As the two most talked about words today, they are ** and obedience test.
Generally speaking, people will only think of the compliance test as **, not as the compliance test.
Why? This brings us to the purpose of both.
* The purpose is to transform you, to transform you into what the ruling class needs.
To put it simply, the relationship between the ** and the ** is a relationship between the controlled and the controlled, and it is more common in superiors and subordinates and different generations.
And this relationship is long-term, and it is difficult for both parties to actively choose to separate: it is important to remember this.
Therefore, the general ** person is to use the moisturizing and silent way to transform the **.
In this process, it is difficult for the victim to perceive that he is being **, because this way of ** is usually expressed in a harmless form.
I'll give you an example.
The ancient monarch controlled the people, fooled the poor and humiliated the people, so that the people had no thoughts, because the king had no national strength without the people; And the husband wants to divorce, but the wife refuses to leave - the husband uses a trick, using flickering light bulbs and vague sounds to influence his wife, and when the wife asks, he says that everything is normal, so that the wife thinks that she is mentally disordered and hallucinates and divorces.
What did you find? **It's because I can't get rid of you that I want to**.
Then let's talk about persuasion and sex testing.
The purpose of obedience is to select the target population.
For an object, it is obvious that he perceives that the obedience test is bad, but this is where the obedience test comes in - can you accept this bad result?
Because it's not very important to me to have you without you, I have the choice now, so I just want to deliberately disgust you, if you can accept it, you come, anyway, if you don't come, someone comes!
Sound familiar?
The same is an example.
Take the bride price as an example, you think the bride price is unreasonable and you don't want to pay the bride price. (Many lesbians and sons-in-law will also ask for a bride price, so the party who pays the bride price is not necessarily a man).
But the other party did not budge, and if you really have an urgent need for marriage, then you can only accept this result.
Why? You know that the bride price is not good, but you know that others will pay the bride price, and if you don't give it, then he will definitely choose someone else.
And the wine table culture has a reason: if you want to cooperate with me, you must first drink to show sincerity, if you don't drink, you will definitely not succeed, because you know that there will be people who beg me to do things and drink with me.
What are the main points of the compliance test?
You know it's not good for you, but you're free to choose whether to accept it or not.
If you accept, you must have gained more from me than you lost in this test, and there is a good chance that you will have no choice.
Therefore, when you are obedient, I will be able to control you better and make you do more things that you don't want to do.
And you said there would be disobedient people!
That's right, this part of the population is also part of the obedience test.
Because the obedience test can screen out those who are not willing enough - I want to say that the obedience test is gradually escalated, and what you do will be more and more unfavorable to you, and if you quit directly in the previous link, it can make me more efficient, so as not to let you do something for a long time, and finally you can't accept it and quit.
Maybe some people can't understand so much, the most earthy sentence: the obedience test is to profit after self-loss, if your profit is not enough to cover the cost of self-loss, then you have a dream in life, each is wonderful; If it can be covered, then it will be divided into ninety-one.
So what to see?
* It is because the controller does not have enough initiative, while the controller of the obedience test has enough initiative.
Therefore, it needs to be subtle and long-term; And the obedience test is simple and crude, and it doesn't come to pull it down.
If you don't want to do it, you can not do it, if you don't do it, some people will do it!
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