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There has been controversy about whether there is pure friendship between men and women.
Theoretically, true friendship is based on gender and age, and relationships are based on respect, understanding, and shared interestsYou can have enough similarities, but they don't have romantic emotions or sexual appeal.
But in real life, it is said that if there is pure friendship between a man and a woman, then this party must be the one who is loved.
If you want to answer this dilemma, you might as well imagine if you can face up to this relationship after sleeping with a friend of the opposite sex, After sleeping with friends of the opposite sex, there are generally only these three endingsIt's hard to have surprises.
01: Nothing happens- It was really an accident.
In a relationship between the sexes, men usually only rudely divide women into two categories, one that "belongs to me" and the other that "does not belong to me," is not mineJust like a hunt attack, there are only two possibilities for catching the prey and not catching the prey.
If you apply this kind of thinking to friends of the opposite sex, it can be explainedThere is indeed pure friendship between men and women, but when it will exist and whether it will change is another matterTo put it simply, emotions flow.
If friendship develops into love because of good feelings, and after getting along, you find that the "good feelings" at that time are just an illusionThen the two of them are likely to turn a blind eye to what happened during that time.
Of course, the premise of pretending that nothing happened is that both of them value the relationship enough and can accept "sleeping" as a kind of exploration and sharing.
It is important to note that if one party always repeats the cycle, saying "we are just friends" while ignoring the boundaries between friends, it is a sign that the person has bad intentions and only wants to enjoy and is not willing to take responsibility.
02: Evolve into a stable romance – mutual crushes
Crushes between good friends are not a minority in real-life casesOne side of the drunkard didn't mean to drink, and he was embarrassed to open his mouth to pierce the window paper, and the other side was very arrogant, just as it was ordinary at that time.
In this case, if both parties have a crush on each other, and something happens that only couples do, it is likely to escalate directly from friendship to romance.
There is only one situation when they are friends, that is, they both feel that each other is unattractive, and this kind of friendship does not say "slept", and the boundaries of each other will be very clear.
And the mutual crush between friends is like a game between two cowards, both sides know each other's feelings, but neither side dares to say anything, they have been waiting and waiting.
If you are lucky, the two will naturally develop into a couple, but if both parties are face-loving people, the ending will only be missed.
So,If you like each other and feel that they also have feelings for you, you might as well be bold and take the initiative to test them, so as not to miss the opportunity to be together.
03: Relationship breakdown- Friendship is above, lovers are not full.
Someone asked, "What if I like a friend?" Gao Zan replied, don't confess, because confession is the breakoff of friendship.
Between friends of the opposite sex, there is indeed a situation where one party is intentional and one party is ruthless, and the intentional party regards the other party as a carrier of too many feelings, and also clearly knows that the other party will never like him.
Just like the netizen who asked the question said, "If I say my feelings for him, I will never go back to the past, but if I don't say it, I must continue to listen to the feelings he shares and make suggestions for his love." ”
The most torturous thing in a relationship is that there is no identity to be jealous, and can only act as the "military advisor" of the belovedEven if there may be nine points of friendship between each other, as long as there is a point of liking, it will become the culprit of interfering with the relationship and serious internal friction.
In this case, even if the two have "slept through", they will part ways because they cannot become a couple and cannot continue to be friends.
Friendship and love have a lot in commonFor example, the darkest moments that you will only share with that person, the eternal sincere hope that the other person can become a better version of yourself, inexplicable possessiveness, and so on.
As you can see, this kind of relationship is too close to liking, so everyone can't easily define it in the first place, so there is often a regret that the lover misses it.
Fortunately, love has its own providence, and if you can't open your mouth and can't give it up, it's better to leave it to time to decide.
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