189 blind dates in 4 years, in the marriage market of a county, Zhang Yu, a post-95 girl, finally chose a person she was not so familiar with to get married. Her story is somewhat helpless and poignant, and it also highlights the fierce competition that many boys and girls face in the urban marriage market when looking for a partner, especially for those who are older, less educated, or have less than good family conditions. Zhang Yu's story must have been read many versions in the past two days, and everyone has expressed worries and regrets about her experience and marriage! However, what I also want to talk about today is another girl of the same age who has a completely different experience from blind date to marriage, you can make a comparison!
In the bustling city, there is a post-95 girl named Lin Yue. She has a sweet appearance and a gentle personality, but she always stumbles on the road of love. In four years, she has experienced 150 blind dates, but she has never been able to find her desired other half. After experiencing countless losses and blows, she finally chose to let go of her attachments, face it calmly, no longer deliberately pursue perfection on a blind date, marriage is not the whole of life, she returned her focus to work and life.
Lin Yue's story seems to be a poignant long poem, telling the helplessness and struggle of young people in the modern city. Her mental journey is not only a personal growth history, but also a microcosm of the concept of marriage in this era. It's just that whenever night falls and the lights come on, Lin Yue will still be in a daze in the mirror. In the mirror, she is beautiful and lonely, with a longing for love flashing in her eyes. She knows that she is not bad, but why can't she always meet the right person?
The more blind dates she went on, the more uneasy she became. Behind every blind date, there is the expectation of parents, the care of relatives and the kindness of friends. However, those who go on a blind date are either incompatible in personality or inconsistent in values, and it is always difficult to find spiritual resonance.
As time passed, Lin Yue's pressure grew. She began to wonder if she was really that unbearable. Why can't I find the right partner? This emotion of self-doubt, like an invisible shackle, made her more and more anxious.
However, life doesn't stop because of your anxiety. In the blind date again and again, Lin Yue gradually understood a truth: love is not the whole of life, but if there is no love, life seems to be missing something.
By chance, Lin Yue met a boy named Li Zhi. Although he was not the perfect person for her, he made her feel a warmth that she had never felt before. Li Zhi's carefulness, thoughtfulness and sincerity made Lin Yue gradually let go of his defense.
As time passed, the relationship between Lin Yue and Li Zhi gradually warmed up. They started watching movies, shopping, and eating food together, ......These seemingly ordinary little things ripple out romantic emotions between the two. Gradually, Lin Yue discovered that Li Zhi was the person she had been looking for.
Finally one day, Li Zhi held a bouquet of roses and expressed his heart to Lin Yue. At that moment, Lin Yue shed tears, which were tears of happiness and relief from the hard work of the past four years. She knew she had found true love.
However, love is not all smooth sailing. When the two were ready to enter the palace of marriage, they were opposed by Lin Yue's parents. They think that Li Zhi's family background is average and cannot give Lin Yue a happy life. Faced with the doubts and pressure of her parents, Lin Yue was confused for a while.
At this critical moment, Li Zhi did not give up. He used his sincerity and hard work to impress Lin Yue's parents. He told them that he would use his life's efforts to take care of Lin Yue and give her a happy life. In the end, Lin Yue's parents were moved by his persistence and agreed to their marriage.
On the day of the wedding, the sun was shining and the fragrance of flowers was overflowing. Lin Yue was wearing a white wedding dress, holding flowers in her hand, and slowly walked towards her beloved boy. In the presence of everyone, they made an eternal vow: no matter whether they are poor or rich, whether they are sick or healthy, they will never leave each other!
Now, Lin Yue and Li Zhi have entered the palace of marriage. Their lives are ordinary, but full of happiness. Lin Yue finally understood: Love does not need to be vigorous and unforgettable, but lies in the fit and companionship of the soul. Marriage, on the other hand, is the union of two families, which requires the joint efforts and tolerance of both parties.
So, that girl named Zhang Yu, you don't have to be sad, and don't be disappointed in love. Now that you've made your choice, treat it well! Look at the person who has become your husband and see if he is genuine for you and loves you. Because love can be felt! I'm here to talk about homely things