woman becomes bad, she becomes rich, and when a man is rich, she becomes bad. This sentence makes many people feel cold. Is the relationship between husband and wife so vulnerable?
Older people, don't look at things with the thinking of young people. You know, when the messy feelings are abandoned, the relationship between husband and wife becomes pure.
Although the old husband and wife are together, there are no sweet words, and they will not hold hands when they walk, but the distance is not far or close, but it promotes the development of feelings.
The old man, who is often worried about the old woman's body; The old woman always cooks three meals a day. This is the best emotion God has given you.
Those old people who have lost their marriage and family, when they are in good health and have money in their pockets, are at ease, and once they are down, they are destined to be bleak at night.
Fifth, how good the heart is, how good the life is.
In the Tao Te Ching, it is written: "The only one who has no life is a virtuous person." ”This sentence tells us that only quiet people can be supported and live a noble life.
Everyone understands that with a good mentality, everything is fine. However, few people tell you how to change your mindset.
Some old people are not pleasing to the eye when they see this, and they are not happy when they look at it. There was a child talking to him, and he thought it was too noisy; There is a takeaway brother who delivers goods, and he thinks that young people have no interest; The car at the door was not parked, so he went to rub it, thinking it was an eyesore.
The world is really beautiful, and the bad thing is your own heart.
When you are kind to the world, you are destined to be treated well by the world. This mode of thinking is the real "peace of mind is bliss".
Conclusion. The blessing of the elderly is not to have money to spend and spend casually. Instead, he has experienced stormy seas and can live a long life.
Create a source of happiness that will benefit you for a lifetime.
There is a saying that heroes don't mention the courage of the year.
No matter how capable you are, it only represents the past, and there is no guarantee that you will be like this for the rest of your life.
I wish the elderly in the world no worries about food and clothing, love between husband and wife, children and children, and happiness in old age.