"I always ask for you but never say thank you, and I don't understand that it's not easy for you until I grow up, and I always pretend to be relaxed every time I leave.On Father's Day another year, I suddenly heard "Father" by the Chopsticks Brothers, and I was full of emotion.
Really, only if you yourself are a father or a mother, will you understand the father of the past. Otherwise, the father you see is abstract. Because my father was always hiding himself, or rather, he was always forbearing.
As a father, he is willing to carry all the grievances by himself, and then gives his smiling face to his children. As the saying goes, father's love is like a mountain, how can it fall?
There are always fathers, very small, but they also puff up their chests and say, "Don't be afraid, son, what about me?" ”
Writer Bing Xin said: "Father's love is silent, if you feel it, it's not father's love!" ”I think so.
When I am also middle-aged, I would rather smoke alone than complain in front of my children. Even if there are tears, they will swallow them and put them in the bottom of their hearts.
No matter how busy you are, please say to your father, "Thank you for everything you have done, for your hard work." ”
The father's silence is because no one understands, only cold and warm himself.
There is a man in the family who always gives you money to spend, and often asks you "Is it enough"? If he has ten dollars on him, he will most likely give you nine dollars, or even all of them.
He looks at your results and gives you encouragement, and he is very proud in his heart. You go to a distant place, he wants to go and see, even if he doesn't look at it, he will open his mobile phone to see if it is raining in your city, whether there is an emergency. I've seen it, but I won't tell you.He prevents you from falling in love, and he is afraid that you will not find a partner. He's conflicted, but he won't tell you.
In the 90s of the last century, I went to a secondary school in Changsha, and there were more than 50 classmates in my class, and more than half of them were children from rural families.
One summer day, the father of his classmate Xiao An came to visit him.
Xiao An said: "This is my father, who brought oranges from his hometown, everyone can taste them." ”
Xiao An's father took the oranges, put two on everyone's bed, and said with a smile: "The oranges taste good, not enough to eat, I will go to the school gate to get them later." ”
Later, we learned that Xiao An's home was in Loudi, and in order to support his three children to study, the family had long been in debt.
Xiao An's father came to Changsha from Loudi, and he had the travel expenses, but the money for the trip home could only be made up after selling the oranges.
Some classmates blamed Xiao An, the family was so difficult, why did he let his father come to school to see him. Xiao An froze there, not knowing how to answer. Because he didn't really understand his father's "abnormal behavior".
Singer Man Jun sang: "Give me all your love, give me the world, I don't know the joys and pains in you, I want to be close to you and tell you, I always know you."Father's love is like a mountain, you can feel it. But how can you understand the fragility of the father, the difficulty of being helpless, and the appearance of bowing his head and begging for others?
"Rely on yourself" is an inspirational sentence, but for my father, it is a mountain in life, and I have to climb it even if I kneel.
The father's silence is because he is not good at expressing himself, so he can only be bitter and silent.
At home, my mother was always nagging, but my father was rarely talking. Sometimes, my father would yell and when it was over, it would be as if nothing was going on.
Father rarely says "I love you and miss you", he really misses you, and he just makes a ** and says "I'll just ask, it's okay".Father will also put down his dignity and please you. He'll do something, and when he's done, forget it, and don't take it too seriously.
There is a picture in "Beiqingwang": At about one o'clock in the morning, Mr. Chen from Zhumadian, Henan Province, suddenly found that his three-year-old daughter was convulsing and foaming at the mouth.
Mr. Chen was in a hurry. My wife works the night shift at a unit three or four kilometers away from her home, and she won't be able to return for a while.
In a hurry, he wrapped his daughter in a blanket and ran vigorously to the central hospital in the city, which was seven or eight hundred meters away from home.
"At that time, it was raining lightly and the road was slippery; Not to mention that I didn't wear pants and shoes, and the door of the house didn't have time to close.
Some netizens commented: "Not only is it barefoot, but also a sincere heart of a loved one." ”When people reach middle age, the affairs of their children are bigger than the sky. That's what the father really thinks. Of course, all this can only be experienced, not spoken.
When a person reaches the age of 50, his children are married one by one, and his father always wants to give something. Especially watching his daughter get married, the father's heart was full of mixed feelings, and he cried, but he didn't dare to cry.
Father's actions are more tangible than saying 10,000 words of "love you". Perhaps, my father was born to be a person who "says less and does more".
The father's silence is because of the responsibility, and he can only carry it hard.
"Huainanzi" said: "The loving father's beloved son is not for retribution." ”There are always some fathers who try their best to make you eat and dress well, and they are afraid that you will be cold. But on his own body, he was thinly dressed, and a few old clothes, sewn and mended many times, were still worn on his body.
As a post-70s generation, I used to wear old clothes when I was a child.
When I was in junior high school, I looked at my old clothes and said disgusting things. My mother blamed me for being ignorant. The father said, "Give the child my good shirt." It's good for me to wear old clothes, anyway, I go to work in the mountains every day, and it's always dirty.
When I graduated from junior high school, I wanted to go to secondary school. The family can't afford to pay for the tuition.
My father said, "I'll go work in the lime kiln in the village." The wages are not bad. After listening to my father's words, my mother turned her face away and cried. Because the lime kiln is very dusty and steaming, people often get dizzy inside.
For mothers, fathers are "husbands", and if they lose their husbands, it means that the rest of their lives will be difficult. This kind of truth is what I really realized after graduating from secondary school.
The father is the pillar of the family and has a high position. But it's not easy to do.How can you take on the responsibilities of a family without a few brushes? If you can't, you can only carry it.
My father, who didn't study for a few days, moved bricks at the construction site; The father in the countryside is farming, driving three wheels, raising fish and pigs; The father in the city works in a factory, sweeps the roads, and runs motorcycles. Really, not all fathers sit in the office blowing the air conditioner, they are all bosses, they can be big bosses, and they can be very majestic.
Most fathers are very cowardly people. In front of outsiders, they bent their waists for a bucket of rice; When I got home, I had to straighten my spine again.
"Dad, who is strong in his life, what can I do for you. Take it with little care, thank you for everything you do, and hold up our home with both hands.Now, you are grown, but your father is old. The tall image is gone, only the back of the rickets, which is getting clearer and clearer. Father has sent you to distant places again and again, but Father may not have "poetry and distance" in his life.
Again and again, the father waited at the door, hoping that his children would return safely. Only when his children arrived at the door did he breathe a sigh of relief and a little spirit in his eyes.
In fact, the elderly father, who is even more silent, endures the pain of his illness and is afraid of dragging down his children.
There are also some elderly fathers who leave forever before they have time to say goodbye to their children, and all their love is buried in the loess.
Father also has joys and sorrows, but it is difficult to perceive; Father also has tears, but in the bottom of his heart; Fathers are rarely praised, but they have no regrets.
My father is the most ordinary star in the sky, but he did his best to make us the brightest moon.