The rise of new types of college students, parents are unaware of it, and they are showing off their children everywhere
A new type of gnawing old people"College students appeared, and the parents didn't know about it, and they were still showing off that their children were doing well.
In the 2022 graduation season, a shocking set of statistics**. That year, there were 10.76 million graduates in the country, but only 23% managed to find a job, meaning that more than 8 million graduates were unemployed, facing the prospect of being left behind in the labor market.
It's not just the student's responsibility. With the rapid development of society and the increasing popularity of higher education, the threshold for employers has been continuously raised, and university diplomas have gradually lost their advantages. Graduates face stiff competition in:"There are fewer opportunities and more people"It becomes extremely difficult to find a job that suits you.
This phenomenon has left many graduates distressed in the fog of employment. Faced with the prospect of being unemployed upon graduation, they began to place their hopes on it"Stable career", without realizing that this gradually became"A new kind of dependence on the family"。
College students like this"A new type of support for the family"It is quietly emerging, but parents are not aware of it, and instead boast about their children's success. So-called"Dependent families", generally refers to a person who has reached adulthood and is able to support himself, but is still dependent on his or her parents for support. Some sociologists call this group as:"Newly unemployed", which refers to young people who have lost their jobs or lost their jobs.
Gnaw the old"It is a shame that many parents turn a blind eye to the emergence of new phenomena and continue to take pride in their children's achievements.
Due to the huge employment pressure faced by graduates, it has become a trend to apply for civil service or postgraduate examinations. Students like Xiao Wang, who graduated from two colleges and whose majors are not popular, have extremely difficult time finding a job.
Seeing that the hope of finding a job is getting slimmer and slimmer, Xiao Wang's parents advised him to concentrate on preparing for the father-in-law, believing that he will have a stable future after finding a job. Xiao Wang happily accepted the suggestion and returned home to concentrate on preparing for the father-in-law
The difficulty of the public examination was unexpected. Xiao Wang has been preparing for the exam at home for three years, but he has not passed the written exam for three consecutive years.
During this time, the cost of attending a training course alone is high. Xiao Wang's parents gradually felt powerless. When Xiao Wang began to prepare for the exam, his parents were still happy and proud of his diligent study and believed that his future would be bright.
Three years later, Xiao Wang's parents began to be unable to bear the financial pressure and wanted him to go out and find a job. However, Xiao Wang was angry and insisted that he had been preparing for three years. He felt that many of his friends and relatives knew that he had been preparing for the public *** and that he had to pass the exam to prove his worth, otherwise he would feel very ashamed.
Xiao Wang now refuses to go out to work, which makes it very difficult for his parents. He was so preoccupied with preparing for the exam that he began to refuse to leave his comfort zone, this kind"Gnaw the old"A new phenomenon is gradually emerging.
College students must be responsible for their own life plans, while parents must respect their children's choices. All areas of social life are developing at a rapid pace, and education is constantly improving, which has made more people receive education, but at the same time, it has also caused some problems. As the number of graduates increases, their future prospects will be affected if they have not received a prestigious university education.
In this case, students should plan their lives carefully. The four years of college are not a place to escape from the world, but a place to improve your abilities and plan for the future.
First of all, college students should listen carefully to the lectures and try to avoid failing the course. Secondly, you should strive to obtain various necessary certificates, such as English level 4 or 6, professional certificates, etc. All things being equal, if other students have a certificate that you don't have, you may miss out on employment opportunities.
Finally, plan ahead for your future direction and work towards it. For college students, it is not difficult to prepare for the civil service or graduate school exam, and they will achieve better results if they prepare early and study more.
As for parents, they should try not to interfere with their students' choices and let them plan their own lives. If the parents and students are on the same page, then there is no problem, but if the parents and students do not have the same views, it will lead to dissatisfaction among the parents, regardless of the student's future development.
For students, despite the pressure of employment after college, taking public or graduate exams is not the only option. What's more, the competition is fierce, and many people prepare for the exam every year.
Don't give up on yourself and don't get too attached to failing the exam. Different students are suited to different directions, and there is no need to spend too much time on one thing.
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